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Post by Lexica on Nov 16, 2017 19:49:13 GMT
We have mentioned the Myers Briggs test recently, and talked about being an introvert or extrovert on various threads. I'm just curious as to the breakdown here. Which do we have more of, or is it pretty even?
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River
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Post by River on Nov 16, 2017 19:52:00 GMT
I think I've always been an introvert, but was more outgoing as a teen and early 20's. The older I get the more introverted I become. I have a great group of girlfriends that are all mostly extroverts, between them and my extroverted DH, I stay exhausted.
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Post by freebird on Nov 16, 2017 19:58:49 GMT
I'm an introverted extrovert. I enjoy being around people, talking with others, etc. I have no problems with that, but once my energy is zapped I need big alone time!
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Post by Pahina722 on Nov 16, 2017 20:00:41 GMT
I'm an introvert, but I can force myself to act like an extrovert when necessary. For example, I'm a teacher, so I have to interact with my students, entertain them, draw them out, to get them to buy into the class. And I do. Many are quite shocked to find out that I test as an introvert on every test out there.
However, in general, people make me tired. At the end of the day, I want to come home and recuperate in my safe little bubble. Sometimes even my husband makes me tired. He realizes this and makes sure to schedule time out of the house with his buddies to give me down time.
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Post by Linda on Nov 16, 2017 20:01:38 GMT
extremely introverted
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Post by cadoodlebug on Nov 16, 2017 20:06:00 GMT
Definitely extrovert. When I was younger I wanted to be a stand-up comic. I never met a person in line waiting to check-out that I couldn't talk to. I guess that makes me an extrovert?
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Post by katlady on Nov 16, 2017 20:08:46 GMT
Introvert. I prefer small groups to large groups. I don’t mind being “alone” in public (i.e. sitting in a coffee shop by myself). I don’t need to constantly make conversation. I can stand parties for only an hour or two. I enjoy being by myself.
ETA - I am INTP on the Briggs-Myers test
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Post by Sue on Nov 16, 2017 20:12:53 GMT
Definitely an introvert. I need my recharge time away from other people. I can stand up in front of a large crowd and speak, however. That doesn't bother me nearly as much as trying to talk one-on-one to other people.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 16, 2017 20:14:53 GMT
I am chatty and can talk to anyone. I like social gatherings with both people I know and don't know. I also love to be by myself and craft, read, or just hang out with my dogs.
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Post by Julie W on Nov 16, 2017 20:15:16 GMT
Meyers Briggs INFJ = Introvert
I can be around other people, but definitely need to recharge after doing so.
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Post by perumbula on Nov 16, 2017 20:16:54 GMT
Depends on the day. I enjoy being along and get a lot out of being in my room reading by myself, but I do need people still and will seek out large groups if it's been too long.
Remember, it's not about whether or not you like large groups of people or being alone. It's about what you do to recharge. If you get a lot of energy from groups and being around others, you're an extrovert. If you need alone time to recharge after being around people, you're an introvert. I see people confusing introversion and social anxiety a lot online and it bothers me. For example, my husband likes people and has a good time at parties, but he needs alone time to recharge.
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Post by azredhead on Nov 16, 2017 20:17:15 GMT
Introvert very much. I only have a small groups as well. Even from a big family. I'd rather have a bunch of people I know very well. I was very social when I was younger.
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Nov 16, 2017 20:17:37 GMT
I wasn't sure how to answer. I think of myself as an introvert but once in a blue moon I can be extroverted.
I am always super quiet and shy when I meet people. As I get to know you my extroverted self comes out. I cant tell you how many times I was told by people that I got to know that they thought I was a snooty biotch when they first met me!
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Post by Darcy Collins on Nov 16, 2017 20:19:22 GMT
I'm pretty balanced which is lucky as I've needed to be extroverted for my career. My husband is very introverted and it can be draining for him when there are too many extroverted responsibilities.
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Post by Restless Spirit on Nov 16, 2017 20:24:48 GMT
Extreme introvert. I was absolutely miserable when I had jobs where I was forced to act like an extrovert. And that’s all it was, an “act”.
I love being home, alone, except for my three dogs. It is when I am the happiest and most content.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 16, 2017 20:26:56 GMT
It totally depends on life. When the two kids are doing well and I am able to get out and walk, take photos and have time to myself during the day, I M an extrovert.
But when we are in choppy waters with either Autism, OCD, Anxiety, or medical needs the kids need more of me and I become an introvert.
There have been days when I don't even want to be around dh lol The kids needs are draining when times are bad. Heck even on good days Autism is tiring.
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Post by leannec on Nov 16, 2017 20:27:27 GMT
I'm an introvert ... I LOVE my alone time I do run a ladies meetup group that requires me to be social
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Post by checkwheelsdown on Nov 16, 2017 20:33:13 GMT
I see that many here identify as introverts (and, on another thread, "talking-on-the-phone-haters"). Ahh, I have found my people! lol
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Post by gmcwife1 on Nov 16, 2017 20:39:11 GMT
I'm in introvert but as I've aged I've pushed myself to get out and keep/stay busy. So dh doesn't even think I'm shy because I have so many friends and activities But I'm definitely an introvert - I get my energy by being by myself and I love my alone time!!!
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Post by Grom Pea on Nov 16, 2017 21:06:18 GMT
I always score introvert on the tests but i actually hate being alone. I prefer to have someone with me at all times which I imagine is the nightmare of the classic introvert that likes to recharge by being alone. I just don't like social situations etc, which is why i score as an introvert.
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Post by azredhead on Nov 16, 2017 21:28:19 GMT
I wasn't sure how to answer. I think of myself as an introvert but once in a blue moon I can be extroverted.
I am always super quiet and shy when I meet people. As I get to know you my extroverted self comes out. I cant tell you how many times I was told by people that I got to know that they thought I was a snooty biotch when they first met me! I would just get the intimidation thing .. I would be like 'really I'm 4'11!! Lol! maybe it's the red hair, or depending on my mood. I'm really good smart ass too. I had one good boss and we've become really close since we both don't work anymore, she says she can read me like a book. I wonder if introverts show more than we think?
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Post by IAmUnoriginal on Nov 16, 2017 21:30:40 GMT
Big time introvert.
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Post by Peal on Nov 16, 2017 21:40:55 GMT
I think there will be more introverts the extroverts. I think introverts are drawn to online communities more than extroverts. It fulfills our need for interaction without having the emotional draining affect RL encounters can produce. And we can leave at any time without appearing rude. I think extroverts enjoy online interaction too, but crave RL interaction so seek that out more. It's my personal theory on why there seem to be so many introverts on the internet. BTW, I'm definitely an introvert.
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Post by thracian on Nov 16, 2017 21:54:05 GMT
Absolutely an introvert.
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Post by Dalai Mama on Nov 16, 2017 22:24:50 GMT
I’m an introvert but not the least bit shy. I’m so unshy that it shocks people to hear that I’m an introvert. They aren’t the same thing. I may hate small talk but that doesn’t mean I’m not good at it.
Being around people just wears me down to a nub. I need long periods of leave me the f#%^ alone time to recharge.
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Post by myboysnme on Nov 16, 2017 22:28:35 GMT
I picked introvert but people see me as an extrovert. I used to be painfully shy as a child. I still hate being around people. But my office is the one people hang out in, and I always speak up when others don't. So even though I present as an extrovert, it's only because I want to speak up for what's right and just.
On the Myers Briggs I always come so close to the middle that I don't have any totally definitive area. I am right there on the cross roads of each section.
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Post by katlady on Nov 16, 2017 22:30:46 GMT
I’m an introvert but not the least bit shy. I’m so unshy that it shocks people to hear that I’m an introvert. They aren’t the same thing. I may hate small talk but that doesn’t mean I’m not good at it. Being around people just wears me down to a nub. I need long periods of leave me the f#%^ alone time to recharge.  Just because I am quiet does not mean I am shy. I kind of hate the niceness of small talk - how are you, what's new, etc. Let's just skip all that and get to some REAL topics!
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Post by stampinbetsy on Nov 16, 2017 22:36:07 GMT
I'm an introvert, but must sometimes act like an extrovert. Being around groups of people for long periods of time wears me out.
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Nov 16, 2017 22:37:14 GMT
Very much an introvert. I'm already dreading the social interactions I have to endure over the holidays. Despite the negative tone of the previous sentence, I'm happy being an introvert. I spent most of my life thinking there was something wrong with me because I didn't like large crowds, the nightclub scene, or being in a loud group. My parents and other adults meant well when they encouraged me to "get over being so shy," but it only made me feel more like an odd duck. Now as an adult, I embrace my personality. I work and interact fine in my job, but I love coming home to peace and solitude.
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Post by Just Beth on Nov 16, 2017 22:57:29 GMT
I'm an introvert, but I can force myself to act like an extrovert when necessary. For example, I'm a teacher, so I have to interact with my students, entertain them, draw them out, to get them to buy into the class. And I do. Many are quite shocked to find out that I test as an introvert on every test out there. However, in general, people make me tired. At the end of the day, I want to come home and recuperate in my safe little bubble. Change teacher to nurse and this is me. Overtime is very lucrative but I rarely do it because I can’t stand to interact with people one more minute. SO and I go out a lot but he and I both do the “alone in a crowd” things well so it works for us.
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