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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2014 1:22:16 GMT
SIL was diagnosed with cancer sometime last year. No one except dh (her brother) believed her. She has been estranged from her mom for 18 months and sister for years. Well today she went into hospice with very little time left.
So very sad. She lives in Wyoming and mom and sister live in California. We live in Arkansas and plan on going to visit in 2 weeks if she will allow us. Kind of breaks my heart that she will die alone. She has kind of alianated (sp) herself from everyone but that is her choice. She's only 53
right now now were dealing with my mom and stage 4 lung cancer and a sweet friend with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. All do not have long to live
CANCER SUCKS
Thank you for listening
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moodyblue
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Post by moodyblue on Aug 11, 2014 1:24:30 GMT
Yeah, it does suck - big time. I'm sorry for all you are dealing with now, and the cancer patients and their families.
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Post by moveablefeast on Aug 11, 2014 1:26:02 GMT
I'm so sorry. That is a lot to deal with at once. Wishing you peace in the days to come.
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Post by akathy on Aug 11, 2014 1:29:21 GMT
I'm sorry
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Post by rhonda on Aug 11, 2014 1:31:05 GMT
Cancer does suck. Im so sorry. That is a lot to deal with.
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Post by woodysbetty on Aug 11, 2014 1:31:43 GMT
So very sorry...how overwhelming......
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Post by pattipea on Aug 11, 2014 1:35:46 GMT
That is sure a heavy load you're carrying. Cancer does suck. I'm so sorry.
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Post by scrapngranny on Aug 11, 2014 1:37:36 GMT
Cancer does suck!!! I hope your SIL will allow you come and see her. No one should die alone. Thankfully, with hospice she won't be entirely alone, even if there isn't any family with her. Prayers for your loved ones.
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Post by MaryC on Aug 11, 2014 1:41:30 GMT
So very sorry you are dealing with this.
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Post by styxgirl on Aug 11, 2014 1:42:02 GMT
So sorry to hear this. Prayers said for everyone who is battling.
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Post by marianne on Aug 11, 2014 1:44:35 GMT
I'm so sorry you're dealing with so much pain and sorrow. I wish you peace.
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Post by caro on Aug 11, 2014 1:45:52 GMT
I 'm sorry for all you are going through.
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Post by lovetodigi on Aug 11, 2014 1:45:56 GMT
I am so sorry. It must seem so overwhelming for so many that are so close to you, to be battling cancer. (((HUG))) Prayers.
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Post by sillyrabbit on Aug 11, 2014 1:47:08 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by anonrefugee on Aug 11, 2014 1:49:30 GMT
I'm sorry, hope you get to see her.
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Post by sugarmama on Aug 11, 2014 2:14:00 GMT
I'm so sorry. I hope you get to visit her and can offer her some comfort.
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Post by theboydbunch on Aug 11, 2014 2:30:13 GMT
Cancer does suck. I'm sorry and hope you are able to visit your SIL
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Post by mztfied on Aug 11, 2014 2:36:41 GMT
Cancer is so awful. The circumstances make it all the more unhappy. Hope you get to see your SIL soon.
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Post by ~Zoey~ on Aug 11, 2014 2:37:50 GMT
I'm so sorry that you and your family are dealing with all of this. I'll be thinking of you, your families, and those of your sweet friend. as you move through the next several months.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2014 2:45:45 GMT
Thank you everyone your kind words mean a lot. I'm so glad SIL is in hospice unfortunately weve dealt with it in 2009 & 2010. It is a wonderful place for her to spend her remaining time. They are even allowing her to bring her cat. I have never heard of that. Her cat is her world so that makes dh and I feel better.
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Post by flanz on Aug 11, 2014 4:43:31 GMT
I'm sorry you have so many loved ones suffering from cancer. hugs to you!
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Post by cadoodlebug on Aug 11, 2014 4:49:15 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Aug 11, 2014 4:49:59 GMT
I'm sorry
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Post by totravel on Aug 11, 2014 4:51:47 GMT
I'm very sorry.
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Post by totravel on Aug 11, 2014 4:52:17 GMT
I'm very sorry.
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Aug 11, 2014 5:01:31 GMT
I am so sorry. You're right, cancer does SUCK.
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Post by shirleyujest46 on Aug 11, 2014 5:11:13 GMT
sorry to read about your SIL and Mom and friend, at least your SIL will be comforted some by having her cat with her. I know you did not ask, but I will keep all of you in my prayers.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2014 5:29:10 GMT
I am sorry. Cancer sucks. it should be illegal it is so bad and then dealt with accordingly. Prayers for your SIL, Mom and friend. Gosh that is a lot to deal with at one time. I hope you have the strength to get through it. With love, Elannah
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Post by lucyg on Aug 11, 2014 6:55:23 GMT
That is a lot of horribleness to have to deal with all at once. I'm so sorry.
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Post by anniebygaslight on Aug 11, 2014 6:59:11 GMT
I'm sorry. x
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