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Post by M~ on Sept 3, 2019 13:50:17 GMT
God no. My childhood up until the game of seven was idyllic but the rest of my childhood and teen years were utter shit. Most of my adult years have been spent working and studying and taking care of my grandmother.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2019 14:39:25 GMT
I would give a lot of money to spend a week or so revisiting our life when the kids were young. Then I'd want to come right back to now.
That's it.
I don't think the "old days" were always good or better. Mostly they were worse - especially the further back you go.
I think people who look back more than forward are in a bad place now. I feel for them.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Sept 3, 2019 14:53:05 GMT
Our perceptions of days gone by are different. As a child of the 70’s I remember things that have nothing to do with social issues or politics. I just remember being a kid and the things we did. I feel that same way about the 80’s when I was a teen and young adult. My memories are of being young, traveling and coming into my own. I don’t dwell on the bad times in those eras, and I don’t think that’s uncommon.
I also think it’s a common reaction to getting older. I think once you pass 50 you look back at your life and where you’ve come from. I choose to focus on the good times, life is too short to wallow in the bad. It’s not as if I’m unaware of changes. I was in the military in the 80’s and it was a lot harder then than now. But I still loved those years.
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Post by lesley on Sept 3, 2019 16:07:41 GMT
I don’t wish I could go back to any particular time, every age had its hardships and heartbreaks. I like my life just now. It’s not perfect, but it’s stable and uncomplicated.
However, I do get sad thinking of how it used to be. We were a really close family. My parents and siblings have been dead for many years, and I’m estranged from my sisters-in-law and wider family. I have been separated from my DH for four years, and am no longer in touch with the woman who was my dearest closest friend for over 30 years. I have almost nobody to reminisce with! And the couple of guys I can talk to about the good old days lived in the same street as me (and still do), so the shared history is kind of limited.
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Post by workingclassdog on Sept 3, 2019 16:29:11 GMT
I see so many people make posts on FB about how great the 80s were and how they'd love to relive them, I find it odd as I remember the 80s as a horribly depressing time. The music, the fashion, the political climate were all awful, why would anyone want to go back to that?
I like to reminisce occasionally but I don't want to return to the past, I prefer to live in the here and now.
How old were you in the 80s? Maybe that has something to do with it? I was in my middle to late teens.. I loved the 80s.... I loved the music, fashion.. honestly I don't remember politics except a few big things that were good. Like the Berlin Wall coming down. But otherwise I was too busy in my own little life to 'know' politically what was going on. I don't dwell on it.. but I do get a little excited if a topic revolves around that era.
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Post by pierkiss on Sept 3, 2019 18:03:24 GMT
I see so many people make posts on FB about how great the 80s were and how they'd love to relive them, I find it odd as I remember the 80s as a horribly depressing time. The music, the fashion, the political climate were all awful, why would anyone want to go back to that?
I like to reminisce occasionally but I don't want to return to the past, I prefer to live in the here and now.
We’re you a kid or tween in the 80s, or an older teen/adult? I find that the younger people were in the 80s the more they think it was great (I know I do, as do most of my friends). But my parents, sisters in law, and other 45+ish people don’t remember it as fondly.
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Post by Anita on Sept 3, 2019 18:29:52 GMT
Nope. Life just got good recently. My youth was NOT my "good old days" by any stretch of the imagination. I think this point in my life will become my good old days because I am having a blast. I went skydiving last weekend, which I never would have done when I was young. There's something to be said for the good new days.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2019 18:39:57 GMT
Yes, sometimes. Usually in reference to how traffic wasn't so bad, how kids played outdoors and stayed out all day until their parents called out the window/door that it was time to come home, and how we didn't have to worry all the time that some nut will go on a shooting rampage.
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Post by sharlag on Sept 3, 2019 19:24:34 GMT
I reminisce about the free outdoor play and low tech childhood I had. We were allowed to roam Our rural neighborhood, ride horses and motorcycles... it just seems better than so many current childhoods attached to gaming screens.
My sister keeps reminding me that there’s more than one type of “good childhood”, but I can’t embrace that concept.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2019 20:03:57 GMT
Nope, these are the days I am enjoying most. I loved being home and watching my girls grow up, but I would not want to relive it.
I HATED my school years. with a passion.
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Post by SockMonkey on Sept 3, 2019 21:28:49 GMT
I do not.
I often wonder when folks say that, "Good for whom?"
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Post by mikklynn on Sept 4, 2019 12:59:59 GMT
I like my life now. I might laugh about something from the past, but I don't talk about it a lot.
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