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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 25, 2017 21:48:28 GMT
I'm sorry to hear of two such horrible things happening to you, but I do so admire your pluck in how you're handling it all.
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Post by scrappyesq on Nov 25, 2017 22:20:00 GMT
I'm so sorry but glad you are healing well.
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Post by teddyw on Nov 25, 2017 23:23:40 GMT
Sorry it’s such a bad week for you.
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Post by AussieMeg on Nov 25, 2017 23:37:21 GMT
Wow, that really sucks. Strange timing on your DH's part. ![:confused:](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/gFcgIuKyZogcCNuz36nO.jpg) I hope you recover well from your surgery, and your husband's bombshell.
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Post by brynn on Nov 25, 2017 23:42:22 GMT
Sending healing thoughts and hugs. I am sorry about your husband's bad behavior.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 25, 2017 23:47:46 GMT
That really IS a bad week! I’m sorry things went sideways but hope you mend quickly. Hugs!
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Post by lisae on Nov 25, 2017 23:50:45 GMT
{{hugs}} I hope you feel better both physically and emotionally soon.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 25, 2017 23:51:33 GMT
Hug to you at such a stressful time. At least you have had good health care.
Since he dropped this on you when he knew you had a trip planned, shame on him. If he wanted the divorce so bad, he could have waited until you returned and told you then. Speaks to his lack of consideration.
May this turn out to be a good thing, although the pain of a divorce is awful...even when you want it.
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Post by birukitty on Nov 26, 2017 0:26:41 GMT
Hug to you at such a stressful time. At least you have had good health care. Since he dropped this on you when he knew you had a trip planned, shame on him. If he wanted the divorce so bad, he could have waited until you returned and told you then. Speaks to his lack of consideration. May this turn out to be a good thing, although the pain of a divorce is awful...even when you want it. This 100% He's obviously had this on his mind for awhile now so he could have easily waited until your return to discuss this with you face to face. By telling you this news while you are so far away and in such a vulnerable condition-well it sure doesn't say much for him does it? I know this is a huge shock for you right now and I'm so sorry for the emotional pain that you are feeling. I know nothing about your marriage, but just knowing this small part makes me feel as though you deserve so much better. Divorce is painful to go through, but afterwards there is such joy and happiness. At least that was the case for me. We are here for you anytime you need to vent to us or need advice. I'm so relieved that you were able to get such great medical care although the timing of everything certainly sucked, didn't it? One couldn't be helped, the other you can lay that blame entirely at your DH's feet. Promise yourself that you will make this trip again sometime after the divorce when you are healed, maybe even on your own, and you'll enjoy it so much more. I'm sending you huge hugs and will pray for you. Please let us know if you need help with any questions. A lot of us have been there before.
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Post by freebird on Nov 26, 2017 1:07:23 GMT
What a shitty week! Get well soon, so you can kick him in the nuts.
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Post by peasapie on Nov 26, 2017 1:21:54 GMT
Seriously, what was his rush. He couldn't wait a bit for you to at least heal and return home? What a jackass.
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Post by prapea on Nov 26, 2017 1:30:16 GMT
I am so sorry about all the crappy news. Did he drop the news before your trip so he can go hangout with his new “friend(s)”? This sounds like ross on friends - “we were on a break”
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 26, 2017 2:34:05 GMT
I'm sorry. It's good you've been well cared for!
Hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 28, 2017 12:59:02 GMT
Thanks everyone! I also forgot to mention that he dropped the bombshell the day before our 19th anniversary because I was upset that he had scheduled travel on our anniversary. The good news is that I am back on the mend and heading home after being cleared to travel. I've had lots of time to think and plan and believe me, I'm ready for whatever! Bring it!
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Post by scrappert on Nov 28, 2017 14:14:47 GMT
Glad you are feeling better and healing well. Sorry you have to head home to a shit storm. ![>:(](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/angry.png)
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Post by Deleted on Nov 28, 2017 14:21:04 GMT
What a shitty week! Get well soon, so you can kick him in the nuts. ![:yeahthat:](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/yrGoHMAelQz8f2Qt0sjb.jpg) (and this made me giggle...I hope it made you giggle too) So sorry for your troubles ![:(](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/mYSUyHtG9Jrcmm_ydVcK.jpg)
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Nov 28, 2017 14:21:22 GMT
Sending BIG hugs!
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Post by gloryjoy on Nov 28, 2017 15:30:14 GMT
I'm sorry, that is a crappy week for sure!
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Post by MZF on Nov 28, 2017 15:59:16 GMT
Wow, that is a bad week. Wish you the best.
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Post by Montannie on Nov 28, 2017 16:51:25 GMT
Oh my. I hope everything resolves quickly and favorably when you get home. Peace to you.
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Post by Pahina722 on Nov 28, 2017 18:16:15 GMT
Well, doesn’t soon-to-be-ex win the douche-nozzle award! Seriously, anyone who does something like that is a man you are definitely better without.
I’m so sorry for your crappy week but have faith that you will quickly rebound and get on with a happier new life.
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Post by NanaKate on Nov 28, 2017 18:55:14 GMT
(((HUGS)))
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Post by flute4peace on Nov 28, 2017 19:12:56 GMT
Thanks everyone! I also forgot to mention that he dropped the bombshell the day before our 19th anniversary because I was upset that he had scheduled travel on our anniversary. The good news is that I am back on the mend and heading home after being cleared to travel. I've had lots of time to think and plan and believe me, I'm ready for whatever! Bring it! My sister's former husband filed on their anniversary - behind her back (after telling her he would try to work things out). She only found out because she happened to check her (yes HER) credit card statement online that same day and saw the $1500 retainer he had paid. I'm so sorry you're having to live through this. What an awful set of circumstances!
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Post by canadianscrappergirl on Nov 28, 2017 22:39:20 GMT
Yikes that is an extremely crappy week!!
Your hubby sounds like an asshole sorry.
I'm so sorry your trip was interrupted with emergency surgery that's terrible! Hope you are feeling better and heal quickly!
If it's any consolation my week has been a roller coaster of shittyness too. My asshole told me on the phone Monday we should get a divorce it was a start of a week that got crappier.
Here's hoping it's all easy coasting now for you and any others having crappy weeks!
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Post by flanz on Nov 28, 2017 22:40:58 GMT
WOW! That's an awful lot to handle all at once. I'm wishing you speedy healing - physically and emotionally. (((HUGS)))
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Post by peabay on Nov 28, 2017 22:42:09 GMT
I'm so sorry! How awful! Hope you're feeling better.
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Post by #notLauren on Nov 28, 2017 22:47:18 GMT
Take care of yourself; legally and physically.
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Post by auntkelly on Nov 28, 2017 22:56:51 GMT
I'm so sorry you have had such a rough time.
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Post by scrappintoee on Nov 28, 2017 23:09:32 GMT
Wow.....I'm SO sorry for all you're going through!!!!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 29, 2017 3:27:19 GMT
Okay, so, I can't be the only one who sees the title of the post and thinks the husband had surgery to get his head removed from his ass.
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