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Post by lancermom on Mar 1, 2019 3:56:24 GMT
We have/had so many grandmothers in our family. Here is what I had Great great grandma was Mimi Great (daughter To above) Granny she said I don’t care what you call me, not granny. It stuck! Grandma (daughter to Granny) growing up I called her Grandma -first name. When my cousins were born,(10 years younger) they called her Busha. Polish for grandma. Now she goes by grandma, Busha, or grandma Busha! My other great grandma was grandma -last name.
My mom and mil are grandma first name. My aunt has taken Mimi.
I am thinking of Busha for my grandkids. My grandma is still with us, but she would love it! I am a couple few years away from grandchildren.
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mvavw
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Post by mvavw on Mar 1, 2019 4:24:44 GMT
I have a while before I choose for myself, but I have/had: Grandma E...firstname (Gramma, Gram, nice grandma) Grandma M... Firstname (& Grandpa/Gramps) (Gramma, mean grandma) Mama (& papa)(great grandmother who didn't want to be called grandma when she was younger, so her grandchildren called her mama and it stuck through the great-greats) Nana & papa (another set of great grandparents) I think my other greats went by nonna and papa (they died when I was young and I have vague memories of them) Nice grandma and mean grandma were named by my college roommates because they would call me at school. Nice grandma "knew" my roommates, asked about them, how classes were going, etc before even asking if I was home. Mean grandma would say "Where's Maria" if I wasn't the one to answer. Funny thing is they never specified beyond nice and mean- I knew  DH is from the south and had grandma & grandpa lastname and mommom and poppop. Mommom became great mommom to my kids. Grandma and grandpa were called grandma and grandpa but referred to as greats. My parents are grandma and grandpa to my kids, but my dad is poppop, papa and gramps to my neices and nephews. Mom is grandma to all.
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Post by quinlove on Mar 1, 2019 6:58:15 GMT
Cute story - this is regarding two of my grandkids who I am very close to. They were about 6 and 8. The 6 yo is on the phone with me. The 8 yo asked her who she was talking to. She said that she was talking to Grandmother. The 8 yo told her ~ you don’t have a grandmother. We only have grandma ! 😂
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hannahruth
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Post by hannahruth on Mar 1, 2019 8:24:55 GMT
My mum was always Grandma and DH's mum was always Nanna.
I said I liked Grandma better than Nanna and DH liked Grandpa but when our eldest started talking he pronounced Grandma as Gram-Ma and now our three grandies call me Gramma and DH is called Poppa.
Son-in-law's parents are called Nanna and Grandad.
The little ones decided on what they called us ❤️
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Post by lesserknownpea on Mar 1, 2019 8:49:26 GMT
My mom’s people are from New England, and the grandmothers have all been Grammie all the way back to my great grandmother. So I am Grammie to 8. The other grandmothers are Nana, Grandma, and Memaw, so no confusion.
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Post by jenb72 on Mar 1, 2019 13:29:17 GMT
Mine is "Grammy". I kept playing with names and couldn't find one that felt right when I said it. Then my DH made a joke that his should be "Grumpy" (which stuck, because... well, he is, lol) and that helped because I wanted them to make sense together. So we're "Grammy" and "Grumpy". Jen
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Mar 1, 2019 14:03:10 GMT
My friend is Lolly and her DH is Pop, so then the grandchild can say she's going to LollyPops!
My other friend's name was chosen by the grandchild. She's Namma and her DH is Papa.
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Post by dazeepetals on Mar 1, 2019 15:12:29 GMT
Honestly, and this is my thoughts, I feel like insisting that a grandchild call you a certain name is weird. I grew up calling my Grandparents by Grandpa/ma Lastname. No one told me to call them that, that's just what I ended up calling them.
For my son, I asked my mom (bless her soul) if she wanted to be called a particular name just to cover in case she was particular like some people. She didn't care what she was called and would be happy with whatever my son said. We always said this was grandma and my son eventually called her NaNa, so that stuck. Ironically, my son called my DHs mom Grammie without us prompting. I feel like allowing the child to pick a name for their grandparents is more special and personally.
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Post by MissBianca on Mar 1, 2019 15:24:26 GMT
When my kids were born our moms and my grandmothers were alive. So my mom was Ma, DH’s mom was Nanny, my grandmothers were/are Grandma and Memere. My kids picked the names based on what we called our parents/grandparents. The kids called my dad Pa but he insisted on grand dad, he’s a bit of an ass so the kids were always corrected.
My boys argue over what my grandma name will be. I guess we will see who has kids first and what the kids choose. I’m in no rush though. Lol
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suzastampin
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Post by suzastampin on Mar 1, 2019 17:32:01 GMT
I’m Nana as it started with my mother. She said she was too young to be called grandma...was 58. So, Nana followed on to me and my brother’s wife. My dad was Papa, as is my husband and brother.
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hutchfan
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Post by hutchfan on Mar 1, 2019 17:42:38 GMT
My daughter gave my mom her name of Nana and my grandson called her Nanny. He calls me GaGa he gave me that name on his own.
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Post by prettyprettypaper on Mar 1, 2019 19:08:03 GMT
Tūtū is the most commonly used Hawaiian word for "Grandma", so that is what I plan on using. If my future grandchildren make up their own term, I would go with that.
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msladibug
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Post by msladibug on Mar 1, 2019 19:33:38 GMT
Nuni=Junie +nana
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Mar 1, 2019 22:06:33 GMT
No kids here so I never will be a grandma and neither will my mother - which upsets me more.
I had a Grandma/Grandpa and a Granma/Grandad, chosen by them. As children, my brother and I differentiated between them by calling them Granma-at-Hook (where she lived) and Grandma-with-the-bike (she rode a motorcycle until she was 76!)
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Post by meridon on Mar 2, 2019 1:01:20 GMT
It might not matter what you choose anyway....my stepmom wanted to be called Granny Lynn but my DD couldn't pronounce that..she started calling her NiNi and it's stuck.
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Post by callmenutz on Mar 2, 2019 5:46:24 GMT
I just waited until my grandson started talking and he called us Mawmaw and Pawpaw. Great Grandma was Gigi.
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taysmommy03
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Post by taysmommy03 on Mar 2, 2019 6:17:29 GMT
My mom was so excited about being a grandma and what her grandma name would be. Her sisters were already nana, mimi, and so on. My ex's mom was mammaw.
But she kind of took the let the baby name you approach. And it worked! DS started calling her "dear." She loved it! It did take us a bit to figure out where he picked up "dear from, though. Lol
Turns out that's all my dad called my mom. Lol And DS overheard and thought that was her name. Mom loved it, so it stuck.
Up next: why he calls my little brother "hobbit"
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lilbit1va
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Post by lilbit1va on Mar 2, 2019 8:18:14 GMT
I didn't have a name picked out for myself. Other grandma was already called Mimi from her first grandchild. So I decided to wait to see what grandson would call me. He had trouble with grandma and it became Amma. I liked it and have a friend called the same name. She is from Iceland and that's the common name used in that country.
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