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Post by donna on Jul 11, 2017 20:56:46 GMT
I know I need to start with my HR department but I am clueless after that. I have had a rough few weeks and can't imagine working complete days in a few weeks. I am so worried about the hit this will make to our finances. I am just so tired all the time now. The tumors haven't grown but the chemo has really taken its toll on me.
what do you all know about this?
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Post by papersilly on Jul 11, 2017 20:59:29 GMT
i know nothing about this but i'm sending you lots of good thoughts! put you and your needs first. focus on what needs to be done to make you better or keep you healthy. that's all that matters right now.
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Post by mom on Jul 11, 2017 20:59:34 GMT
I know nothing but wanted to send you a hug!
Is working part time possible in your position?
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Post by donna on Jul 11, 2017 21:01:11 GMT
Part time is not an option.
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Post by scrapbookwriter on Jul 11, 2017 21:04:40 GMT
I'm so sorry, Donna. With my relative, she first used all her sick leave and vacation pay, then applied for family medical leave at full pay, then took extended leave at no pay while applying for disability. While on leave she kept all her benefits including health insurance which was essential to her cancer treatment. An attorney helped us file the paperwork. Her cancer history (second occurrence of breast cancer) and diagnosis (stage 4 metastatic) were key. She was approved on first application.
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Post by KelleeM on Jul 11, 2017 21:06:54 GMT
I'm so sorry. I don't have any advice but am sending lots of good wishes and hugs.
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Post by refugeepea on Jul 11, 2017 21:10:53 GMT
I would definitely get an attorney, so you can speed up the process.
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Post by SabrinaP on Jul 11, 2017 21:11:55 GMT
Is taking a one year leave of absence and option and then re-evaluate from there?
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Post by moodyblue on Jul 11, 2017 21:14:20 GMT
I'm so sorry, Donna. With my relative, she first used all her sick leave and vacation pay, then applied for family medical leave at full pay, then took extended leave at no pay while applying for disability. While on leave she kept all her benefits including health insurance which was essential to her cancer treatment. An attorney helped us file the paperwork. Her cancer history (second occurrence of breast cancer) and diagnosis (stage 4 metastatic) were key. She was approved on first application. If something like this is possible, consider it. Given your diagnosis, I'm assuming this might come under the disability categories that get expedited and approved pretty quickly. I believe there is a list of those. BUT, I THINK there is a six-month time from diagnosis, or some date, before you can get the first payment.* How much sick leave do you have? Can you use that, especially because of the health insurance coverage, until you start getting disability payments. Disability does not pay a lot of money. It isn't going to be easy, but might be the best option for you. * I've read some about this issue on the Esophageal Cancer sites. It doesn't apply to us (which is why I haven't paid a great deal of attention to the details), because my husband had just retired before he was diagnosed, and one reason I'm still teaching is because of the health insurance, and the fact that I have hundreds of sick days I can use if I need to stay home with him.
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Post by Judy26 on Jul 11, 2017 21:17:16 GMT
Can you take a medical sabbatical for a year? Best wishes to you as you make your decision. From my experience you should be approved for disability immediately if this is your decision. My B in law was approved and received his first check within 2 weeks.
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Post by inkedup on Jul 11, 2017 21:18:18 GMT
I know it's hard for you to even consider retirement. Your students have always been a huge priority for you. I wish all teachers were as committed to their jobs and students.
Start with HR, but also consider an attorney. Also, contact your teacher's union to see what is available to you and what they can help with.
You are going through so much. You deserve to make yourself a priority. Hugs to you.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jul 11, 2017 21:21:20 GMT
I don't have any advice, but am so sorry the chemo has been rough. Are the treatments indefinite, or could you take sick leave during the course of the chemo? I know every treatment plan is different, so wasn't sure if it was an option. Best wishes.
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Post by snyder on Jul 11, 2017 21:25:35 GMT
Sorry about your illness. Every place is different, but most work places require you to be out on short term, then you move to long term for 18-24 and if you are still disabled after that, then you would go on permanent disability. Of course the doctors have to diagnose you as being 100% disabled. Not all companies offer this type of insurance. If you go the Social Security route, then you must have been 100% disabled for 6 months without work before you would qualify. If your doctors will confirm you are 100% disabled, you would not need an attorney to get SSDI. Bless your heart and hope you can work this out.
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Jul 11, 2017 21:35:07 GMT
Just wanted to send you some love today.
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Post by valleyview on Jul 11, 2017 21:48:58 GMT
Sent pm
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jul 11, 2017 22:40:44 GMT
I'm just chiming in to offer my support for your decision. You need to take care of you right now.
(((hugs)))
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Post by christine58 on Jul 11, 2017 22:43:09 GMT
I know I need to start with my HR department but I am clueless after that. I have had a rough few weeks and can't imagine working complete days in a few weeks. I am so worried about the hit this will make to our finances. I am just so tired all the time now. The tumors haven't grown but the chemo has really taken its toll on me. what do you all know about this? It so varies from state to state. Start with your HR. Do you have a state pension?? What about working 1/2 days?? Or taking an FMLA leave? Do you have sick days you can use or by chance does your district have a sick bank? (we have one....teachers can pull up to 120 days out of it and get paid while they are out..some stipulations but for the most case, everyone has been granted them.) Do what is best for you. I think of you often. But start with HR, your union(if you have one) and/or state pension office.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jul 11, 2017 22:44:25 GMT
Donna, this is a good decision. You need every ounce of strength to battle this. You are at war with cancer and need all the strength you can get. Your finances may take a hit, but honestly, living the best life possible while undergoing treatment is more important. Your family needs you. (We need you, too.)
Just keep fighting.
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Post by scrapngranny on Jul 11, 2017 22:55:28 GMT
I'm sorry the chemo has been so rough on you. I don't have any advice, but wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. I hope the road gets easier.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jul 11, 2017 22:58:10 GMT
Are you talking disability pension from your district? That is a lot easier then Social Security Disability. Although the paper work is similar.
If you have a 'public' pension all the info should be on line there. Do you have a union to consult? Or call HR....... In this area public pension disability carries your medical benefits until the decision is made. For SSD the doctors need to say you will not be able to work for at least 2 years at any job. Pension disability is generally only that you cannot do you job.
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Post by scrappintoee on Jul 11, 2017 23:39:49 GMT
I just wanted to send you huge (((( hugs ))))!!! I think of you and pray for you very often. I am so sorry the chemo is so difficult, and I pray you'll be able to take leave somehow!
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Jul 11, 2017 23:48:48 GMT
I'm sorry the chemo is so hard on you. ((Hugs))
You have to do what's best for you and your family right now. If you can go on disability while you're taking treatment, go ahead. Don't forget that if you have life insurance, they may let you cash out early because of your cancer. That might help some with the bills.
i pray you will beat this!
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Post by Merge on Jul 11, 2017 23:59:13 GMT
Do you have disability insurance through your district? It would probably be much quicker and easier to get that than to apply for SSI disability. Call HR tomorrow and find out what your options are.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this!
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Post by librarylady on Jul 11, 2017 23:59:48 GMT
Have no knowledge, but I care and hope for the best for you.
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Post by beachbum on Jul 12, 2017 0:04:39 GMT
You can apply for SSDI yourself online. They will contact your doctors for information needed. You may want to talk to your doctors before you apply so they'll be ready to fill out the forms. You will probably get more questionnaires to answer too. I typed my answers out for the 2 I had to answer - a total of 11 pages. Rate everything on a scale of 1 - 10, make everything personal, give a lot of examples from your life. I heard all kinds of horror stories about it taking a year to get an answer and that everyone was turned down the first time. I started the process in late August, filled out the questionnaires in October, got a letter to call for more information in late November. I called and spoke to someone for about 30 minutes in early December, then got a letter saying I was approved the week after Christmas. No attorney involved, so I didn't have to pay for that. I was shocked at how quickly it went for me. You don't have to wait to apply, on the SSA website it says to apply as soon as you become disabled. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Post by jenjie on Jul 12, 2017 0:08:04 GMT
Oh Donna that is such a heart wrenching decision. It's very painful seeing the doctors sign off on it because it's necessary. I'm sorry you need to consider it. It would probably be for the best.
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Post by myboysnme on Jul 12, 2017 0:31:16 GMT
Do it. If you are eligible for it and approved for it then you obviously need to do it.
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Post by NanaKate on Jul 12, 2017 2:09:27 GMT
(((HUGS)))
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jul 12, 2017 2:20:22 GMT
I know nothing about the topic to offer you any advice, but I can offer warm thoughts and hopes that things go as well as possible for you.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Jul 12, 2017 2:23:59 GMT
I agree with talking to HR at work first and seeing what your options are. I would also look into SSDI requirements. I'm sorry you are going through this.
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