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Post by JoP on Apr 4, 2019 6:35:25 GMT
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Post by gar on Apr 4, 2019 6:37:00 GMT
Morning Lainey - hoping to hear some good news this morning ((hugs))
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Apr 4, 2019 6:45:26 GMT
lainey thinking about you, hoping things have improved.
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Apr 4, 2019 7:53:27 GMT
I just popped in to see whether you'd updated.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2019 8:17:04 GMT
Thinking of you lainey (((hugs)))
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2019 10:14:43 GMT
My mum's hanging in there, not really improving, despite all the fluids she's on she's still chronically dehydrated and freezing cold. The doctors don't have any answers for me. I got back last night, had a shower and went to sleep. Thank you all for being wonderful.
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craftykitten
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Post by craftykitten on Apr 4, 2019 10:22:14 GMT
Sending much love to you and your mum lainey xx
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Post by JoP on Apr 4, 2019 10:26:53 GMT
lainey I’m glad you got some rest. Keeping you and your Mum in my thoughts. I’m so sorry the doctors don’t have any answers for you.
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Post by gar on Apr 4, 2019 10:28:31 GMT
How frustrating Lainey! Glad you at least got some sleep. Are they going to be doing more tests?
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Apr 4, 2019 10:30:03 GMT
Thinking of you Lainey, we are all here with you x
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Post by purplebee on Apr 4, 2019 11:05:28 GMT
Sending thoughts and prayers for your Mom and for you.
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Post by Really Red on Apr 4, 2019 11:32:06 GMT
I just saw this and read your updates. I hope things have improved this morning! {{hugs}}
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Post by gillyp on Apr 4, 2019 11:37:47 GMT
So pleased you’ve been able to rest, it is so draining sitting by someone in hospital. Does mum know you are there? Is she just sleeping most of the time? How she is sounds very like my friend’s mom who was in hospital for about six weeks with no concrete diagnosis but she eventually started to improve and is back home none the worse. Hope you get a similar outcome.
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Apr 4, 2019 12:17:02 GMT
Thinking of you today. I hope you can find time to take care of yourself during this stressful time.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 4, 2019 12:18:50 GMT
I am happy you went home to rest. You have to take care of yourself, too.
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uksue
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Post by uksue on Apr 4, 2019 12:25:16 GMT
Thinking of you had sending positive thoughts and prayers x
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Post by liya on Apr 4, 2019 12:35:12 GMT
I am so sorry you are going through this. Sending you much love.
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Post by twinks on Apr 4, 2019 14:29:46 GMT
Continued thoughts and prayers for you and Mom.
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Post by mom on Apr 4, 2019 14:32:28 GMT
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Post by annabella on Apr 4, 2019 18:13:15 GMT
Sending good thoughts
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Post by grammadee on Apr 4, 2019 18:50:01 GMT
(((((Hugs))))), lainey. Glad you got some rest and self care time. Do you have a comfortable place to sit when with your mum?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2019 19:10:58 GMT
Today has been sad and scary, she's having seizures and barely knew I was there. I don't know how we've got to this from her falling over.
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Post by flute4peace on Apr 4, 2019 19:13:33 GMT
Today has been sad and scary, she's having seizures and barely knew I was there. I don't know how we've got to this from her falling over. I’m so sorry! My guess is she either fell due to a stroke or other medical cause, or she hit her head when she fell. Have you had contact from your brothers? I worry about the one. Please be safe!
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Montannie
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Post by Montannie on Apr 4, 2019 19:14:38 GMT
Oh my dear! Hugs to you! It is scary to be the only one there. Can you call a friend?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2019 19:17:51 GMT
One brother has been with me today, we've had talks about what to do about the other one. I don't want to deny him the chance to come and make peace with my mum so we've decided to ring him tomorrow. I'll give the hospital staff a heads up about him. My biggest fear is he'll get there and start kicking off.
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Post by flute4peace on Apr 4, 2019 19:26:20 GMT
One brother has been with me today, we've had talks about what to do about the other one. I don't want to deny him the chance to come and make peace with my mum so we've decided to ring him tomorrow. I'll give the hospital staff a heads up about him. My biggest fear is he'll get there and start kicking off. It’s a really tough situation, isn’t it. Do you still have the active protection order? Perhaps the police would come and give an escort for his visit?
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Apr 4, 2019 19:32:06 GMT
lainey glad to hear your brother was with you today. You are right to let your other brother know. He won't be the first person to get emotional in hospital and as you intend to give the staff aheads up I'm sure they will have a system ready to deal. Hope your Mum has a calm night and that you get some rest. (Hugs)
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Post by twinks on Apr 4, 2019 20:02:55 GMT
Lainey - I have been in a situation where my DD was in the hospital and her father wanted to visit her. Fine, however, there is a restraining order against him. We had to even have a neutral party execute the normal (though greatly reduced) custodial visitations. I found the hospital security personnel extremely helpful in our situation. I just alerted the charge nurse who had a security officer visit with me ahead of time. When DD's father came to visit, I walked out of the room, and the nurses notified security. They had an officer standing around the station watching. I was just downstairs at the cafeteria.
I am telling you this as an idea. Get the hospital security involved, if you feel it necessary. You can protect yourself in dealing with brother.
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Post by gillyp on Apr 4, 2019 22:24:46 GMT
I’m sorry you’ve had a scary day. I hope you both have a peaceful night and tomorrow is more positive. I’m glad you are no longer alone.
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Post by gar on Apr 4, 2019 22:50:16 GMT
I am glad you’ve had your brother with you today. I hope tomorrow gets you some positive news.
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