trollie
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Jul 2, 2014 22:14:02 GMT
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Post by trollie on Oct 12, 2019 12:45:33 GMT
I am sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))
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Post by t2x on Oct 12, 2019 13:04:24 GMT
Oh, how sad yet sweet. Your story, “I got ya!”, made me both laugh and cry at the same time. What a dear, dear man.
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Post by quietgirl on Oct 12, 2019 13:11:10 GMT
I am sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful, uplifting person.
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Nanner
Drama Llama
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Jun 25, 2014 23:13:23 GMT
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Post by Nanner on Oct 12, 2019 13:15:02 GMT
oh Kellee, I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your loved ones.
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pridemom
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Jul 12, 2014 21:58:10 GMT
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Post by pridemom on Oct 12, 2019 14:17:34 GMT
How devastating. I am so sorry. I won’t give platitudes, but will say to lean on your family and friends.
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Apr 18, 2024 4:59:31 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Oct 12, 2019 15:12:30 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by SallyPA on Oct 12, 2019 15:16:36 GMT
I am so very sorry. How traumatic and tragic for you.
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oaksong
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Location: LA Suburbia
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Jun 27, 2014 6:24:29 GMT
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Post by oaksong on Oct 12, 2019 15:48:11 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. I just now saw this. I can’t believe how quickly it happened. You must be in such a state of shock. It was obvious how sweet he was, and how happy you were together. My deepest sympathies to you, dear Kellee.
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inkedup
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Jun 26, 2014 5:00:26 GMT
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Post by inkedup on Oct 12, 2019 16:37:58 GMT
There is something so powerful about a laugh in the gallows. What strength of character and spirit your husband showed in these moments.
You have always been one of the kindest, loveliest ladies here. You found the partner your good heart deserved.
Continuing to send love to you and all your loved ones.
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RedSquirrelUK
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Posts: 6,723
Location: The UK's beautiful West Country
Aug 2, 2014 13:03:45 GMT
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Oct 12, 2019 16:45:00 GMT
So, so sorry.
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Post by liya on Oct 12, 2019 16:54:01 GMT
I’m sorry just isn’t enough. Sending you love and hugs from afar.
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Post by gillyp on Oct 12, 2019 16:59:58 GMT
Your second update is uplifting, funny, sad, amazing and I feel privileged to have read it.
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Post by uksue on Oct 12, 2019 17:15:54 GMT
I’m so sorry.
I’m so glad you can already appreciate the time you had with him and you are surrounded by loving support . What a blessing in many ways that he didn’t pass very suddenly - with no time to say goodbye- but also didn’t linger for ages in pain . Love and prayers being sent .
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chendra
Pearl Clutcher
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Location: The 33rd State
Jun 27, 2014 16:58:50 GMT
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Post by chendra on Oct 12, 2019 17:49:47 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by Jennifer C on Oct 12, 2019 18:07:23 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great man.
Jennifer
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Post by cmhs on Oct 12, 2019 18:15:19 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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valincal
Drama Llama
Southern Alberta
Posts: 5,619
Jun 27, 2014 2:21:22 GMT
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Post by valincal on Oct 12, 2019 18:18:25 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your love and respect for him always came through when you shared posts about your life together. Take care.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Oct 12, 2019 20:12:31 GMT
(((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))) For the whole family!
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Post by MichyM on Oct 12, 2019 21:58:00 GMT
I am so sorry. I cannot imagine the sense of shock and deep loss you must be feeling. Lots of warm thoughts being sent to you and all who cared about your husband.
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twinsmomfla99
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Jun 26, 2014 13:42:47 GMT
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Post by twinsmomfla99 on Oct 13, 2019 0:32:54 GMT
I am so sorry to here this. Hugs and prayers coming your way.❤️❤️❤️
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Post by scrappintoee on Oct 13, 2019 6:50:44 GMT
She was putting liquid morphine under his tongue using a syringe and had him open his mouth and lift his tongue. She deposited the morphine and instantly he dropped his head to the side as if he had died. After about 5 seconds he jerked his head back and opened his eyes and said “I got ya!” It was such great comic relief at a horrible time. After that she gave him the second dose of morphine and removed the oxygen. I was holding one hand, one son held the other and another son stood by as his breathing slowed and within 20 minutes he was gone. LOVE this story!!!! And that nurse will always have fond memories of him !!! I'm assuming (and of course, may be VERY wrong)---that nurses don't usually get to enjoy comic relief at such a heartbreaking time! The last 2 sentences......wow......I wish I could ((( hug )))) you in person !!!!!!!!!!
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Post by scrappintoee on Oct 13, 2019 6:59:00 GMT
( I hope you don't mind that I cut and pasted from his obituary ) " His greatest joy was his family and family gatherings. He was also a full time day care Papi and best friend in the whole world to his granddaughter Ally. "I think I speak for many other peas that Ally has also been on our hearts and minds. I also wish I could ((( hug ))) that precious girl in person !!!!
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Post by KelleeM on Oct 13, 2019 9:59:49 GMT
( I hope you don't mind that I cut and pasted from his obituary ) " His greatest joy was his family and family gatherings. He was also a full time day care Papi and best friend in the whole world to his granddaughter Ally. "I think I speak for many other peas that Ally has also been on our hearts and minds. I also wish I could ((( hug ))) that precious girl in person !!!! Of course I don’t mind. My sweet Ally has lost her Papi and her Grampy in just 5 weeks. She is very obviously struggling to figure this all out. Her Mom and I are doing the best we can, through our grief, to help her understand. It’s so hard.
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Post by gillyp on Oct 13, 2019 10:33:32 GMT
( I hope you don't mind that I cut and pasted from his obituary ) " His greatest joy was his family and family gatherings. He was also a full time day care Papi and best friend in the whole world to his granddaughter Ally. "I think I speak for many other peas that Ally has also been on our hearts and minds. I also wish I could ((( hug ))) that precious girl in person !!!! Of course I don’t mind. My sweet Ally has lost her Papi and her Grampy in just 5 weeks. She is very obviously struggling to figure this all out. Her Mom and I are doing the best we can, through our grief, to help her understand. It’s so hard. Your dear little gd will bring you a lot of comfort during the dark times.
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Post by JoP on Oct 13, 2019 10:39:44 GMT
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luckyjune
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Post by luckyjune on Oct 13, 2019 14:47:37 GMT
Wrapping you in the biggest hug. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by fruitysuet on Oct 13, 2019 16:53:49 GMT
I am so sorry to read this. I loved your story in the update. He sounds like a wonderful and selfless person, I love that you have such good memories to call upon.
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Post by Chips on Oct 13, 2019 17:01:03 GMT
I am so sorry for you loss and your husband sounds like a great man. May his memory be eternal, sending you lots of love, hugs and prayers.
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Post by redshoes on Oct 13, 2019 17:12:39 GMT
Oh my, just read the OP entries for the first time...I’m so very sorry for your loss. How unsettling to get such dire news and his passing within such a short time, however I’m glad you had the opportunity to have some time with him. I’m praying the days and weeks ahead will be filled with peace, comfort and wonderful memories. He sounds like a wonderful person, hugs to you.
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Post by roberta on Oct 13, 2019 17:29:31 GMT
Still thinking of you and the family. Thank you for sharing these stories. What an awesome person! I’m relieved for you that you have loving family with you. Deepest condolences.
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