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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 20, 2021 23:31:06 GMT
I am having problems with UPS too. I have been home and watched my driver walk up and place the package. As soon as he steps away I get it from the back door. The last 2 boxes I have gotten have been opened. One box had been cut open with a box cutter I’m assuming (it was missing an entire side) the second box was opened but just the tape. I don’t think it’s the driver but I do think it’s a UPS issue of some sort. By the way my items were all there, it was cooking items, but I did have to get one item replaced because it was damaged, I assume from a fall. I guess my thief didn’t want to cook There are literally people who follow delivery trucks just to steal stuff. I’m sure they all carry tools of the trade to. |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 17, 2021 21:28:41 GMT
It’s okay if you’re republicans…
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 15, 2021 12:14:04 GMT
What on earth are you going on about? Are you jesting with exaggeration because if so you've done a poor job of it. You mentioned twice in each of your postings about Brian being a serial killer. No one has suggested that Brain is a serial killer. Obviously you are free to have your own opinion on this case. But if you want people to respect your opinion then don't hand slap the other Pea's opinions. Don't call out in your thread by name other Pea's especially someone like our beloved Bergdorgblonde who I think you owe an apology to. Condescension & hypocrisy noted. Please read the thread. Given I quoted @bergdorfblonde, I'm obviously responding to & interested in her comment [bold is mine]: ...About neighbors (or 1??) seeing Brian mow the lawn, I don't know if I believe it. I'd love to hear solid proof that he ever came back to FL after their van trip. Did the police see him in person and question him? I have a strong feeling that the Dad drove the van back and Brian never went home. The parents probably urged and helped him leave the country. Just a feeling....... Who knows? Maybe he's done this before. Hope we find out! See right here—bergdorfblonde is CLEARLY stating that it what SHE believes. No where does she make any claims that it’s gospel truth or documented fact. This isn’t doing what you think you’re doing— |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 15, 2021 12:11:22 GMT
Probably for the same reason you assume that they didn’t help him or that he’s not (yet) guilty. It’s human nature to try to put the puzzle pieces into place. She’s dead. He was the last known person to be with her. He said absolutely nothing as to why he had the van that was in her name, leaving her without a home/vehicle essentially stranded (or dead) where they had been traveling. Hired a lawyer right at the point her parents started worrying. Refused to say anything about her, location where he left her, what transpired. He Disappeared. And that was BEFORE she was found murdered. I think most assume he’s guilty because of his own actions and not because of “LE or ME fueling to the narrative” that he’s guilty. They report the facts as they’ve found them. In your own post quoted, to make assumption of his actions—just like everyone else is doing. It’s just a part of a “process” to make sense of things. I don't assume that "he's not (yet) guilty." People in this country are innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. Given about half of homicides with a female victim are committed by partners, & manual strangulation is considered personal, the likely suspect is the fiance. The police report of a "public service incident" involving her dad at his parents' house on 9/10 is heavily redacted, so we have no idea what transpired & allegedly prompted the family to hire an attorney (or the dynamics of the various relationships - between his & her parents, the fiance & each of her parents, etc. - prior to this date). Him/his family exercising their right to have an attorney &/or follow his advice to remain silent does not equate to guilt. IMHO LE & ME have not merely report facts. For example, the ME stated in the official press conference that her death was "involved with domestic violence," which the FBI has not officially concluded, then later admitted in an interview that it was speculation. These things will only help the defense, should he be found alive, charged, & tried for her murder. It seems any case brought against him without a confession would be challenging as is, considering the time of death could not be pinpointed, his DNA would be expected on her body since they lived together, etc. Also, I don't assume his parents did or "didn't help him" since the public has no idea if he's actually on the run. Authorities incurring millions to search the preserve/park for a month suggests they believe he's there & appear to be targeting areas previously uninhabitable for recovery (perhaps since experts opine he likely wouldn't survive this long). Unlike others, I recognize the possibility he both told his parents that he was going to the preserve & actually went on a hike, but got injured, killed due to a fall/wildlife/etc, or a community watchman, like Zimmerman, decided to be judge, jury, & executioner. Given the public only knows basics about his parents, I wonder what makes @bergdorfblonde & others assume they are criminal masterminds whose 23 yo son is a serial killer! I hope the person responsible for her death is found & convicted as well as the other ~20K active missing person cases are solved. You ignored a huge point of my post. It’s human nature to speculate. The ME is allowed to speculate to some degree—it’s part of their job based in their years of training, experience, history. As for his own parents, they too have been extremely suspicious in their reported actions/behaviors. And in regards to those you’ve named here and their thoughts and speculation —it’s all part of the thought/discussion process here. You sound as if they’re forcing others to believe everything they type as gospel. I’m sure if you’d ask them they too will say that they also believe innocent until proven guilty. And right now, by most accounts (and given little of what we know), he looks guilty AF. |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 14, 2021 9:46:40 GMT
We currently have 2 gallon zip bags full of grapes in our freezer! Lol
It’s one of our favorite snacks.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 14, 2021 9:38:45 GMT
I do agree, partially. He has the right to a fair trial. HOWEVER, so far it doesn't look too good for him considering that quite a few people saw him being enraged with Gabby and with a waitress and manager at a bar/restaurant. People reported seeing his violence towards Gabby to Police. The fact that he took her car and (supposedly) drove it back to FL should have been grand larceny. The van was registered to only Gabby. He was charged with stealing and using her credit card. And the fact that he fled and didn't face the charges against him OR help with the search for her seems to be telling (again, we can't assume).... About Moab: ...She only defended him to the police out of fear. The police were so taken in by his personality, which amazes me! Aren't they trained to see what's really going on???... ...About neighbors (or 1??) seeing Brian mow the lawn, I don't know if I believe it. I'd love to hear solid proof that he ever came back to FL after their van trip. Did the police see him in person and question him? I have a strong feeling that the Dad drove the van back and Brian never went home. The parents probably urged and helped him leave the country. Just a feeling....... Who knows? Maybe he's done this before. Hope we find out! People have disputes; it appears none of the couple's violatility was recorded or confirmed (just like the parents' neighbors, eyewitnesses aren't reliable). None of us know the couple or the dynamics of their relationship. The UT police assessed the situation after spending an hour with them. While seated in the back of the police car, she spoke with her mom on the phone & was subsequently given possession of the van for the night (which she told them she didn't like to drive). It appears the only known person to express concern about their relationship during this incident was the female Arches National Park Ranger. The fiance used accounts (the federal warrant doesn't specify the owner(s), but her family claimed in an interview they were in her name) & drove the van (registered in her name) home like always since they lived together & supposedly shared assets. Authorities quickly established that he returned to FL alone in the van on 9/1 due to traffic cameras & GPS from the van impounded on 9/11. Given a federal warrant for his arrest was issued on 9/22 (five days after he was reported missing on 9/17 & nine days after he was allegedly last seen on 9/13) for "use of unauthorized access devices...which affected interstate commerce," evidence must exist that he accessed a Capital One debit card & two Capital One bank accounts to obtain $1K+ on 8/30 & 9/1 in several states (e.g. ATM cameras) which confirms he made that cross country trip. According to the police spokesperson, he's never been questioned by the authorities regarding her disappearance; rather, local police were referred to the family's attorney. It's my understanding that it wasn't until a "public service incident" involving her dad at his parents' address (details are unknown since the report is heavily redacted) on 9/10 (the day before her mom reported her missing, two days after his family returned from camping, & nine days after he came home solo in the van) that his family hired an attorney, who not surprisingly advised his clients to remain silent. If it was planned that he return home for his family's Labor Day camping trip, since she reportedly scheduled to meet & spend a few days with a friend on 8/29 to celebrate the friend's birthday in Yellowstone which is notorious for poor cell service, it likely didn't seem odd to his family (especially since he'd come home solo earlier in the trip) & he may not have realized she was missing until now. Likewise, it's possible he's actually missing. How far & long can even an experienced recreational hiker, used to sleeping in a van or hotel & eating in restaurants, last as a survivalist living completely off the land & fugitive being hunted by the FBI & other agencies? Why do you assume his parents are so heavily involved in her murder &/or have the means & connections for him to escape or navigate a foreign country as a fugitive OR suspect that he may be a serial killer!?! Probably for the same reason you assume that they didn’t help him or that he’s not (yet) guilty. It’s human nature to try to put the puzzle pieces into place. She’s dead. He was the last known person to be with her. He said absolutely nothing as to why he had the van that was in her name, leaving her without a home/vehicle essentially stranded (or dead) where they had been traveling. Hired a lawyer right at the point her parents started worrying. Refused to say anything about her, location where he left her, what transpired. He Disappeared. And that was BEFORE she was found murdered. I think most assume he’s guilty because of his own actions and not because of “LE or ME fueling to the narrative” that he’s guilty. They report the facts as they’ve found them. In your own post quoted, to make assumption of his actions—just like everyone else is doing. It’s just a part of a “process” to make sense of things. |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 10, 2021 22:33:48 GMT
Maybe this was the realistic amount.
Maybe all those other years they income was inflated, or he way overcharged back then.
But then again, I’ve stopped patronizing businesses that don’t share my values…so maybe that!!!
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 10, 2021 22:31:35 GMT
I laughed before I saw lucyg 's answer!! They found Scavino at Mar-A-lago. Hiding up the butt if the orange shit stain 45 |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 10, 2021 22:30:02 GMT
He and his kind and those who act like total assholes—hateful and ugly under the name of Christ can fuck the hell off.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 10, 2021 17:02:27 GMT
Our family just sent the following:  (We did send the full qty requested of the dry erase lap boards) Such a great person you are to help her!!!! ❤️❤️❤️ |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 6, 2021 0:25:45 GMT
If they want so much control of what their kids learn, they need to homeschool them. Period. They don't want the actual work that goes into lesson planning, delivery, assessments, reporting, etc. They want the teachers to do it, for not-a-lot-thank-you (taxes! you know!), but they want full control of what is taught. Of course, they're used to calling the shots and having it all their own way. That's partly why our country is in turmoil - they finally are not in control of women, minorities, LGBTQ, etc. And they HATE it. Entitlement culture! |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 4, 2021 2:36:27 GMT
Try Liquid IV.
It’s made with cane sugar and a bit of stevia.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 4, 2021 2:30:49 GMT
Hi peas, I have a good friend whose oldest child (aged 23) recently announced that she is a transgender woman. She has not come out to everyone yet but is planning to soon. I met this family when the middle child was in kindergarten with my DS so, while I know this young adult, I know her as the older sibling of my son's friend. My friend confided in me and I have not betrayed her confidence. She and her DH are doing what they can to be supportive. When she (the child) chooses to go public, I want to send her a card to express my support. While I have not experienced this first-hand, I know that there will be some lack of understanding and support by some people. I have made her a card, rainbow colors with "hello" on the front but I am struggling with what to say (or rather, want to know what NOT to say) What I have so far is, "Dear..... Congratulations on coming out! I fully support you and wish you the best. Love, lemon drop" Is that sufficient? I am cautious about saying too much because it seems to open up the opportunity for me to put my foot in my mouth. I thought about including "you are brave", but that doesn't seem right. I don't want to say anything about a "journey" ugh, that makes me cringe! But my message seems so brief. What say the peas? I know there are several peas whose children are transgender. I appreciate your insight. Thank you! And OP… This is not to pick on you or dissect your OP—it’s awesome that you want to be there in the best capacity you can. Here are a few things to be mindful about— She’s a woman, not a “transgender woman” (it’s often offensive to be described or introduced that way) She’s not a child, she’s 23. She’s a full on adult. While many who are transitioning ARE brave, and have faced shit we would never dream of, unless you know first hand she’s experienced stuff, I wouldn’t mention it. Most transgender persons know they are not living their authentic selves at very early ages. Their “public” transition is most often a long time coming to which they’ve already gone through a long chunk of a journey to get from knowing it to publicizing it. They’ve experienced all the feels, the emotions, etc., whereas those finding out now may be surprised/shocked and some may even “grieve” the loss of whom they were before like a parent feels like they’re losing a daughter who’s transitioning to son. (That’s all on them and shouldn’t put that pressure onto the one transitioning). You’ll always want yo refer to them with the name they choose, the pronouns they choose. It’s not okay to relive/share “when they used to be” unless they ask. |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 4, 2021 2:11:03 GMT
Coming out may not be accurate. Not all transgendered are gay or coming out.
Those who are choosing to transition from one tenet to another and just as it is—transitioning—not necessarily coming out.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 4, 2021 2:06:42 GMT
Here’s to you living your most authentic, best life! Thank you for sharing it with me/us, and we’re here to support you in any way we can. Love you!
I would refrain from anything that makes reference of the “before” as many transgendered have left that life long before they shared with anyone else. (I.e.like nothings changed…)
And oh my gosh please don’t ever refer to it as a “phase” or “stage” in their life!!!
It’s their LIFE. Plain and simple!
Not a phase. Not a stage. Not a fad.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 3, 2021 17:39:25 GMT
Do tell...  All the kids want a fat kitty now and I'm not typing that word out lol. Like a fat ass is a good thing, but you also apparently need a fat wet juicy taco and you advertise such with your camel toe. It's a whole thing. 😜 I just chocked on my drink while watching football with hubby and he asked what was wrong…I told him…you should see his face!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Oct 3, 2021 15:22:56 GMT
Just wanted to say that I’m sending vibes/thoughts of love, positivity, and healing your way.
I’m so sorry that you’re struggling 😭😭😭
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 29, 2021 13:00:29 GMT
I’m totally ok disagreeing with someone.
But if their core values are racist, homophobic, or to take away my body choices as a woman, hateful toward other because of skin color, or because of who they are, then they can just fuck if.
No room in my life for that.
If you’re anti-vaxx, then fine—don’t get it. Stay away from others. But stop attacking—verbally and physically those who are pro mask and who are vaccinated and want to get back to some sense of normalcy. The majority of those who I’ve heard talk about not getting the vaccine are nothing short of making it a political—not medical/based in science—decisions. Their reality is not based on fact or science.
For those who continue to vote for the hateful, racists politicians, ones who are right now tearing down our democracy with their repeated lies about elections, their unconstitutional laws over women’s bodies, their gerrymandering districts, their lie upon lie, upon lie, no room for them in my house either. You reap what you dow, you are what you eat, you stand (approve) of who you vote for.
It’s one thing to disagree because of a personal opinion. It’s another to actively force someone into submission by creating hypocritical, hateful laws because of your religious or political beliefs that are not fact based, truthful, or should be laws at all.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 28, 2021 10:42:38 GMT
Never ever, never ever ever, make a statement to the opposing insurance company.
1. They will use anything you say against you, it’s their job to protect their shareholders (not you or the guy who they insure).
2. They will lie, frustrate you and immediately—no matter what—deny your claim or attempt to force you to admit your part in the accident so that they don’t pay.
3. ALWAYS file a police report.
4. Call YOUR insurance and let them do their job—you pay them.
I was rear ended with the guy going 65 mph—so fast that the force of impact when he hit me sheared the bolts off his pick up truck bed and sent it sailing to the opposite side of 4 lanes of expressway…he slammed into me, sending me into the car in front of me, guy behind guy who hit me slammed into him, causing him to hit me again…
And his insurance company tried to tell me it was my fault that their client hit me not once but twice because they called me the day after the accident, and I talked to them making a statement. They used my own words against me, saying I was at fault for an accident I didn’t cause!
It took 2 years, a lawyer, and up until the day before court to get them to pay for the accident (I hadn’t even asked for pain/suffering). I was left with a lifetime of aches and a totaled car that I had to continue paying for. The hospital bills all fell on me.
I hate insurance companies, they’re liars, they do the absolute bare minimum for you if you’re in an accident.
They only care about their CEO’s and shareholders.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 27, 2021 1:10:08 GMT
And these are not plant based—they’re the real deal! My friend who is super duper lactose intolerant can eat these! He also eats the Cabot brand of cheese. |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 27, 2021 0:44:48 GMT
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 26, 2021 20:29:54 GMT
I review “safe” daily, depending on what we are doing.
I’m safe in our home.
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 26, 2021 2:07:50 GMT
Watching Ohio State taken Akron U to the cleaners!
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 25, 2021 13:45:34 GMT
But what tgat fake audit did do:
Harvested voter information for entities that were not entitled to get it via legal means (now cyber ninjas have all the voter info that you know they’ll sell)
Fundraising for trump
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 24, 2021 6:47:17 GMT
Remember when…
“Over a span of two months in late 2018, the Chinese government granted 18 trademarks to companies linked to President Trump and his daughter. In October alone, according to the Associated Press, China’s Trademark Office granted provisional approval for 16 trademarks to Ivanka Trump Marks LLC. The new approvals covered Ivanka-branded fashion gear, including sunglasses, handbags, shoes and jewelry, as well as beauty services and voting machines. In January of 2019, China granted Ivanka’s company preliminary approval for another five trademarks covering child care centers, wedding dresses, and art valuation services. The applications were filed in 2016 and 2017.”
Ivanka granted trademarks for voting machines…..
Now it’s clear why, right?
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 23, 2021 22:01:17 GMT
Drag Shows are a night! Love them. So much fun. It’s not modeling it’s performance. Usually lip syncing to a song, comedy or a it’s a skit. It’s a good time! Ease yourself into it and go to Drag Bingo to start. There’s a club here that does drag bingo twice a month and the proceeds go to the Equality Center youth programs. FYI a queen gave me my own drag name like 10 years ago. You may now address me as Queen FiFi LaRue. 😉 Um, Fifi LaRue is my gamer name and has been for 20 years. I challenge you to a duel at dawn! Winner gets to keep the name. Ha! And I’ve been Bubbles LaRue since my jr high gym teacher started calling me that (I have no idea why either!!!) |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 23, 2021 21:57:22 GMT
My friend has been pressuring me to go to a drag show for awhile now but it really doesn't interest me. I don't care if someone else goes, but I don't really see the point and it almost seems offensive in a way? Like making fun of people? But I could also see it as self-expression. I don't know, but it doesn't seem entertaining to me. She makes it seems like DH and I are missing out and that if DH doesn't want to go it must mean that he is homophobic or has a fragile ego. Am I missing something? What are your thoughts? Drag shows are AWESOME! I have several friends who perform, and I have created costumes for one Queen! They perform and celebrate who they are and the glam, costumes and performances are over the top stunning! We always have a blast, the audience dances, sings, loads of fun. It’s not making fun of anyone (?) not sure why you’d think that. I’ve asked my hubby to go, and it simply doesn’t interest him, but it does not make him homophobic. The shows really are not “sexual” in anyway, just a bunch of Queens in beautiful costumes, glam dresses, over the top make up, singing and dancing! |
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 22, 2021 22:00:13 GMT
Done thank you!
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 22, 2021 10:41:09 GMT
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Sept 22, 2021 10:29:11 GMT
Don’t ever forget, when the republicans have the majority in both the house and senate in an election year, they will steal the presidency. They’ve made their intentions crystal clear. This 245 year experiment is over. And then they’ll pass laws that prevent a Democrat from ever being President again. |
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