zookeeper
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,909 
|
Post by zookeeper on Jul 20, 2017 23:21:51 GMT
You want to limit your dialogue with me and even "liked" the post that I did saying that was a deal as long you as never liked a post of mine again. Two days later you liked three or four of my posts. I can only assume that you are tracking me on your stupid speed sheet.
I will say it again....you are a crazy bitch. Leave me the fuck alone.
Who else here keeps getting notices that Olan is liking your posts? How many people does she keep track of so she can use it against you later.
She has more than one screw loose.
|
|
imsirius
Prolific Pea
Call it as I see it.
Posts: 7,661
Location: Floating in the black veil.
Jul 12, 2014 19:59:28 GMT
|
Post by imsirius on Jul 20, 2017 23:23:14 GMT
She wanted to be called out on her behaviour, let's see what happens now.
|
|
|
|
Post by christine58 on Jul 20, 2017 23:24:18 GMT
go to your profile -> edit profile-->...privacy
then click these
Add her name
Do not let this member follow me or my activities.
Block notifications from this member.
|
|
zookeeper
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,909
|
Post by zookeeper on Jul 20, 2017 23:25:31 GMT
Do not let this member follow me or my activities. Block notifications from this member. I did that but it is not working. |
|
|
|
Post by christine58 on Jul 20, 2017 23:31:26 GMT
|
|
scrappinmama
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,121
Jun 26, 2014 12:54:09 GMT
|
Post by scrappinmama on Jul 20, 2017 23:32:39 GMT
I don't know the backstory between you two but the fact that someone might be following a pea around the board and harassing them definitely crosses the line. It would make me reluctant to post.  |
|
MizIndependent
Drama Llama
Quit your bullpoop.
Posts: 5,836
Jun 25, 2014 19:43:16 GMT
|
Post by MizIndependent on Jul 20, 2017 23:38:28 GMT
|
|
|
|
Post by refugeepea on Jul 20, 2017 23:55:41 GMT
I did that but it is not working. I've had issues with the block feature not working too. |
|
|
|
Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Jul 21, 2017 0:03:24 GMT
After you enter a person's name on the block list, be sure that (1) you check which options you want applied, and (2), you scroll down and click SAVE PRIVACY SETTINGS.
|
|
|
|
Post by burningfeather on Jul 21, 2017 0:09:39 GMT
Too bad you can't block someone from even seeing your posts.
I guess I should feel insulted that she hasn't liked or followed any of mine.
But I'm generally sick of her shit anyway, so maybe not
|
|
|
|
Post by elaine on Jul 21, 2017 0:14:46 GMT
She liked a bunch of my old posts for a while and also tagged me in several posts trying to drag me into threads that I wasn't posting on. I ignored it all for a while, not responding to the tags, etc. and she seems to have finally put me on ignore.
|
|
|
|
Post by myshelly on Jul 21, 2017 0:22:22 GMT
Too bad you can't block someone from even seeing your posts. I guess I should feel insulted that she hasn't liked or followed any of mine. But I'm generally sick of her shit anyway, so maybe not I'm sorry that this is completely off topic. But holy wow, you look AMAZING in your new profile pic, Seriously gorgeous. |
|
|
|
Post by christine58 on Jul 21, 2017 0:24:56 GMT
I don't know the backstory between you two but the fact that someone might be following a pea around the board and harassing them definitely crosses the line. It would make me reluctant to post. And should be reported to admin I would think. |
|
|
|
Post by Merge on Jul 21, 2017 0:26:55 GMT
I don't know the backstory between you two but the fact that someone might be following a pea around the board and harassing them definitely crosses the line. It would make me reluctant to post. And should be reported to admin I would think. There's no tolerance here for claiming that someone is harassing you this way. You're supposed to just "ignore" it. |
|
|
|
Post by melanell on Jul 21, 2017 0:27:47 GMT
I'm sorry her actions are upsetting you.  But, I can't help but think that a call out thread such as this is more likely to increase contact between the two of you than to decrease it.  |
|
|
|
Post by elaine on Jul 21, 2017 0:29:51 GMT
I'm sorry her actions are upsetting you. But, I can't help but think that a call out thread such as this is more likely to increase contact between the two of you than to decrease it. I know what you are saying, but just this past week Olan asked that people publicly call her out on her behavior when she was crossing the line. This is what she asked for. Damned if you do, harassed if you don't. |
|
|
|
Post by burningfeather on Jul 21, 2017 0:32:36 GMT
Too bad you can't block someone from even seeing your posts. I guess I should feel insulted that she hasn't liked or followed any of mine. But I'm generally sick of her shit anyway, so maybe not I'm sorry that this is completely off topic. But holy wow, you look AMAZING in your new profile pic, Seriously gorgeous. Thanks. I cut my hair all off last week - LOL. It will grow back. |
|
|
|
Post by LiLi on Jul 21, 2017 0:32:39 GMT
Turn off notifications. This isn't going to do anything except make you look bad, too. It's like my two littlest bickering earlier. Oi, don't give it power.  |
|
|
|
Post by melanell on Jul 21, 2017 0:36:01 GMT
I'm sorry her actions are upsetting you. But, I can't help but think that a call out thread such as this is more likely to increase contact between the two of you than to decrease it. In a recent thread, Olan asked that zookeeper quit posting on her threads. Zookeeper agreed if Olan quit liking past post (Olan keeps them for the peas are racist spreadsheet). Olan agreed to quit. Seems she didn't follow through. I did see that, but many peas have made claims in the past that didn't pan out, so I didn't put much hope into this instance either. Save |
|
marianne
Pearl Clutcher
Not my circus, not my monkeys. . . My monkeys fly!
Posts: 4,176
Location: right smack dab in the middle of SC
Site Supporter
Jun 25, 2014 21:08:26 GMT
|
Post by marianne on Jul 21, 2017 0:36:47 GMT
I'm in the "just ignore her" camp. It takes two to tango, so to speak, so if you just ignore her, don't engage, don't respond, and certainly don't let her know she's gotten under you skin, she'll have to go bother someone else, maybe somewhere else. Eventually, she simply won't have anyone to harass and/or she'll learn how to deal civilly with folks... or just talk to herself.
|
|
kibblesandbits
Pearl Clutcher
At the corner of Awesome and Bombdiggity
Posts: 3,305
|
Post by kibblesandbits on Jul 21, 2017 0:46:54 GMT
 Sorry she's annoying you. Vent away. I'm just here for the show! lol SaveSave |
|
|
|
Post by melanell on Jul 21, 2017 0:54:47 GMT
Excuse my ignorance, but is there someplace you can go and check to see every single post you ever "liked"? And if there is, wouldn't it just be tons of posts to slog through if you were to go looking at them? I don't understand how someone tracks anything though "likes". I'm not at all saying that this isn't what's happening, I just don't get it at all.  |
|
|
|
Post by elaine on Jul 21, 2017 0:55:21 GMT
This is going to fall on deaf ears, but... My frustration with you is that even when people tell you they are trying, and how they are trying, you essentially respond with, "That's not good enough, try harder, but figure it out yourself." Breaking down a systemic issue is hard, takes time and benefits from cooperation by everyone. I hear you saying, "I shouldn't have to explain this to you," which is true to a certain extent. But if you are going to take this stance, I'd hope you would show some grace towards people who are legitimately trying and asking for help. I've seen friends IRL take the, "I shouldn't have to explain this to you" stance and provide extremely graceful and thought provoking responses, while still encouraging and respecting the steps that have been taken. I know they are angry, as are you, but unlike you, they do not let their anger get in the way of their message and are far more effective because of it. I disagree. Most peas are arguing what I am saying is even true. How about this When you see me exhibiting this type of behavior please call me out. If someone wants to ask me a question I will always try my best to answer it. It's true I don't have much hope for the peas and I am sure that shows in my interactions. It's probably not fair and certainly counter productive. If I bump and old thread it's to prove a current point. If I like your comment in a thread new or old it's not to nudge you or get your attention it's for my own ease of use. To remember who said what, also so I can share with other people in my life the discourse I have here at twopeas. I've said that before. Note the words used to describe me or my posting. |
|
|
|
Post by compeateropeator on Jul 21, 2017 0:57:53 GMT
The first thing your post title made me think of was that viral video with the guy that was crying "leave Brittney alone"...sorry.  I am sorry you feel stalked, I hope that you both can stay out of each other's way. However I am also in the camp of just ignore. It is a public message board and the like function is available for everyone no matter how they choose top use it. Good luck. |
|
|
|
Post by elaine on Jul 21, 2017 0:58:24 GMT
Excuse my ignorance, but is there someplace you can go and check to see every single post you ever "liked"? And if there is, wouldn't it just be tons of posts to slog through if you were to go looking at them? I don't understand how someone tracks anything though "likes". I'm not at all saying that this isn't what's happening, I just don't get it at all. Yes. You can go to your profileand click the "activity" tab and all your posts and likes will come up in one long comingled list. Yes, it would take slogging through. Especially given the number of likes. |
|
|
|
Post by melanell on Jul 21, 2017 1:02:58 GMT
Excuse my ignorance, but is there someplace you can go and check to see every single post you ever "liked"? And if there is, wouldn't it just be tons of posts to slog through if you were to go looking at them? I don't understand how someone tracks anything though "likes". I'm not at all saying that this isn't what's happening, I just don't get it at all. Yes. You can go to your profileand click the "activity" tab and all your posts and likes will come up in one long comingled list. Yes, it would take slogging through. Especially given the number of likes. I had no idea! I can only imagine the number of times I liked a post!  (I don't even see an "activity" tab!) SaveSave |
|
|
|
Post by annie on Jul 21, 2017 1:03:59 GMT
I think she's sort of lost it, and I think even said she is using 2peas to show her friends things - examples of racism in her eyes. I'm not sure this is a healthy place for her right now.
|
|
|
|
Post by freecharlie on Jul 21, 2017 1:04:28 GMT
Excuse my ignorance, but is there someplace you can go and check to see every single post you ever "liked"? And if there is, wouldn't it just be tons of posts to slog through if you were to go looking at them? I don't understand how someone tracks anything though "likes". I'm not at all saying that this isn't what's happening, I just don't get it at all. Yes. You can go to your profileand click the "activity" tab and all your posts and likes will come up in one long comingled list. Yes, it would take slogging through. Especially given the number of likes. Things I never knew |
|
zookeeper
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,909
|
Post by zookeeper on Jul 21, 2017 1:14:40 GMT
I am sorry for losing my temper. I have an awful case of bronchitis and have been sick all week. Five days of coughing up a lung will exhaust you and make you very frazzled. I am on antibiotics, albuterol inhaler and steroids....I blame the meds!!! |
|
|
|
Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jul 21, 2017 1:15:25 GMT
Well 13 hrs ago, she "liked" a post of mine from a thread 4 days ago..so she's obviously keeping a tally of sorts!
|
|
