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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2019 8:27:28 GMT
Miraculously my mum is still with us. She won't recover but she's not quite ready to give up yet. Her body has been through more in the last few days than anyone should have to cope with, she's so weak, her heart is barely functioning, she's so confused, unable to eat. It's heartbreaking.
I want to thank you all for your good wishes, positive thoughts and prayers. I kept coming and reading them but found myself unable to respond, my brain is a weird mix of thinking all the thoughts at once and not thinking anything at all. Chunks of time are passing but I couldn't tell you where they've gone.
My brother has been informed of what's happening but he's said he can't and won't face it so I guess that's that.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2019 8:28:40 GMT
Hugs
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Post by gar on Apr 8, 2019 8:32:36 GMT
Thank you for taking time to update us Lainey. My heart hurts for you. Have doctors said what caused this awful downward spiral? I’m glad that at least you know where you are with your brother and that he won’t cause you any further distress. Lots of love to you in these hard hours and days ((hugs))
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Post by JoP on Apr 8, 2019 8:33:24 GMT
lainey sending you Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2019 8:40:44 GMT
Have doctors said what caused this awful downward spiral? They're unsure what caused the issue with her kidneys, that's had a knock-on effect with everything else.
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Post by marmargirl on Apr 8, 2019 8:51:56 GMT
Continuing to send you strength and hugs. 💕
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Apr 8, 2019 8:53:47 GMT
Gentle hugs. Hang in there.
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Post by disneypal on Apr 8, 2019 9:30:39 GMT
Continuing to pray
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Post by pjaye on Apr 8, 2019 9:32:11 GMT
I'm sorry to hear about your mother. It's very hard to be there while someone is in the process of dying. I hope they are able to ease any pain she has and that she passes peacefully.
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Post by phoenixcov on Apr 8, 2019 9:33:28 GMT
Hugs and very kind regards lainey
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Apr 8, 2019 9:34:03 GMT
(((Hugs)))
Thoughts of strength for you.
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Apr 8, 2019 9:34:27 GMT
Sending you strength as you go through this very difficult time. I do hope you find some comfort knowing that so many are thinking of you.
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Post by lesley on Apr 8, 2019 9:43:20 GMT
This is such a hard time for you Lainey. I’m glad you’ve been able to update us, and know that we’re all thinking of you.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 8, 2019 9:47:07 GMT
Thanks for taking the time to update us lainey. It's a difficult place to be where you are right now but just know that we're thinking of you, even though we can't physically be there to support you. Sending you much love and and wishing your mum comfort and peace.
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Post by Patter on Apr 8, 2019 10:05:00 GMT
I am so sorry. Such a long, difficult journey. Hugs and prayers continue!
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Post by craftykitten on Apr 8, 2019 10:18:54 GMT
Still sending you love and holding you and your family in my thoughts.
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Post by momto4kiddos on Apr 8, 2019 10:21:24 GMT
((HUGS)) and prayers during this difficult time.
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Post by janeliz on Apr 8, 2019 10:28:18 GMT
Thinking about you, Lainey. I’ve been where you are and I know how exhausting and disconcerting it can be be.
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Post by hop2 on Apr 8, 2019 10:34:48 GMT
Hugs Lainey
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Post by littlemama on Apr 8, 2019 10:36:13 GMT
Still praying for you and your family. Thank you for updating.
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Post by peasapie on Apr 8, 2019 10:46:59 GMT
I’m sorry to read about your mom. I recall you two have had an up and down relationship over the years, yet you’ve always been a wonderful daughter to her. Sending you my best wishes for strength in this difficult time.
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Post by AllieC on Apr 8, 2019 10:48:37 GMT
Thank you for updating lainey. You and your Mum have been in my thoughts. Make sure you take care of yourself during this very tough time.
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Post by wellway on Apr 8, 2019 11:03:15 GMT
Thanks for the update. I've been thinking about you and your Mum. I'm sorry you are all going through this.
Would your brother write a note that could be read to your Mum? Just thinking that later on he might regret his decision not to visit but if he got a message to her at least that would be some comfort.
(Hugs)
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Post by annabella on Apr 8, 2019 11:09:14 GMT
Sending hugs
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Post by purplebee on Apr 8, 2019 11:10:31 GMT
Thinking of you, Lainey, and sending prayers.
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Post by idahopea on Apr 8, 2019 11:13:41 GMT
I'm so sorry. Thinking of you and your mum.
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Post by gillyp on Apr 8, 2019 11:24:24 GMT
Thank you for taking the time to let us know how things are. I imagine your head’s in no mans land at the moment. Sitting waiting gives you lots of time to think but it’s so hard to make sense of your thoughts. I hope you are getting breaks to look after yourself, breathe in some fresh air and just take care of you . Hugs to you.
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Post by luvnlifelady on Apr 8, 2019 11:29:52 GMT
Miraculously my mum is still with us. She won't recover but she's not quite ready to give up yet. Her body has been through more in the last few days than anyone should have to cope with, she's so weak, her heart is barely functioning, she's so confused, unable to eat. It's heartbreaking.
I want to thank you all for your good wishes, positive thoughts and prayers. I kept coming and reading them but found myself unable to respond, my brain is a weird mix of thinking all the thoughts at once and not thinking anything at all. Chunks of time are passing but I couldn't tell you where they've gone.
My brother has been informed of what's happening but he's said he can't and won't face it so I guess that's that.
I'm thinking of you and your family. Your brother is processing this in his own way. Some people can deal with it and others can't. I hope you have a support system in place. Her health sounds like my former MIL (we are still close). We all basically said goodbye to her on Christmas Eve (her birthday) but she's still hanging in there. Take care of yourself.
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Post by muggins on Apr 8, 2019 11:32:12 GMT
I’m sorry to hear about your mum. Big hugs to you:)
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Post by Jili on Apr 8, 2019 11:35:41 GMT
I’m so sorry, Lainey.
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