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Post by scrapcat on Aug 30, 2017 15:33:20 GMT
I think its def possible and helpful to do. I am with the belief that what I bring in I put out, so constantly weighing myself down with negative/bad can almost affect my health in a way.
I haven't been on FB in years. I check Instagram maybe once a day for like 15 minutes. I used to check it more but have grown less interested. When I go on vaca I sign out of everything and generally leave my phone on airplane mode to use camera/music. Just checking email and texts once in a while.
I was on a kick with twitter for a bit, but cutting that out relieved a lot of negativity.
I used to read/watch news a lot, but have scaled that way back too.
I realize when I cut that stuff out that I'm getting so much other stuff done & there's still so much more I want to do. So it's easy motivation.
Sometimes I feel totally out of the loop bcz I don't know what's gone viral or trending, but I pick up on tidbits from the radio or listening to people talk at work.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2017 15:35:09 GMT
I am going to try a Facebook Free September. I deleted the link and the app from my phone. Let's see how long I last... Edited to add my post count will skyrocket here...
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Post by sawwhet on Aug 30, 2017 15:41:07 GMT
I've mentioned this before but I opened a second FB account under a made up name. No friends or relatives. I use it to follow all of my hobbies, interests, inspirational sites etc. It's very uplifting LOL. I'm spending more and more time in my made up world. Plus, I want to comment on things and I don't want people on my FB to see my comments. KWIM? I don't want Uncle Fred seeing my comments on a sewing board and then commenting afterward.
I keep my actual FB to talk to family and friends. The ranty pants political people have been unfollowed.
I'm happy with my decision to be "anon" on FB to enjoy my hobbies and interersts.
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Post by quinlove on Aug 30, 2017 16:09:53 GMT
Jeremysgirl, my dd (38) did that this summer. She didn't look at FB or political news all summer. It recharged her a lot. All the drama from FB and the national news was upsetting her and she needed a break. She casually looks at both now with a different attitude.
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Post by thundergal on Aug 30, 2017 16:26:09 GMT
I just take daily breaks. I tell myself no Facebook, no Twitter, no news. I usually do this on Saturdays. It makes a world of difference in my mood and outlook.
When the majority of what I see upsets me rather than brings me comfort or joy, I have to protect myself from it even if it's just for a day.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Aug 30, 2017 18:32:09 GMT
I am also thinking I need to limit my time here too. With the politics and current events and the hurricane I'm just on overload lately. I was thinking maybe I needed my meds adjusted. All I know is I'm experiencing a lot of inner turmoil lately.
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Post by anniefb on Aug 30, 2017 18:42:21 GMT
i've taken a break from television news. I just can't stand the 24 hour never-ending cycle of negativity. Same here. I do still read the paper online so I know some of what's going on. But I just couldn't cope with the tv stuff anymore. SaveSave
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2017 18:51:32 GMT
I haven't specifically, although I naturally take breaks here and there when life is hectic or I just don't feel like contributing so much to the time suck (I really hate the time suck and want to get back to reading BOOKS...I feel like I can't even make my way through a magazine in one sitting). One thing I find is that is just too much stimulation at times and almost makes me feel jittery so I need a break. That's usually when I need to spend more time with people IRL. My DH does just about zero social media and I find I have a lot more interesting stories to talk about than him, though!
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Post by christine58 on Aug 30, 2017 18:54:42 GMT
I am also thinking I need to limit my time here too. With the politics and current events and the hurricane I'm just on overload lately. I was thinking maybe I needed my meds adjusted. All I know is I'm experiencing a lot of inner turmoil lately. I think we all are experiencing that turmoil. I have unfollowed many friends and family.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Aug 30, 2017 20:13:47 GMT
I wouldn't want to be completely off of social media but need to cut down. Particularly here. . I spend too much time that I should/could be doing other things that I need to do. I also am trying to reduce the amount of news I'm watching. I tend to just turn on CNN or MSNBC when I get home and it is primarily background noise (I like that I can hear what is going on but also don't have to sit and watch intently like I would if I was trying to watch an actual show). But DH said that he doesn't like it and really, they say the same things over and over. So I can hear the same thing in 15 min as I do in 2 hours. ^^^ Yup, that. If I was honest, my 'cutting down' or 'taking a break' would NEED to include this place, pinterest, and youtube. It's too easy to be distracted into watching, reading, or looking AT things instead of DOING things. But it's tough! We don't watch local television news or the national news, and I've cut way back on my NPR-listening. The only 'news' I get any more is from here, and from listening to MSNBC and Progressive Sirius channels in the car on my commute, and that's not even every day any more, because so much of it IS repetitive. ETA: ditto for me also in that too much exposure to external turmoil and news about un-controllable [bad] things can contribute to my depression symptoms.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2017 20:35:01 GMT
I don't know why it matters if others have or haven't stopped following media. Do what YOU need/want to do. I haven't watched the national news sources in nearly a decade. I cut it off the year I had one son in Iraq and the other one in Afghanistan. As morbid as it sounds I did not want to find out about their death via CNN. Both survived that period of their service to the US and are alive and well today. But I never went back to watching the news. My only tv time is during storm season when I don't want to be blind sided by a tornado. I an another with two facebook accounts (even though it technically is against the TOU) One in my first/last name and one using my middle name. My "real" one is limited to family, friends I really do want to keep in contact with, and a few co-workers I enjoy being with. Anyone who is too much into using their facebook for politics or things that annoy me gets unfollowed so their garbage isn't in my feed. Most of my friends are just into light hearted having fun or personal status updates about their lives so I enjoy the time there. This week has been heavy because several of them live in Houston. Harvey is personal to them. I am glad to provide a supportive "ear" (or is it eye?) Be there to mourn their losses and celebrate the tiny victories. The other name I play games, follow groups related to my interests/hobbies. I have few friends on that list and follow no one so nothing they post personally shows in my feed. If I feel like I am spending too much time online I just exit for a few days weeks until life is in better balance. No need to inform anyone or see if I am following what everyone else does.
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Post by River on Aug 30, 2017 20:39:32 GMT
I only do Facebook and this place through the week. Week nights and weekends I'm rarely online. I also don't do any other social media, facebook is enough for me. I keep facebook limited so that it's a happy place, I follow one group for my medical issues and the rest is GOOD friends and family. Also, I rarely watch the news or go to news sites. Ya'll keep me pretty well updated and informed. I love to watch TV, so I stick to movies and netflix for my "me" time. Do what feels right for you! I'm often accused of hiding my head in the sand because I don't watch the news. But for me, it's what keeps my sky blue. I fall into depression to easy and have enough drama on the home front without adding the rest of the world to it.
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Post by polz on Aug 30, 2017 20:47:27 GMT
In 2015 when I lost 70lbs and became a small time fb famous person, it was nuts. I got several hundred new fb friends in a year. Before that, I had like 80. I've since realised that yes, friends can live in the computer, but real life is where it's at. I've unfriended lots of people. I totally get the social media influencer thing. I had a little video and my friend shared it with Asics and over a period of a year, they sent me over $1000 worth of clothes and 4 pairs of shoes. This is from a little video that had 3000 views. Imagine if I was Chewbacca Mom? I feel the balance is right now. I don't post as much. I do my running and training, rather than posting about it.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2017 22:19:18 GMT
I tried doing this. If it wasn't for me peeking in, I wouldn't have read about a local physician's bicycle injury and subsequent death. I would have missed his funeral (I don't get the newspaper). I think social media is a great tool for this very reason.
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