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Post by workingclassdog on Nov 11, 2016 22:15:18 GMT
The drama didn't stop after my last post. My sister posted a story on my page, in reply to my post about stop arguing and let's live with it and go forward. I since deleted all and any threads I could that were remotely political. And like Yvonne, I am taking a break. I don't know if I can go cold turkey, but I am done posting and maybe I'll just go in a look at pictures or whatever from friends... and if political, just do the whole ignore thing. I am very sad about it and for the first time in a LONG time, I have no desire to talk to my mom or sister and that kills me to no end.
PS.. I wonder if I am PMSing right now?? LOL. .I swear I never get like this unless it's about that time. Ugggggggggg.. I hate it...
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Post by Scrapper100 on Nov 11, 2016 22:33:11 GMT
I was really hoping after the election was over things would get better but they are now far worse because no one expected this ending. I know people aren't happy but it is what it is and we all have to hope he does a good job because if he doesn't it then America fails and that isn't an option. I just cannot believe the hate I have seen in the last 6 months from the Clinton supporters on FB it is insane. I have seen some from the other side but they were so mild in comparison and these have been people I respected, sorry but when you are that hateful no matter which side you support you loose my respect.
From things I have heard about people that have had real contact with Trump not the persona that he is actually down to earth and will talk to people that work for him the lowly construction workers (no I don't think there is anything wrong with being a construction worker) and such and treat them well - obviously hearsay but still I keep hearing more and more stories like this and think maybe he isn't all bad. This country needed a shake up - maybe not this big of one but hoping it will all work out and that the economy will improve and that they will come up with some options for healthcare and immigration that actually work - no not totally getting rid of Obamacare or deporting everyone I don't think anyone wants that.
I think many things in this article are right on.
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Post by llinin on Nov 11, 2016 22:44:49 GMT
I think Mike Rowe makes excellent points.
I think Hillary supporters need to separate their thoughts on WHY people voted for Trump from why they think they were wrong to vote for Trump.
You may think we are all misguided, he won't drain the swamp, whatever. That doesn't answer why people voted for him. Maybe if you could separate those things out it would be easier to listen to why people voted the way they did.
I have had very reasonable conversations with Bernie supporters about this. Our political leanings are vastly different. However, they have several theories on why people voted for Trump and many of them mirror why they voted for Bernie in the primaries.
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Post by gardengoddess on Nov 11, 2016 23:03:49 GMT
Great article. And for those who are poo pooing it, stay mad, refuse to acknowledge anything good Trump may do. I would rather stay positive and wait and see what actually happens Did you do the same for Obama? I hope so. I find it amusing that my most "Obama is a Kenyan Muslim" FB "friends" are now crying for unity.
This is what I'm seeing also in my limited time on social media. How hypocritical that Trump and his supporters are now calling for unity when he and they have spent the last eight years degrading our President, First Lady and their children and then expect the majority of voters to just "get over it"....sorry, it doesn't work that way.
The GOP may have won the election this time around, but I think many of his supporters will find the old adage "be careful what you wish for" coming true and the reality will be a slap in the face. I, for one hope that happens because then I can maybe breathe a sigh of relief that the dangerous and divisive policies that his supporters voted for was really just political fodder to sway the masses.
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Post by lurkingsince2001 on Nov 11, 2016 23:08:39 GMT
Did you do the same for Obama? I hope so. I find it amusing that my most "Obama is a Kenyan Muslim" FB "friends" are now crying for unity.
This is what I'm seeing also in my limited time on social media. How hypocritical that Trump and his supporters are now calling for unity when he and they have spent the last eight years degrading our President, First Lady and their children and then expect the majority of voters to just "get over it"....sorry, it doesn't work that way.
The GOP may have won the election this time around, but I think many of his supporters will find the old adage "be careful what you wish for" coming true and the reality will be a slap in the face. I, for one hope that happens because then I can maybe breathe a sigh of relief that the dangerous and divisive policies that his supporters voted for was really just political fodder to sway the masses.
I'm seeing the opposite as well. When people continued to complain about Obama after he won, his supporters called the whiners racists. Now that they are whining, all I'm hearing is "Don't invalidate our FEELINGS." SMH
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 11, 2016 23:15:33 GMT
Just because we don't agree with it doesn't mean we are "poo-pooing" it. We simply don't agree with his analysis. I really do hope I am proven wrong about Trump. God help us if I'm not. Given the rhetoric of his campaign, I think it's fair for some of us to have low expectations and be going into this with some trepidation. I agree. I would love to be wrong, but seeing the potential lists of cabinet members, I don't think I'm going to be (re: the values and rights I hold dear). We (Americans) have different interpretations of "good." Farewell, reproductive rights! So, yes, I will stay angry, but also hopeful and determined. SaveI was thinking along these same lines myself. I'm lucky that I'm close to menopause, but I have a very young daughter to worry about who will potentially have to deal with the fallout from this administration for decades.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 11, 2016 23:25:59 GMT
If they really wanted to "drain the swamp" they wouldn't have returned 90% of the same folks to it. It's all BS. They voted for the same old Senators, Congresspeople and Governors. And Trump is already putting in long time insiders. So much for " draining the swamp". And it's getting filled w/Heritage Foundations. The same make-the-rich-richer, make-the-poor-poorer policies of the past 30 years. They only care about low taxes for billionaires and high profits for corporate shareholders. I would have believed that here if the voters would have ousted all of the incumbents running, but an overwhelming number of them got re-elected. Even the ones that have been sitting on their hands doing nothing for a long time. You know what they say about doing the same thing time after time and expecting different results? Yeah, that.
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Post by hop2 on Nov 12, 2016 0:03:09 GMT
I think Mike Rowe makes excellent points. I think Hillary supporters need to separate their thoughts on WHY people voted for Trump from why they think they were wrong to vote for Trump. You may think we are all misguided, he won't drain the swamp, whatever. That doesn't answer why people voted for him. Maybe if you could separate those things out it would be easier to listen to why people voted the way they did. I have had very reasonable conversations with Bernie supporters about this. Our political leanings are vastly different. However, they have several theories on why people voted for Trump and many of them mirror why they voted for Bernie in the primaries. That is all very true. I did not mean to imply that Trump voters are misguided just that I lack the understanding of why they think he is that much of a change. He is and always has been part of the political establishment, just in the funding side of it as opposed to the funded side. But perhaps he spoke to them on issues important to them that they felt they would make that leap. There are plenty of reasons to vote for him. You don't like NAFTA You don't like big government You don't like the ACA You don't like - other various current policies that the current president implied Hillary would keep. What ever the reason it didn't mean that your vote was uninformed or misguided, it doesn't mean your racist or anything either. I didn't 'like' the candidate I voted for either. I wish people could just look at each other and see each other instead of just 'other'
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2016 1:25:41 GMT
... From things I have heard about people that have had real contact with Trump not the persona that he is actually down to earth and will talk to people that work for him the lowly construction workers (no I don't think there is anything wrong with being a construction worker) and such and treat them well - obviously hearsay but still I keep hearing more and more stories like this and think maybe he isn't all bad. This country needed a shake up - From things I have heard about people that have worked with Trump, he is actually out to stiff you after you put in your long month's work and send him a bill. He'll either not pay you and force small businesses to take him to court, or he'll declare bankruptcy and all those invoices magically go away: "In another case, the Philadelphia cabinet business of Edward Friel Jr. was never paid more than $83,000 for work completed in 1984, the weight of which Friel's son said started the fall of the company. USA Today analyzed at least 60 lawsuits and more than 200 mechanic's liens for the report... The court records showed not only a pattern of not paying, but also of Trump companies tying up small businesses and individuals in lengthy legal dealings until they either settle, give up or sometimes go out of business altogether. " Oh, we're going to get a shake up all right. And most people are going to get shaken down.
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Post by AussieMeg on Nov 12, 2016 1:37:33 GMT
I am very sad about it and for the first time in a LONG time, I have no desire to talk to my mom or sister and that kills me to no end. I'm sorry that you're going through this. From what I have been reading here and elsewhere I'm sure the same thing is happening in many families. It's still quite raw, I'm sure it will blow over with your mum and sister soon. (((Hugs)))
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Post by lisae on Nov 12, 2016 2:13:59 GMT
I think some people voted for Trump for the reasons Mike Rowe mentioned.
Some people voted for him because he was the Republican candidate. Whether it is lower taxes, pro-life, Supreme Court nominees or whatever, many people are going to vote Republican no matter what. Just like many people will vote Democrat no matter what.
I also think a lot of people voted for Trump because he wasn't Hillary. Just like many people voted for Hillary because she wasn't Trump. It was a choice between the lesser of two evils. We Democrats lost because we greatly underestimated the number of people who would never vote for Hillary Clinton. And the mistake we made was not figuring this out way sooner. Because the people who would never vote for Clinton where there from day one. Either they didn't want another Clinton (or Bush if Jeb had been nominated) or they distrust her. There may even be some people who just won't vote for a woman but I think that really is a minority.
The other reason she lost is that she did not tell people what she would do for them at least not in her ads. Trump did. While most of his ideas seem completely unworkable to me, they were something tangible. I read both of the Op-ed pieces in USAToday just a day or two before the election. I'd already voted and had long before made up my mind but I was curious. I have to say Trump's piece was more persuasive. Her piece focused on 3 things, at least one of them didn't really impact anyone I know at all. She never mentioned healthcare and even if those of us who support the ACA know it needs improving. Living in a swing state I saw ads constantly and all of them were running clips of the awful things Trump had said. Hearing them over and over wasn't going to sway someone who hadn't already been persuaded.
Of course it is easy to see this now. But I think the media told her she was winning and no one wants to be the one casting doubt.
Then again maybe this is all just about making a change. We made a change 8 years ago and 8 years before that and 8 years before that. Maybe the elections just run in cycles like the economy and no matter how much you mess with them, you are going to switch back and forth.
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Post by sillyrabbit on Nov 12, 2016 3:50:47 GMT
I didn't vote for Trump (or Hillary) but my DH did as did nearly all of his coworkers. That includes his Hispanic coworkers, his African American coworkers, his gay coworkers, and his female coworkers. The reason was simple...he's a coal miner. Hillary directly threatened their livelihood and financial security. I think sometimes people overcomplicate things and see larger philosophical issues at play when really it's as simple as self-preservation. Just my two cents worth.
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Post by scrapaddict702 on Nov 12, 2016 4:22:16 GMT
If they really wanted to "drain the swamp" they wouldn't have returned 90% of the same folks to it. It's all BS. They voted for the same old Senators, Congresspeople and Governors. And Trump is already putting in long time insiders. So much for " draining the swamp". And it's getting filled w/Heritage Foundations. The same make-the-rich-richer, make-the-poor-poorer policies of the past 30 years. They only care about low taxes for billionaires and high profits for corporate shareholders. I have to agree with this. I like Mike Rowe and appreciate what he's doing to bring interest back to the skilled trades. But I just don't agree with his take - it feels like an attempt to put lipstick on a very ugly pig. This continued insistence on a false equivalency between the two candidates, saying that they were both terrible, or equally terrible, is baffling to me. I continue to believe that half our country has made a very dangerous choice that could set us back fifty years, even if our new commander in chief doesn't get us into WWIII via Twitter, which is a real concern. That said, I hope I'm wrong. I would love to be wrong. Hugely, bigly wrong. Based on the campaign he just ran, though, I don't think I am. Yep. How many empires have lasted forever?? None?? We aren't any different. The rich get richer while everyone else gets poorer. It's hard to tell when people are continually adding more new people to the population than are dying out. But we are at a point now where it's too expensive for many to have kids AND have a life of doing more than getting a few weeks of paid leave every year. Retirement is now a joke, the people who spent their lives paying into SS are unlikely to see any of it in the very near future, and because many people are waiting longer to have or are foregoing having children altogether means that our population isn't growing the way it used to (we are probably going to see our population decreasing very soon, maybe we would have already if not for immigration)...that means growth can't be sustained and it becomes even more obvious that the money is going straight to the top. Decades ago, it wasn't a bad idea to have your own small business, but businesses have merged, bought each other out, etc and are such empires now that it's nearly impossible to get your foot in the door for much of anything because someone can make it cheaper and sell it cheaper than you could ever hope to do. Small business is all but gone, which means that money is going to big companies instead of staying within our communities, making the money recycled throughout the community less and less...because the rich aren't spending it and putting it back into the economy, they are rich because of the resources that is horded and not spent. Eventually, that cannot be sustained and the empire topples, to start anew and repeat the process. When you think about it like that, communism isn't that bad of an idea. Same input and same output for everyone can be sustained. Sure, it might squelch the desire to innovate, but you don't end up with the huge collapse at the end. Am I saying that's what's best? Absolutely not, but I can definitely see the appeal. I didn't follow Bernie much, but from my husband (who was a major Bernie supporter), I gather that his premise was to try and avoid that collapse by changing how much goes to the top to try and avoid that collapse. The the thing is...when you have more, what incentive do you really have to get by with less? Most people that have more don't have more because they are charitable or behaving for the greater good of those around them. They have more because they are ruthless business people who see profit and their own gain over anything else, including the suffering of families because 'it makes good business sense to go bankrupt'. Employees don't win when companies go bankrupt, but the people at the top still get their massive paydays. Donald Trump won't bring about change. He's spent his entire life (one that is closer to over than not, decreasing the incentive even further) benefiting from the system that keeps giving him more and who wants to give up having it that good, even if you don't come close to even needing it? Certainly not him. He's greedy, he's said that salaries are already too high (easy to say when you are extremely wealthy). He's going to further adjust the system so he continues to benefit and probably so he benefits even more and we end up with less even faster. Hillary probably wouldn't have done much better because she's one of the elite. In order to not end up crashing and burning, our government needs to vote out EVERY career politician and bring in people who aren't rich...but that isn't likely, because it comes back to a question of resources, they have the resources (financial and personal) to bury any true do-gooder. We created this system of putting the greedy in office to represent us, but in the end, because it's not infinitely sustainable, we all lose and start over at the same place.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 12, 2016 4:23:33 GMT
... From things I have heard about people that have had real contact with Trump not the persona that he is actually down to earth and will talk to people that work for him the lowly construction workers (no I don't think there is anything wrong with being a construction worker) and such and treat them well - obviously hearsay but still I keep hearing more and more stories like this and think maybe he isn't all bad. This country needed a shake up - From things I have heard about people that have worked with Trump, he is actually out to stiff you after you put in your long month's work and send him a bill. He'll either not pay you and force small businesses to take him to court, or he'll declare bankruptcy and all those invoices magically go away: "In another case, the Philadelphia cabinet business of Edward Friel Jr. was never paid more than $83,000 for work completed in 1984, the weight of which Friel's son said started the fall of the company. USA Today analyzed at least 60 lawsuits and more than 200 mechanic's liens for the report... The court records showed not only a pattern of not paying, but also of Trump companies tying up small businesses and individuals in lengthy legal dealings until they either settle, give up or sometimes go out of business altogether. " Oh, we're going to get a shake up all right. And most people are going to get shaken down. My neighbor personally knows one of the contractors that did work in good faith and got stiffed for a lot of money. He was telling my DH about it so of course I only got the Reader's Digest condensed version of it with no details, but I guess it was pretty ugly. We're self employed and I know if something like that happened to us, it would be devastating.
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Post by snowsilver on Nov 12, 2016 4:29:15 GMT
Lisae said:
Lisa I just want to tell you how much I have appreciated your posts over the past couple days. We don't agree politically, but I do like your fairness of perception. I really liked the post above.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 12, 2016 4:48:50 GMT
I didn't vote for Trump (or Hillary) but my DH did as did nearly all of his coworkers. That includes his Hispanic coworkers, his African American coworkers, his gay coworkers, and his female coworkers. The reason was simple...he's a coal miner. Hillary directly threatened their livelihood and financial security. I think sometimes people overcomplicate things and see larger philosophical issues at play when really it's as simple as self-preservation. Just my two cents worth. My husband was a coal miner for 18 1/2 years until he went to work one day and there was a sign saying that the mine was closed indefinitely. He and his fellow miners never went back to work in the coal mine. So when Hillary said she was going to shut down coal companies, he took that very personally. It's been over 20 years since the mine closed and that region has never recovered economically. He was 18 months shy of a full pension and his pension is a whopping $260 a month. I was surprised that Trump took Pennsylvania until DH reminded me that it was probably the coal miners that turned the tide there. DH now has a master's degree and works for a large aviation company so good things do come from change, but it's a long road.
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