How to comfort child w broken bone?

I would definately ask about his uniform being modified.

Otherwise, I have no real advice or experience other than to remind you to keep on top of his pain medicine.

You both have my sympathies. I've been through this with dd as she has broken both arms. If you get permission to modify his uniform that will help. I found that over sized shirts and elastic pants/dresses worked best. I took dd to the beauty shop once a week for a good hair washing. If the doctor gave him pain meds then give him those or children's tylenol. After about a week dd's pain had just about gone away. After a couple of weeks you will both find a rhythm that works. Dd was better able to dress herself with one hand when she no longer hurt. Hugs to both of you.

My son had a knee injury (lots of blood, stitches oh god what a mess). I think I comforted him with anything under the sun that he wanted. Food, Lego, Thomas the Tank Engine and maybe money, too. He has liked money for a long time it seems.

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I broke my elbow and had surgery to repair it. Did his break require surgery and does he have permanent screws or pins in it now? I agree with the advise to provide a pillow to prop his arm on during sleep, and even when laying on the couch for TV. It is surprising how just the weight of your hand and wrist causes painful pressure on the elbow. Make sure he doesn't use that arm for any lifting and follow the final instructions of the doctor as to how much he can carry on that side. I still bend my arm at the elbow and hold it close to my body before sliding grocery bags on that side. I can't hold it straight down to lift anything anymore. His elbow may also kind of lock up in the bent position due to being held that way to heal. I ended up having an apparatus made to stretch my arm straight again so that it matched the arm on the other side. It will probably take a few months before he feels it is all back to normal. Well, I shouldn't say that. I'm an old fogey and it took mine a long time to feel normal. He may heal a lot faster and not have any difficulty with it freezing in one position since he is a child.

Oh, poor guy!

I agree with the others, it's important to give him pain meds on a schedule to stay ahead of the pain. I'd even get up in the night the first couple nights to give it.

Other than that, I pretty much gave my DS whatever he wanted the first few days.

Kids bounce back quickly, thank goodness!

My daughter broke her arm when she was 5. The staff just coped. They helped her as needed in the bathroom and with her pants, someone carried her tray for her in the lunch room. There never was any discussions about it. Daughter showed up with a cast one morning and it was automatically handled.

Oh man! That poor kid.i wouldn't hesitate to ask the school about changing his uniform in to elastic waist pants.

When DH broke his elbow, his greatest complaint was constipation from pain meds. So, get your DS eating lots of fruit, and consider stool softeners. Try to keep him as physically active as possible.

In our elbow experience, we learned that there will be regular physical therapy needed. He had sessions, and I had to exercise the arm 4 times daily. That may be hard to fit into the daily school routine.

Good luck! It really will heal more quickly than you realise!

My DD broke her collar bone and slept in our oversized chair all propped up for a good week. It was very painful. I hope your son is on the mend soon.

The uniform change hopefully won't be an issue at school. Will you be able to get a polo shirt on him? We went with very gently putting button down shirts or big tshirts on and yes, stretchy waist pants. The school will probably ask a buddy to help get his books and stuff together too. Just remind him to be really careful about leaving space around him at school. My DD got bumped a couple times and she learned to step back to avoid the pain.

Oh, poor guy. I'd definitely go with the short sleeve. Injured arm in first and then around the back and then good arm, then reverse taking it off. It caused the least amount of jarring. If you can get a size bigger, even better. No pulling to button it. Good luck.

My son broke his arm recently too and is still in a cast that goes up to his bicep. We have a lame story too- he fell off the end of our bed. (He was also told by literally every person we told that he needed a better story! LOL) We tried to buy the cast covers, but it simply wasn't long enough to go all the way over the cast (close but not quite). We've been using a trash bags and waterproof bandage tape. It's working well. Thankfully, no uniforms so that hasn't been an issue. Shirt sleeve shirts will be a must. Cast arm first putting it on, and last taking it off.
You'll definitely want to do lots of elevation amd ice for the first several days. Don't let him stick anything in the cast to scratch when it gets itchy either (and it WILL) because if he breaks the skin from scratching it could get infected. Ice packs seemed to help him a little bit when it has gotten too itchy.
The first 2 weeks are the roughest and it gets better after that. Mine stretched a nerve so he had some tingling and pain from that. The swelling in his fingers took almost 2 weeks to go down also. But watch for the color - blue or white is bad and needs to be checked out quickly. If you press the fingers and they pink up quickly, that is good.
You may also check with the doctor about getting him a piece of felt that has adhesive on the back to wrap around the edges of the cast if he has any trouble with it rubbing and creating irritation.

OH dear. I instantly cried when I heard about him screaming in pain. This breaks my heart. My ds dgs would be getting literally anything he wanted. He will be in my prayers.