anniebygaslight
Drama Llama
I'd love a cup of tea. #1966
Posts: 7,402
Location: Third Rock from the sun.
Jun 28, 2014 14:08:19 GMT
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Post by anniebygaslight on Aug 11, 2014 15:56:54 GMT
How tragic. I'm so sorry.
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Post by peano on Aug 11, 2014 15:59:18 GMT
I'm so sorry about your friend.
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Post by kristalina on Aug 11, 2014 15:59:55 GMT
I am so so sorry. As someone who had a family member go missing, (and not found for many months) I am always relieved for the loved ones of a found person, even if it is not the outcome they were hoping for. The not knowing was worse for us than facing our loved one's death.
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Post by gillyp on Aug 11, 2014 16:02:04 GMT
How sad. I am very sorry for your loss.
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Post by PinkPrincess77 on Aug 11, 2014 16:03:09 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss! How devastating.
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scrapnnana
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,349
Jun 29, 2014 18:58:47 GMT
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Post by scrapnnana on Aug 11, 2014 16:04:05 GMT
I am so sorry for your heartbreaking and unexpected loss.
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Post by emelle64 on Aug 11, 2014 16:05:43 GMT
I'm so sorry.
Emelle
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Post by Goldynn on Aug 11, 2014 16:06:33 GMT
What a shock this must be, so sorry for your loss.
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IAmUnoriginal
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 2,894
Jun 25, 2014 23:27:45 GMT
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Post by IAmUnoriginal on Aug 11, 2014 16:07:48 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by christine58 on Aug 11, 2014 16:07:56 GMT
I am so sorry
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Post by traceys on Aug 11, 2014 16:10:13 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss.
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Oct 9, 2024 18:22:34 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2014 16:10:57 GMT
That's awful. I am so sorry.
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Post by Memo on Aug 11, 2014 16:11:41 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by ChicagoKTS on Aug 11, 2014 16:11:39 GMT
So very sorry.
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Post by gizzy on Aug 11, 2014 16:11:55 GMT
I'm so sorry. How horrible.
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Post by katlaw on Aug 11, 2014 16:12:56 GMT
I am so sorry, how sad.
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scrappinghappy
Pearl Clutcher
“I’m late, I’m late for a very important date. No time to say “Hello.” Goodbye. I’m late...."
Posts: 4,307
Jun 26, 2014 19:30:06 GMT
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Post by scrappinghappy on Aug 11, 2014 16:13:23 GMT
So sorry, May her memory always be a blessing
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Post by octoberbeauty on Aug 11, 2014 16:18:22 GMT
I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend.
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Post by cade387 on Aug 11, 2014 16:18:29 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by joyfromny on Aug 11, 2014 16:22:44 GMT
OMG, so so sorry for your loss. Prayer for your friends family and you.
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duopenotti
Junior Member
Posts: 70
Location: The Netherlands..the real Orange Country
Jun 30, 2014 15:02:10 GMT
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Post by duopenotti on Aug 11, 2014 16:25:30 GMT
I'm so sorry
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Post by sisterbdsq on Aug 11, 2014 16:38:35 GMT
Thank you everyone. I was talking to another friend on Saturday and we both had "the feeling" as she had been missing for several days at that point. We all understand the "talk a walk to cool off" behavior. I'm one of them, too. I said I didn't want to get the call that she had been murdered and somehow, I know this is going to sound all kinds of screwed up, somehow I am more at peace knowing that it was at her own hand than at the hand of someone else. There will always be unanswered questions, but at least there is no reason to prolong this tragedy by looking for someone responsible or waiting for justice. She can be laid to rest and everyone can start their personal journey of healing. I am heartbroken for her family and especially her boyfriend. Not being able to say goodbye is a pain I have lived with for many years. I have been wondering if I should reach out to him with support if needed. Being the one left to live life after your partner chooses to leave their life is hard to deal with and knowing others have stood in your shoes can be comforting. I am having a hard time putting into words what I want to say to him.
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raindancer
Pearl Clutcher
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Jun 26, 2014 20:10:29 GMT
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Post by raindancer on Aug 11, 2014 16:39:35 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by Linda on Aug 11, 2014 16:40:39 GMT
prayers for the repose of her soul and comfort for all who loved her
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Post by moveablefeast on Aug 11, 2014 16:43:25 GMT
So, so sorry. A friend of mine also went missing and was later found dead, a little more than a year ago. I am so sorry you are going through this. It is hard and unsettling. Wishing you and all who loved her peace.
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J u l e e
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,531
Location: Cincinnati
Jun 28, 2014 2:50:47 GMT
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Post by J u l e e on Aug 11, 2014 16:44:21 GMT
Thank you everyone. I was talking to another friend on Saturday and we both had "the feeling" as she had been missing for several days at that point. We all understand the "talk a walk to cool off" behavior. I'm one of them, too. I said I didn't want to get the call that she had been murdered and somehow, I know this is going to sound all kinds of screwed up, somehow I am more at peace knowing that it was at her own hand than at the hand of someone else. There will always be unanswered questions, but at least there is no reason to prolong this tragedy by looking for someone responsible or waiting for justice. She can be laid to rest and everyone can start their personal journey of healing. I am heartbroken for her family and especially her boyfriend. Not being able to say goodbye is a pain I have lived with for many years. I have been wondering if I should reach out to him with support if needed. Being the one left to live life after your partner chooses to leave their life is hard to deal with and knowing others have stood in your shoes can be comforting. I am having a hard time putting into words what I want to say to him.
It's not screwed up to think that way at all. I get it. And I think you could just share with her boyfriend what you wrote, and I bolded, above. I think he would appreciate that from you. I'm so sorry.
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maurchclt
Pearl Clutcher
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Jul 4, 2014 16:53:27 GMT
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Post by maurchclt on Aug 11, 2014 16:45:35 GMT
I'm so sorry, hugs
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pudgygroundhog
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,648
Location: The Grand Canyon
Jun 25, 2014 20:18:39 GMT
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Aug 11, 2014 16:50:44 GMT
Thank you everyone. I was talking to another friend on Saturday and we both had "the feeling" as she had been missing for several days at that point. We all understand the "talk a walk to cool off" behavior. I'm one of them, too. I said I didn't want to get the call that she had been murdered and somehow, I know this is going to sound all kinds of screwed up, somehow I am more at peace knowing that it was at her own hand than at the hand of someone else. There will always be unanswered questions, but at least there is no reason to prolong this tragedy by looking for someone responsible or waiting for justice. She can be laid to rest and everyone can start their personal journey of healing. I am heartbroken for her family and especially her boyfriend. Not being able to say goodbye is a pain I have lived with for many years. I have been wondering if I should reach out to him with support if needed. Being the one left to live life after your partner chooses to leave their life is hard to deal with and knowing others have stood in your shoes can be comforting. I am having a hard time putting into words what I want to say to him.
I'm so sorry. I get your reasoning. It's a tragedy no matter how she died, but I can see how other scenarios would be more upsetting. Reach out to her boyfriend. You don't need to say anything profound. Just tell him you've been there, are thinking of him, and are there for him.
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DaisyDoodles
Full Member
Posts: 449
Jun 25, 2014 20:32:07 GMT
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Post by DaisyDoodles on Aug 11, 2014 16:50:52 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss of your friend
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Post by 1lear on Aug 11, 2014 16:50:50 GMT
My condolences-so sorry for you and her family.
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