Dani-Mani
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Post by Dani-Mani on Sept 3, 2014 21:39:47 GMT
what are your thoughts on it?
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Post by gar on Sept 3, 2014 21:43:10 GMT
I always liked uniforms. No competition between kids, an obvious bonding identification between them all, no decisions to be made in the mornings, readily available and very reasonable here at least.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2014 21:44:23 GMT
My kid's middle school did back in the late 1990s so public school uniforms have been around for awhile. Personally, I liked it. Stopped a lot of home arguments about what they wanted to wear vs what mom allowed. Meant no needing to buy trendy clothing to "fit in" (and the every changing trends that meant more clothing that my budget really allowed)
The school went with a sensible kahaki trousers and polo shirts in a few different colors.
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Post by SabrinaM on Sept 3, 2014 21:46:14 GMT
I would love a polo shirt/khaki uniform policy!
My sister's school in central Fl has one and they love it!
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Post by meriannj on Sept 3, 2014 21:46:57 GMT
My kids did 1 year in a uniform public school and we LOVED IT. It made morning so easy. My dd is 15 now and she still says how much she misses it. Dressing and trying to fit in for girls is hard and that eased so much of the pressure to fit in.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2014 21:52:58 GMT
Honestly, I hated it for Middle School for my son....we never had it before and don't have it for elementary or HS... Why? Because each year, he grew 2-3 sizes so I was constantly buying uniform type clothing along with regular knock-around clothing -- two sets got expensive!
However I did like that it kept the dress code pretty standard during MS!
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Post by KelleeM on Sept 3, 2014 21:55:01 GMT
My kids are both done with school now but went through 13 years of public school with uniforms. Up to high school was navy bottoms and white tops; high school was khaki bottoms and polos of different colors depending on their "academy." I loved it and it made life so much easier for everyone. They never knew any different and didn't complain.
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Post by donna on Sept 3, 2014 21:57:32 GMT
As a teacher I would dearly love a school uniform. My dh was in a private school from K-12, then the Citadel followed by the Air Force. He said that uniforms as so easy! You always know what you are going to wear and there is no setting people apart based on clothes.
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Post by BSnyder on Sept 3, 2014 22:01:00 GMT
My kids didn't have uniforms when they went to public MS or HS, but ds did when he went to private school. I thought it was nice at first, but after six years, I was over it and so was ds. I was so sick of seeing him all the time in the same white or pine green shirts and khaki pants/shorts. The few days the kids had free dress were coveted by all of the students. And, the kicker, buying uniforms was far more expensive than buying regular clothing. Every shirt needed to be monogrammed and all was purchased from Lands End, which adds up. Plus required dress shoes, white sneakers, etc. I spent over $400 on uniforms each season. Plus kids still need regular and dress clothes in their wardrobe.
Kids have far fewer choices/chances to be individual than we did as kids. Dressing is a great way to express yourself. I would never choose uniforms for my kids, if given the choice.
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Sept 3, 2014 22:09:20 GMT
It is quite rare here in Australia for schools to not have uniforms. It is always something that I am interested in when reading the back to school shopping posts.
My dd goes to a private school so has always had a uniform which we both love. The days where they can have a casual day are usually cause for much angst about what to wear.
Public schools (around where I am anyway) generally had colours that the students wore but in the past few years I've noticed them have actual uniforms - mostly simple polos, shorts, track pants and a checked dress etc. most people seem to love them. Speaking to friends at these schools they all think that it works out much cheaper this way.
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Post by anxiousmom on Sept 3, 2014 22:09:36 GMT
My kids have been in uniforms their entire school careers. They started at a private school and then moved to a public (charter) school. My oldest graduated last year having never attended a school that did not require uniforms.
Personally, I think it has been nice. There is no question about what to wear, it is always the same. With uniforms comes a fairly robust swapping around of outgrown clothes, so I don't always have to buy new. My kids never wear pants, so we only have to buy khaki shorts (although, his school will allow jeans if the high is below 60 or so.) Uniforms have been so easy for us.
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Post by lightetc on Sept 3, 2014 22:10:45 GMT
Missed it so much when I graduated high school. I'm content to wear the same thing every day - not something I value as a way to express myself. So I've essentially instituted a work uniform to minimise that stress.
I can see the other side of the story, but personally watching movies of high schools without uniforms made me shudder - just one more thing to make you different...
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Post by gonewalkabout on Sept 3, 2014 22:15:08 GMT
I grew up wearing school uniform (all schools in Australia have them). I hated it back then, as do most kids, but I can see after having my kids in school without uniforms in the US, the differences.
We had a regular uniform and sports uniform. Each school has a different one. Private schools usually have brown lace up shoes and tartan or plaid uniforms for girls, public has black lace up shoes, solid color uniforms.
Grade 8 - 10 wore a 'junior' uniform and grades 11 and 12 had 'senior' uniforms.
The only exception was when I changed schools and went to a senior only high school in south west Queensland, that was completely different in academics and was more like a college. We wore regular clothes, called teachers by their first names. There is now a similar school in Canberra (capital city in Australia), we were the 'test model' lol!
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Post by Linda on Sept 3, 2014 22:17:51 GMT
we don't have uniforms (except for JROTC which Simon was in and now Cathleen is) and I'm okay either way.
As a child, I always wore uniforms to school (grey skirt/pinafore with white blouse, grey blazer/jumper and a school tie and then either pink or blue gingham dresses for summer term) until we moved to the States. We were quite poor once we moved (a big change from solidly middle class before - Dad went from being an Army Major to working intermittently at minimum wage and commission-only jobs) and my clothes came from thrift shops and were never in fashion. I would have loved uniforms - I did love my JROTC and Girl Scout uniforms because then I looked like the others and if I was teased it was for being in JROTC or GS not for my clothes specifically.
My son wore uniforms for Kindergarten - light blue polos and navy shorts/trousers. It was so easy and when he outgrew something, I could trade it in at the office for a previously loved garment in a bigger size (or check the thrift shops)
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Post by turangaleela on Sept 3, 2014 22:19:59 GMT
My kids didn't have uniforms when they went to public MS or HS, but ds did when he went to private school. I thought it was nice at first, but after six years, I was over it and so was ds. I was so sick of seeing him all the time in the same white or pine green shirts and khaki pants/shorts. The few days the kids had free dress were coveted by all of the students. And, the kicker, buying uniforms was far more expensive than buying regular clothing. Every shirt needed to be monogrammed and all was purchased from Lands End, which adds up. Plus required dress shoes, white sneakers, etc. I spent over $400 on uniforms each season. Plus kids still need regular and dress clothes in their wardrobe. Kids have far fewer choices/chances to be individual than we did as kids. Dressing is a great way to express yourself. I would never choose uniforms for my kids, if given the choice. Eeeeeeeeeek!!!!!!! Holy crap, that is a lot of money!
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Post by perumbula on Sept 3, 2014 22:22:32 GMT
I used to be against them. A nearby district when to a uniform dress code a few years ago and I felt sad for the students (especially since their polo colors were the school colors of black and orange.) But the older my kids get the more I wish our district would follow suit. I do think elementary school students should be allowed jeans to help with wear and tear expense, but I'm totally cool with kahkis and polos every day. (Obviously one of our school colors is not orange.)
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ladypop
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Post by ladypop on Sept 3, 2014 22:24:17 GMT
Mine have always worn uniforms. Most Australian schools do, and I think they're great. The high school that DS2 is attending has a great second hand shop, so it keeps the prices down. Second Son is wearing Firstborn's old uniforms anyway and they were second hand to start with. They still look fine. The big expenditure is the leather shoes....I have to bite the bullet and buy the good ones because Second Son can run the soles out of a cheap pair in six weeks. The last pair I bought cost $200 but they had a 12 month warranty on the soles and he's still wearing them and they haven't dropped a stitch.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2014 22:31:20 GMT
My two wear an uniform, all schools in the UK do.
It's so much easier all round. School uniform is pretty reasonable over here.
Most importantly the kids are all on the same level......no one with the latest sports shoes or whatever making that one little kid feel inferior because his parents can't afford them....no arguments about what to wear each morning. Yes definitely a uniform house here.
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Post by Merge on Sept 3, 2014 22:37:47 GMT
Most of the elementary and middle schools in our district have some type of standardized dress or uniform. At both our elementary and middle school it's been plain jeans and a school t-shirt or polo. I like that - it's easy and removes all the drama of two girls getting dressed in the morning. Some other schools require khaki or navy pants or skirts and a collared shirt. I wouldn't be as thrilled about that - pre-teen girls have enough angst about their bodies without having to deal with unflattering khaki uniform pants every day. At least with the jeans rule we can buy a pair that is flattering. I'm actually dreading high school - none of the high schools my kids will likely attend have standardized dress, and for the first time we're going to have to deal with, "I have nothing to wear!!" Times two. 
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Post by epeanymous on Sept 3, 2014 22:40:58 GMT
We did it for a year. Hated it.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Sept 3, 2014 22:54:12 GMT
My oldest dd had to wear uniforms when we lived in the Chicago area. I hated it - she is now 6' tall and was always long legged and super skinny. So back then it was a nightmare trying to find pants that were long enough and even skirts that were long enough since she was all legs.
I have never had issues with my girls complaining about not having anything to wear or worrying about what they wore to school. Oldest dd was sort of grungy and youngest is 15 and dresses in different styles depending on her mood. She will be in jeans and a concert t-shirt one day and a dress the next day!
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Post by BSnyder on Sept 3, 2014 23:00:08 GMT
Most of the elementary and middle schools in our district have some type of standardized dress or uniform. At both our elementary and middle school it's been plain jeans and a school t-shirt or polo. I like that - it's easy and removes all the drama of two girls getting dressed in the morning. Some other schools require khaki or navy pants or skirts and a collared shirt. I wouldn't be as thrilled about that - pre-teen girls have enough angst about their bodies without having to deal with unflattering khaki uniform pants every day. At least with the jeans rule we can buy a pair that is flattering. I'm actually dreading high school - none of the high schools my kids will likely attend have standardized dress, and for the first time we're going to have to deal with, "I have nothing to wear!!" Times two.  I am going to consider myself lucky because my kids seem to be easier than many in most aspects. I've never had clothing issues with either dd or ds. However, ds did COMPLAIN loudly about wearing uniforms his last year with them.
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Post by scrapaddie on Sept 3, 2014 23:01:22 GMT
Dd went to a private school and so had to wear our uniform. I loved it. Shopping for school clothes was easy, deciding what to wear was easy, and the kids always looked nice. Even today, now that she is 32, sometimes she'll put on an outfit and I'll comment -?you look like you're ready to go to school! LOL
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2014 23:04:44 GMT
We just went from a private school with uniforms to a public school without uniforms. The shirts were $32 each polo shirts embroidered with the school logo. We bought three new shirts each year. The school sponsored a trade day where families could sell/trade uniform pieces.
I prefer uniforms...but this particular school has a quality dress code and it seems to be well-enforced.
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Post by psoccer on Sept 3, 2014 23:18:02 GMT
My youngest is at a private school with uniforms...50.00 for the year. He doesn't wear long pants, so he only has shorts and assorted polos. Love it. He does have his regular clothes, but I don't see uniforms as an added expense. He does have regular clothes for the week-end and after school, but he is a t-shirt and basketball short kind of kid.
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Post by utmr on Sept 3, 2014 23:52:02 GMT
I loved it. In MS it was the polo shirts and khakis combo (or polo plus jeans at another school). So easy.
I just bought the shirts big in 6th and they lasted all three years.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2014 23:54:19 GMT
DH wore a uniform all through school and has always said it just shifted the emphasis from clothes and shoes to other things being necessary to fit in or look cool.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2014 0:03:42 GMT
I always liked uniforms. No competition between kids, an obvious bonding identification between them all, no decisions to be made in the mornings, readily available and very reasonable here at least. Ditto.
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Post by maryland on Sept 4, 2014 0:08:50 GMT
We go to public school and they don't wear uniforms. I am not a fan of uniforms, though I know some parents love them! We have a very tight budget for clothing, and my friends that go to private school spend more on clothing (uniforms and afterschool clothes) than I do on my kids clothing. I was shocked to hear that, I always thought it was much cheaper for them than for our family.
Also, my kids and their friends (6th, 10th and 12th grades) don't seem to have issues with what to wear, or competition, so that probably is a big part of why I am glad they don't wear uniforms. I can see if they had clothing issues/competition, I would like uniforms too probably. I guess we are in the minority!
Ashley, we have heard the same thing that your husband says. I was told they certainly don't get off easily when they have to buy uniforms for their kids.
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Post by hennybutton on Sept 4, 2014 0:18:16 GMT
I loved when my son had uniforms in private school. He would only wear the shorts, so I'd get him two pairs of khaki shorts and 3 polo shirts. The company his school used was pricey, but the pants and shorts wore like iron. I would have preferred Lands End though. Their clothes have a better fit and feel to them than the ones DS's school had.
You can save a lot of money on uniforms if you do laundry every day. Then, you just have to rotate two outfits. If you only do laundry once a week, then you have to have 5 tops and 5 bottoms and that can run into big bucks.
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