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Post by shevy on Jun 29, 2014 23:29:36 GMT
I think the only way this board doesn't turn really ugly really quick is to use the fresh start and let the past go. Just ignore Lauren.
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Nanner
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Jun 25, 2014 23:13:23 GMT
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Post by Nanner on Jun 29, 2014 23:34:24 GMT
I remember the thread, but I hadn't remembered who accused you of lying about it. That's not something that should ever be used to attack someone, and I'm sorry it happened to you.
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Nanner
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Jun 25, 2014 23:13:23 GMT
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Post by Nanner on Jun 29, 2014 23:36:38 GMT
And I do believe you should just put Lauren on ignore. It will be less stressful for you.
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eastcoastpea
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Jun 27, 2014 13:05:28 GMT
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Post by eastcoastpea on Jun 29, 2014 23:38:58 GMT
Very sorry you were physically and emotionally assaulted as well as the poor judgement on the pea's part....you are brave to tell your story. I agree with jenettycakes. I think there are many people here wanting to continue to support you. Wishing you only the best.
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uksue
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Jun 25, 2014 22:33:20 GMT
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Post by uksue on Jun 29, 2014 23:39:55 GMT
I think Ingrid Mariana and shevy have given you very good advice OP.
I am sorry for what happened to you. My daughter was also raped and I witnessed first hand the devastation it causes. It just about broke my heart. She however has proven herself amazingly strong and has made such a great life for herself. She has a wonderful boyfriend now who knows her story and is just so happy and healthy. Her attitude is that she will not allow the men that did that to her dominate her choices in life,or stop her having a full and happy life.
I would hate this board to go the same way as the old one because members are going to drag old arguments across and continue feuds . The ability to ignore should eliminate any need for that.
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Post by myboysnme on Jun 29, 2014 23:58:29 GMT
You know what's really nice about this new board? Someone making their first post can do so without the rest of us raising eyebrows and discrediting the poster. We judge each other by things other than post count. Whoot!
That said, there was a thread on maybe the first day for people to post their peas alters, so maybe you could just move this over there.
Of course it is nice to see us settling in feeling free to post honestly even if it isn't sunshine and flowers.
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Post by formerpea on Jun 30, 2014 0:15:39 GMT
Wow- why raise old crap? OP - I am sorry for what;s happened to you & for what any Pea has said to you, BUT leave it all in the bucket and move on - why deliberately pick a fight?
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Post by shevy on Jun 30, 2014 0:45:10 GMT
Wow- why raise old crap? OP - I am sorry for what;s happened to you & for what any Pea has said to you, BUT leave it all in the bucket and move on - why deliberately pick a fight? Sometimes it's really hard to let go when something is that powerful in your life. The loss of control in a rape is similar to losing control when someone calls you a liar. But I am going to support Liz letting go of the past and starting over with the fresh start that everyone deserves.
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Post by lovetodigi on Jun 30, 2014 2:34:15 GMT
Hi Beautiful Morning! I have always wondered who you were and now I know. Thanks for sharing that with us. Sorry about what happened. Glad that you are here.
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caro
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Jun 26, 2014 14:10:36 GMT
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Post by caro on Jun 30, 2014 2:43:47 GMT
I'm sorry for what you went through, I can't imagine.
It's a new board with a fresh start for everyone. Let it go and enjoy.
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