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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 15:04:02 GMT
I read this article the other day and it made me sick. Eighteen members of the fraternity are being charged with a crime, 8 for involuntary manslaughter. There were security cameras in the frat house that captured the entire scene, except for the falling down the stairs. If they would have listened to the first kid and called 911 in the beginning, this young man may still be alive. My heart hurts for his family. How do adults allow this to happen to a fellow student? I am dumbfounded.
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Post by bc2ca on May 8, 2017 15:12:07 GMT
I'm glad so many are being charged. The depraved indifference is dumbfounding in this case.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 15:14:19 GMT
Same here. Is there not enough natural/"act of God" misery on earth for some people? They have to go out of their way to invent ways to inflict pain on each other and then celebrate it and call it "tradition?" What will it take until people grow up (emotionally) stop with the infantile "tests" of loyalty that are usually spun up with anxiety, fear, hurt and sometimes even death? "At first, Cordell Davis thought his fellow pledge had just had too much to drink, he said. They were new initiates to Beta Theta Pi fraternity at Penn State and had just run the gantlet — a series of stations where they guzzled beer, wine and vodka as fast as they could.... At about 1 a.m., fraternity brothers put a backpack full of books on Piazza, who had thrown up and was twitching, in an attempt to keep him from rolling onto his back, according to the grand jurors’ findings. After 3 a.m., Piazza tried to stand but fell, hitting his head on the floor. He fell again at 4 a.m. At 5 a.m., he fell, hit his head on an iron railing and landed on a stone floor. He got up, trying to get to the front door, but fell and hit his head on the door. Fraternity brothers stepped over him, according to the findings. After 7 a.m., Piazza fell down the basement stairs again. When fraternity members found him, unconscious, cold to the touch, and with blood on his face the next morning, it was more than 40 minutes before they called 911." www.washingtonpost.com/news/grade-point/wp/2017/05/07/penn-state-student-said-frat-brothers-ignored-pleas-to-help-classmate-who-died-after-hazing/
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Post by busy on May 8, 2017 15:20:30 GMT
I read a lengthy article on it last night, detailing the entire timeline and it's simply horrifying.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 8, 2017 15:23:04 GMT
That is just all kinds of messed up. How sad for that poor kid and his family.
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Post by ntsf on May 8, 2017 15:23:12 GMT
I think most kids are growing these days without any training on how to act in an emergency.. maybe if we put basic first aid/cpr in mandatory health classes in high school.. how to react to natural disasters.. like evacuate if authorities tell you to... and how to deal with basic issues we come across.
my kids got an earful from me growing up, all have taken first aid and all were involved in scouts that talked about it a lot.
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Post by psiluvu on May 8, 2017 15:31:58 GMT
That poor family. How tragic!
I like that so many are being charged. I don't thinks kids need training on how to act in an emergency situation to be decent human beings with common sense.
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Post by ntsf on May 8, 2017 15:41:41 GMT
common sense is only something you have learned and think everyone would know.. but it is not. common sense only can come with direct instruction or life experience.
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Post by scrapcat on May 8, 2017 15:42:26 GMT
This is big news here, and now it seems to be national news. It is very sad and tragic.
What's hard is I am sure not all the kids are "bad kids", i'm sure they've had the training and speeches and their parents probably tell them what to do, yet no one actually did the right thing.
Very hard to see from all sides.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on May 8, 2017 15:42:53 GMT
I think most kids are growing these days without any training on how to act in an emergency.. maybe if we put basic first aid/cpr in mandatory health classes in high school.. how to react to natural disasters.. like evacuate if authorities tell you to... and how to deal with basic issues we come across. my kids got an earful from me growing up, all have taken first aid and all were involved in scouts that talked about it a lot. I would trouble believing that the fraternity members had NOT had some kind of emergency training. Certainly their insurance policy would have required certain members of the chapter undergo training - and the President and VP who are charged would be among those. It is not clear to me from the article whether the President was aware, but it is clear that the VP was aware of an issue. A big national fraternity like this has to have policies in place, and I bet they can show that the chapter leadership was trained on the policies. There are only a couple of big insurance companies that insure Greek organizations. Every new member of my organization gets training that includes response to alcohol poisoning. That was the scariest things to me as a chapter adviser - that my girls could tell the difference between "get them to a safe place and let them sleep it off" and "this is an emergency situation."
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Post by liya on May 8, 2017 15:43:40 GMT
My DD shared the story with me last night and read me the timeline. I was horrified. I could not believe not one person called 911. My heart broke just hearing it. I would hope my children if ever confronted with a situation like that would do the right thing. Alcohol and peer pressure can cloud judgment but for this situation to go on as long as it did is pure evil. I feel so bad for the family.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 15:47:03 GMT
I think most kids are growing these days without any training on how to act in an emergency.. maybe if we put basic first aid/cpr in mandatory health classes in high school.. how to react to natural disasters.. like evacuate if authorities tell you to... and how to deal with basic issues we come across. my kids got an earful from me growing up, all have taken first aid and all were involved in scouts that talked about it a lot. One kid wanted to call 911. He was shoved against a wall and told to shut up. That was around 11 pm. I think it has more to do with basic empathy and being able to stand up for what's right. They all seemed more concerned about themselves than this poor young man.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 15:48:06 GMT
This poor young man was tortured. Sickening.
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Post by smcast on May 8, 2017 15:53:39 GMT
Terrible! I don't understand rush or hazing to begin with. We all know it happens but like another pea said, blind eyes are turned.😈
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Post by scorpeao on May 8, 2017 15:54:21 GMT
I couldn't even finish reading the article...it's horrifying.
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Post by annie on May 8, 2017 15:55:22 GMT
Devastating!
I think when alcohol is involved, it greatly affects how you react to things, and your common sense is often out the window. Many times in my college days we would binge drink and do totally asinine things. Thus I can see why what seems TOTALLY obvious to all of us now, was not so obvious to them because of their extreme levels of intoxication. It is a shame that there wasn't a sober person there to see what was truly happening.
I am glad they are being charged. Hazing like this disgusts me.
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Post by compeateropeator on May 8, 2017 15:55:28 GMT
I am so sad for the family of that pledge and also for everyone whose life is impacted by this horrific event. I think people are much more apt to call 911 these days, even for things that are not an emergency. Therefore I can't imagine seeing some one so drunk and /or twitching on a floor and not calling 911 or at the very least bringing them to the emergency room. What was happening to that poor kid was so beyond a "he is just wasted let him sleep it off" attitude.
Many peoples' lives have been completely shattered and it can't even be blamed on an accident. They can't even console themselves in that they did everything they could to help him...they will forever live with the pain and trauma knowing that they just left someone there to die.
I have made numerous "questionable" decisions and participated in activities that l am thankful ended okay in my life, but I can't imagine there being that many people to witness this and that no one called 911.
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Post by mom on May 8, 2017 15:55:58 GMT
I think most kids are growing these days without any training on how to act in an emergency.. maybe if we put basic first aid/cpr in mandatory health classes in high school.. how to react to natural disasters.. like evacuate if authorities tell you to... and how to deal with basic issues we come across. my kids got an earful from me growing up, all have taken first aid and all were involved in scouts that talked about it a lot. One kid wanted to call 911. He was shoved against a wall and told to shut up. That was around 11 pm. I think it has more to do with basic empathy and being able to stand up for what's right. They all seemed more concerned about themselves than this poor young man.I agree. This has nothing to do with first aid training (or lack of). This is a serious character flaw in these young men. They lack empathy and compassion. They knew 911 needed to be called, yet no one cared about the young men dying. All they cared about was getting in trouble. SaveSave
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Post by Really Red on May 8, 2017 16:27:23 GMT
It's so upsetting and I am very happy those evil boys are being charged. VERY HAPPY.
My daughter was in a sorority her freshman year at a very large university. The drinking was outrageous, but she said the fraternities (at least those she frequented) were EXTREMELY strict about the drinking. The pledges were sober and were the drivers AND the watchers. They took care of the kids who got wasted completely. I'm sick about that, but was glad at least at every party they had people watching out for them.
Things have to change. When did all of this become okay? Has it always been? My university didn't have sororities/fraternities. We had a party or two each weekend, and people did drink too much, but not like this. Or at least not that I was aware of.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 16:33:09 GMT
It's so upsetting and I am very happy those evil boys are being charged. VERY HAPPY. My daughter was in a sorority her freshman year at a very large university. The drinking was outrageous, but she said the fraternities (at least those she frequented) were EXTREMELY strict about the drinking. The pledges were sober and were the drivers AND the watchers. They took care of the kids who got wasted completely. I'm sick about that, but was glad at least at every party they had people watching out for them. Things have to change. When did all of this become okay? Has it always been? My university didn't have sororities/fraternities. We had a party or two each weekend, and people did drink too much, but not like this. Or at least not that I was aware of. That's a good question, Really Red. My university had greek organizations and I belonged to one. There was no alcohol at my pledge ceremony and no version of hazing whatsoever. Is it different between sororities and fraternities? I don't know. I don't remember alcohol being so prominent during my college years. There was drinking, yes, but not to this scale.
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Post by MorningPerson on May 8, 2017 16:36:14 GMT
This made me very sad when I first heard about it in February. The rumors immediately started flying and I didn't want to believe them, but I just finished reading the entire 81 page document last night and I am beyond disgusted and sickened by the events leading up to Timothy Piazza's death.
This goes way beyond knowing what to do in a medical emergency. The sheer amount of alcohol these pledges drank in a short period of time is abhorrent. Most of all the behavior and obvious thought process of some of the brothers makes me lose faith in humanity. There was such little regard for human life. The victim was clearly in very very bad shape and they refused to get help, I'm sure because they didn't want to get themselves or their fraternity in trouble. My heart breaks for Tim's family.
I can't even fully put into words what I'm feeling after reading the document.
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on May 8, 2017 16:49:17 GMT
One kid wanted to call 911. He was shoved against a wall and told to shut up. That was around 11 pm. I think it has more to do with basic empathy and being able to stand up for what's right. They all seemed more concerned about themselves than this poor young man.I agree. This has nothing to do with first aid training (or lack of). This is a serious character flaw in these young men. They lack empathy and compassion. They knew 911 needed to be called, yet no one cared about the young men dying. All they cared about was getting in trouble. SaveSave It is just awful. The poor kid is dead and all that were afraid of getting in trouble ARE IN TROUBLE. Just another senseless tragedy.
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Post by suzastampin on May 8, 2017 16:56:51 GMT
I think most kids are growing these days without any training on how to act in an emergency.. maybe if we put basic first aid/cpr in mandatory health classes in high school.. how to react to natural disasters.. like evacuate if authorities tell you to... and how to deal with basic issues we come across. my kids got an earful from me growing up, all have taken first aid and all were involved in scouts that talked about it a lot. One kid wanted to call 911. He was shoved against a wall and told to shut up. That was around 11 pm. I think it has more to do with basic empathy and being able to stand up for what's right. They all seemed more concerned about themselves than this poor young man. This guy was on Good Morning America this morning. After listening to him, I'm not sure why he wasn't charged. While he wanted to call 911, it's hard for me to understand why he didn't. Granted he is young, as were all the others, but if he was really concerned about the guy, why didn't he go against the others and step into another room and make the call? Was he only not charged because he said he wanted to call 911?
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Post by compeateropeator on May 8, 2017 16:58:54 GMT
That's a good question, Really Red . My university had greek organizations and I belonged to one. There was no alcohol at my pledge ceremony and no version of hazing whatsoever. Is it different between sororities and fraternities? I don't know. I don't remember alcohol being so prominent during my college years. There was drinking, yes, but not to this scale. I suppose it depends on when you went to college, but drinking was pretty prevalent in the 80s when I went to school. And it was very common in the Fraternities and Sororities. There are actually fewer fraternities with houses at my university because many have been suspended or have lost their charter because of hazing and alcohol infractions. Unfortunately I think that it has always been a problem and a part of the college culture.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 17:06:03 GMT
One kid wanted to call 911. He was shoved against a wall and told to shut up. That was around 11 pm. I think it has more to do with basic empathy and being able to stand up for what's right. They all seemed more concerned about themselves than this poor young man. This guy was on Good Morning America this morning. After listening to him, I'm not sure why he wasn't charged. While he wanted to call 911, it's hard for me to understand why he didn't. Granted he is young, as were all the others, but if he was really concerned about the guy, why didn't he go against the others and step into another room and make the call? Was he only not charged because he said he wanted to call 911? Interesting. I didn't see any further info on that young man. I wonder, did he leave or did he watch the whole thing? If the latter is true, I wonder why he wasn't charged too.
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 17:11:13 GMT
This guy was on Good Morning America this morning. After listening to him, I'm not sure why he wasn't charged. While he wanted to call 911, it's hard for me to understand why he didn't. Granted he is young, as were all the others, but if he was really concerned about the guy, why didn't he go against the others and step into another room and make the call? Was he only not charged because he said he wanted to call 911? I think because he at the time he was involved, Tim was still alive and he was asked to leave, left, and wasn't involved in the final decision not to call 911.
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Post by tiffanytwisted on May 8, 2017 17:28:57 GMT
Terrible! I don't understand rush or hazing to begin with. We all know it happens but like another pea said, blind eyes are turned.😈 Rushing is simply visiting all the sororities/fraternities before deciding which one you might want to pledge. Not to be confused w/hazing which involves whatever activities the sorority/fraternity deem 'necessary' for pledges to complete before being initiated into the organization. Two very different things. I suppose it depends on when you went to college, but drinking was pretty prevalent in the 80s when I went to school. And it was very common in the Fraternities and Sororities. There are actually fewer fraternities with houses at my university because many have been suspended or have lost their charter because of hazing and alcohol infractions. Unfortunately I think that it has always been a problem and a part of the college culture. This. It all depends on the sorority/fraternity and/or the school. Drinking was very prevalent when I was in college (81-85). Sororities & fraternities held most of the parties, so drinking was a given, at my sorority as well. However, hazing was NOT on our agenda. In fact, it's the main reason I chose the one I pledged. I know for a fact that drinking was a big part of hazing in a lot of other sororities and most of the fraternities. Humiliation & scare tactics were also pretty common. That all being said, this is beyond repugnant and I hope they all get the book thrown at them. And as for the kid who wanted to call but didn't? He's just as guilty, imo. It's like the bystanders when someone else is getting bullied. Almost worse - you know it's wrong and you still don't do anything. Back in my day, there was one pay phone for the sorority house. Each room had it's own phone, but doors were locked during a party, so calling 911 might have been harder. Definitely not impossible, but harder. In today's world, when you have a cell phone? No excuse.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on May 8, 2017 17:36:13 GMT
I am so sad for the family of that pledge and also for everyone whose life is impacted by this horrific event. I think people are much more apt to call 911 these days, even for things that are not an emergency. Therefore I can't imagine seeing some one so drunk and /or twitching on a floor and not calling 911 or at the very least bringing them to the emergency room. What was happening to that poor kid was so beyond a "he is just wasted let him sleep it off" attitude. Many peoples' lives have been completely shattered and it can't even be blamed on an accident. They can't even console themselves in that they did everything they could to help him...they will forever live with the pain and trauma knowing that they just left someone there to die. I have made numerous "questionable" decisions and participated in activities that l am thankful ended okay in my life, but I can't imagine there being that many people to witness this and that no one called 911. When I was in college at a major university, there was a strong Greek system. I was not involved in it but had a few friends from high school who were. The whole process was very secretive, and it was especially forbidden for an outsider to know what went on at the parties or certain events. I'm sure that played a part in this situation. What I saw and experienced in college makes me have extremely negative views of the Greek system. I would never support my child joining.
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Post by MorningPerson on May 8, 2017 17:41:56 GMT
This guy was on Good Morning America this morning. After listening to him, I'm not sure why he wasn't charged. While he wanted to call 911, it's hard for me to understand why he didn't. Granted he is young, as were all the others, but if he was really concerned about the guy, why didn't he go against the others and step into another room and make the call? Was he only not charged because he said he wanted to call 911? Interesting. I didn't see any further info on that young man. I wonder, did he leave or did he watch the whole thing? If the latter is true, I wonder why he wasn't charged too. This is just an educated guess on my part - The charges that were filed against the 18 people included involuntary manslaughter, aggravated assault, simple assault, recklessly endangering another person, hazing, furnishing alcohol to minors, tampering with evidence, and unlawful acts relative to liquor. I'm quite sure that Kordel Davis was "merely" a fraternity brother in attendance that night. I don't remember reading anything about him being part of purchasing the alcohol, serving the alcohol, he wasn't a pledge officer so was not part of the planning and executing of the events, etc. SaveSave
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2017 17:46:27 GMT
Interesting. I didn't see any further info on that young man. I wonder, did he leave or did he watch the whole thing? If the latter is true, I wonder why he wasn't charged too. This is just an educated guess on my part - The charges that were filed against the 18 people included involuntary manslaughter, aggravated assault, simple assault, recklessly endangering another person, hazing, furnishing alcohol to minors, tampering with evidence, and unlawful acts relative to liquor. I'm quite sure that Kordel Davis was "merely" a fraternity brother in attendance that night. I don't remember reading anything about him being part of purchasing the alcohol, serving the alcohol, he wasn't a pledge officer so was not part of the planning and executing of the events, etc. SaveSaveWhile Kordel Davis doesn't deserve to be charged in the same way as the other 18, I wonder if PA has a standard for negligence?
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