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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Dec 18, 2018 17:15:37 GMT
Wow. I'm sitting here, absolutely in awe of your daughter's tenacity and bravery. Against all that life has thrown her way, she's going to college!
And what is wrong with your "friends" and family?! The phrase "check your privilege" comes to mind.
I say you should BOAST about the school your dd is going to! She deserves every bit of congratulations that all the other kids received. And any time a naysayer dares to open their mouth, I'd be singing about how proud I am of my child.
And just to be honest, her uncle sounds like the kind of asshole who would be rude to waitresses and others who aren't "good enough" in his eyes. What a toxic piece of dirt.
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Post by inkedup on Dec 18, 2018 17:17:00 GMT
Your daughter is amazing, and you both deserve to be proud!!
I'm sorry your family can't see this.
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Post by jennrs on Dec 18, 2018 17:17:49 GMT
Yay!! Congratulations to her and you!
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Post by grate on Dec 18, 2018 17:21:08 GMT
Wow , again I am teary eyed. Thank you for sharing in this with me. If I could finally figure out how to post a picture of her I would, we doing the "signing" in her shirt to send to the coach, this afternoon.
THANK YOU ALL
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Post by liya on Dec 18, 2018 17:22:55 GMT
Wonderful. Congratulations on her accomplishments!
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Post by Really Red on Dec 18, 2018 18:54:29 GMT
Your story brought tears to my eyes. YAY for your daughter!! I can see why you are so proud of her!!! She pretty much rocks it out of the park!
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Post by mom on Dec 18, 2018 18:56:46 GMT
This is awesome! Your daughter is obviously a fighter! Good luck to her!
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Post by grate on Dec 18, 2018 21:00:45 GMT
Thank you!! :  :
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Post by AussieMeg on Dec 18, 2018 21:52:41 GMT
Wow, congratulations to you daughter, how very exciting! (I’m posting on my phone, otherwise I would post the jumping and waving emoji! 😄 )
I’m sorry that some of your friends and family aren’t as accepting and excited about your daughter’s achievements and choice of school. That really sucks. Boo to them.
Tell you daughter that your Pea friends and family are excited and proud of her!
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Post by destined2bmom on Dec 19, 2018 0:09:46 GMT
Wow! Congratulations to your DD! She is amazing and her future is very bright! Brag away Mama!
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Post by purplebee on Dec 19, 2018 0:37:03 GMT
How wonderful! She made her choice for HER which is the best thing to do. She will be so happy! You have every right to be proud.
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Post by RosieKat on Dec 19, 2018 0:57:49 GMT
Good for her, for choosing a school that fits HER needs not the expectations of others. I’m not surprised you’re so proud of your daughter. She has battled her whole life with physical and learning disabilities, and struggled with depression too. The fact she has achieved so much is very impressive, and she has fought hard for it. It says a lot about the kind of person she is. Sing her praises from the rooftops - we’re all joining in! So much YES on both of these! Congratulations! (And as someone who didn't go to an Ivy but went to a big name, highly competitive school - it ain't all that! I have come to realize that I probably would have been better off at a different school, although I have no regrets since that's the journey I took to get where I am now. Your education in all respects is what you make of it!)
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Post by jeremysgirl on Dec 19, 2018 1:39:12 GMT
That is just awesome for her! And I'm sure you must be beaming with pride, as you should! I hate when someone has to rain on someone else's parade. As a mom of kids with challenges to overcome, I say don't even listen to naysayers. Some people could really use a dose of humility.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Dec 19, 2018 2:57:52 GMT
Congratulations!!
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Post by kate on Dec 19, 2018 3:09:10 GMT
Wow! Congrats to your DD!
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Post by grate on Dec 19, 2018 4:55:25 GMT
thank you thank you all!!
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Post by mollycoddle on Dec 19, 2018 5:26:43 GMT
I think that’s wonderful news, and your friends are being jerks. As for the uncle, WTH was he thinking?  , She sounds like a remarkable kid. 
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Post by mom26 on Dec 19, 2018 5:35:22 GMT
Stories like your daughter's are so inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing her accomplishment with us!
I also must say that you are one outstanding mom to have raised such an amazing child. Good job, both of you.
(And a pox on all those negative ninnies. They should be ashamed of themselves.)
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Post by dald222 on Dec 19, 2018 5:58:40 GMT
congrats for your daughter and you 
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Post by ILoveToScrapPea on Dec 19, 2018 6:18:15 GMT
How wonderful!! Your daughter is amazing!!
How sad that some people think less of another person’s higher education choices. They should be supporting her & telling her how they’re proud of her.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Dec 19, 2018 6:22:38 GMT
Congratulations! That’s very exciting!
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Post by ddly on Dec 19, 2018 11:48:24 GMT
Kudos to your dd for doing what is best for her!! This decision is going to help her be that much more successful!
Don’t let others get you down. This is about dd, not them.
Congrats to her!
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Post by auntkelly on Dec 19, 2018 12:17:36 GMT
Congrats to your daughter!
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Post by grate on Dec 19, 2018 12:19:04 GMT
For those that mentioned my BIL, he is someone I have a hard time with. Very selfish and insecure man, I am sure to him it is just a lost opportunity to brag even though he sees my kids 2 a year (lives 40 minutes away and passes our house in the summer to go to the beach 1/4 of a mile down the street). I have so many stories  You ladies are really overwhelming in your support, it truly warms my heart.
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Post by Jennifer C on Dec 19, 2018 14:35:46 GMT
Congratulations to your daughter!!!
Jennifer
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Post by workingclassdog on Dec 19, 2018 15:01:38 GMT
Congrats to your DD.. that is awesome.
I don't understand the mentality of people who think kids have to go to 'certain' schools. My daughter picked an university here in Colorado and I couldn't be more proud. It's not one of the top big 3 ones but it is a good one and I really don't give a flip. She is doing awesome and that is all that matters. I wouldn't care if it was a community college or an ivy league college...
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