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Post by marzbar71 on Aug 22, 2014 0:14:52 GMT
If we wind up doing lunch, I'll come back and update. I responded that it sounded great, so we'll see what happens.
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Post by femalebusiness on Aug 22, 2014 0:21:24 GMT
He's flirting and he asked you to lunch. Go for it girl!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2014 1:31:05 GMT
You are how old? 35? 40? He is flirting. The rules have changed but that is flirting!
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 22, 2014 1:37:58 GMT
in". Then....on my timeline this morning, he posted something about maybe meeting for lunch sometime since he's in the area and finding some good restaurants, etc. And you responded, "Absolutely, what kind of food do you like?"
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Post by Aheartfeltcard on Aug 22, 2014 2:29:15 GMT
Not flirting but showing interest. Enjoy!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2014 4:35:51 GMT
Too early to tell. Just go and enjoy.
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Post by pelirroja on Aug 22, 2014 9:59:08 GMT
You said great but you need to add a little more to your response. Ask him what his food preference is: Italian, steakhouse or Japanese, for example, and then suggest two choices to pick from. (After all, you live there and he's new in town so you'll need to make the suggestions). Let him decide which one and see if he throws it back in your court. If he asks which one you recommend, then yes, that's a good sign. After you get to yes to lunch, you'll need to ask him which day is better, Wednesday or Friday? Make the day you meet two days or so after he's confirmed his availability: you're a busy girl after all.
Flirting is a great opportunity to get a man to talk about himself, something men generally love to do. For you to flirt back with him, you need to add more words to your sentences. Flirting is like ping-pong: say a little something that he will need to respond back to (the proverbial open-ended question). Besides, flirting is waaaaayyy easier in person. So, for now, it's just lunch: go have fun and enjoy yourself. No expectations, just lunch.
And if lunch goes well and you like him, as you walk with him out of the restaurant, let him know that it was such a pleasant surprise to spend time with him and it would be fun to do it again. Maybe offer to show him around his new hometown/area, attend a local sporting event, etc. If you're interested in seeing him again, try to get a follow-up appointment at the end of lunch. And if it was awful, it was just lunch, and you won't do that again, right? You'll do just fine, I'm sure. Keep us posted!
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Post by jmurray on Aug 22, 2014 13:49:41 GMT
Agree with all the other posters: go to lunch... you will soon know if he's flirting or it's just friends. But don't go expecting anything more than lunch with a friend.
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Post by redayh on Aug 22, 2014 13:51:39 GMT
Yes, he is flirting.
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Post by mcscrapper on Aug 22, 2014 14:06:48 GMT
Not flirting but showing interest. Enjoy! That's basically what I was going to post. FB and social media is a funny thing. It is very easy to read more or even less into what someone has "said." I say go to lunch with the guy and see if he does flirt! Of course, you may have to initiate that but there's no harm in a lunch date. meredith
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Post by Scrapbrat on Aug 22, 2014 14:16:28 GMT
To me, flirting is playful, sometimes witty banter that has an undertone to it. This isn't that. He's saying pretty much straight out that he wants to have lunch with you. Could be as friends, or could lead to more.
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Post by Nicole in TX on Aug 22, 2014 14:20:30 GMT
Yes, go to lunch and then come back and give the Peas all the details!
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