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Post by Fairlyoddparent on Dec 26, 2019 21:36:16 GMT
Is anyone interested in sharing their experiences with this open heart surgery? I just found out that I'm going to need a triple bypass early in January. I know people go through this and more every day but I'm freaking out a bit.
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Post by elaine on Dec 26, 2019 21:42:57 GMT
(((Hugs))))
I have no experience with heart surgery, but know how terrifying it can be to await major surgery. I don’t blame you for being very anxious.
You and your surgeons are in my prayers.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 26, 2019 21:43:29 GMT
DH’a grandpa had it in his late 70s or early 80s around 2000 or 2001. He came through with flying colors and lived another 15ish years, and died from non-heart related issues.
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Post by mustlovecats on Dec 26, 2019 21:46:25 GMT
My father had it. The first day he was sedated and the second day he was up and yelling for coffee and asking to shit. LOL seriously though, for such a major surgery it was not as hideous as we thought. He had pain and was very fatigued for maybe Three months as he healed. He did everything his doc said and had no complications at all. He did say the sternum repair was weird and he often felt it at first. He rapidly got healthier compared to his pre surgery condition. It was a very positive experience and he did extremely well with it.
A word for your family: when they take them back to see you after you come out of surgery it can be distressing, a lot of tubes and machines, and you will be sedated still and on a ventilator. Being prepared for that saved me some grief and the improvement in the next 24 hours was rapid.
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 26, 2019 22:01:38 GMT
I don't have any experience w/this, but I want to extend an arm of support. You must be very frightened. What I can tell you is that the strides the doctors have made gives you odds of an excellent outcome.
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Post by AussieMeg on Dec 26, 2019 22:10:15 GMT
That must be scary for you. I hope it all goes well and you're up and about quickly.
The only experience I've had is my dad's best mate several years ago. He went to the doctor for a routine heart check - next thing we know he's in hospital having a triple bypass. He'd had no symptoms, and no idea that anything was wrong. They did an amazing job and he was back up and going better than ever. I go to the football him, his son and my dad every week, and he is probably the fittest out of all of us! You wouldn't know that he's 77yo - he seems so much younger and he's so active.
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Post by Patter on Dec 26, 2019 22:12:32 GMT
Well, not bypass surgery but open heart--my daughter has had several. The last when she was 21 in 2016. She came through fine with all of her surgeries but as mustlovecats, please warn your family to be prepared for what they will see. We are a medical family so to speak so nothing shocks us but for some/most it will be a scary sight. Also, having a small notepad and pen can be helpful if you can't talk but want to communicate. That is what we did with our daughter. I also stayed with her the entire time in ICU 24x7. If you have someone staying with you, make sure they take something to do because there is a lot of down time when you will be a sleep and they are just sitting there. Our daughter REALLY wanted her music played even when she was asleep. She still remembers certain songs she heard that comforted her when she was asleep. Let your wishes be known too like--you hate having your feet covered or something like that. The nurses kept tucking her in with blankets, etc., and it drove her nuts. She wanted her feet out!!!! We would then undo the blankets and remind the nurses to leave her feet uncovered. Lots of little things to think about. Once you start doing your daily walking, keep track of your laps. The nurses will want to know. DD couldn't be discharged until she walked a mile. We kept track on the nurses dry erase board. The walkers are really nice and tall. They come all the way up to rest your arms on and walk. Praying it goes amazing for you. I too am having surgery in January, and I have only had a c-section, and I was awake for that. Everyone else has surgery in my family not me so I am with you on the "scared train." Hugs and prayers!
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Post by Fairlyoddparent on Dec 26, 2019 22:14:11 GMT
Thanks for the support! I'm usually a pretty stable and get-it-done type of person so I'm really surprised by my emotional reaction to this surgery. I'm trying to get myself together but, just as I think I'm ok, I fall apart again. I'm a mental health therapist and, due to the extended time off, I need to prepare clients accordingly and not put this burden on them so it's really important for me to get control. Your shared experiences and support is much appreciated!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 26, 2019 22:21:08 GMT
My dad had one a few years ago. They began to take him off sedation about 6 hours after surgery and by morning he was off his breathing tube and sedation med and was awake and alert. They also had him sitting up at that point in his bed.
He began physical therapy that day and had to walk so much each day and sit in a chair for certain lengths of time.
He had a heart pillow he had to hold when sitting, standing, using the bathroom, in the car.
He was in patient for 4 days post surgery.
He was slowly weaned off post surgery meds.
Only side effect was being cold all the time. Oh and pain in his leg from getting the vein or whatever it is.
Other than that he did great.
He needed help using the bathroom and showering for awhile until cleared to be by himself and not needing the pillow.
So have help lined up.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 26, 2019 22:22:06 GMT
The hardest part for me was seeing him on all kinds of support equipment post surgery before being taken off sedation. I am a medical mom too but wow that was shocking.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Dec 26, 2019 22:34:18 GMT
(((Hugs)))
I have no advice, but I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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Post by momto4kiddos on Dec 27, 2019 0:22:29 GMT
My Dad had it done too and the thought of it is very scary! Like others have said, you'll be sedated the first day. The nurse prepared us for what we'd see and very basically told us seeing him was for our benefit to see he was ok, but he wouldn't have any recollection. After we saw him she told us to go home because he wouldn't be with it until the next day.
He was up and about pretty quickly and other than being tired while recovering he bounced back pretty quickly. After he'd recovered, he said he felt better than he'd felt in 10 years!!
Good luck, hoping you'll quickly be on the other side of this and feeling well.
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Post by bc2ca on Dec 27, 2019 0:31:05 GMT
I'm usually a pretty stable and get-it-done type of person so I'm really surprised by my emotional reaction to this surgery. I can understand your reaction. IIRC, there is a high correlation between heart disease and heightened emotions and depression. We were concerned about MIL when she had hers 10 years ago as she is diabetic and not in great general health, but she came through without complications and is still chugging along at almost 87.
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Post by artgirl1 on Dec 27, 2019 0:31:35 GMT
I can offer some information. It will be 2 years in January since I had a major heart attack and 2 weeks later, quadruple bypass surgery. Honestly, the waiting in the hospital for the bypass surgery was the worst of the experience. And stay off the internet -the images an be daunting to look at.
Since you are able to prepare, I would recommend 3 things. Get some hook front sport bras, a size up, to wear as you recover. I seriously couldn't wear a bra for several weeks, and was so uncomfortable because of that, (and definitely wanted to wear something when I was out and about). I wore the sports bras for 4 months, before I felt comfortable in regular bras.
Get a wedge type pillow. You cannot sleep on your sides for 6 months while the sternum heals. I was a side sleeper, and this made getting sleep difficult when I got home. It will be uncomfortable to get up and down, and in and out of bed, because your upper body is so weak.
If you color your hair, get it done shortly before surgery. My hair was resistant to color for 6 months after surgery and the grey was getting thick!
You will be on vent etc, for first 24 hours or so while in CCICU, and they will get you up walking and moving as soon as you are in a room. Take advantage of that. You could still be on oxygen, monitors, and drain tubes, but mine all got piled on wheel chair, and I held on to it to walk. Also, there will be an aide, or someone to walk with you (or a family member). I was told to walk 3 laps 3x a day. I was walking that per hour after 24 hours. A good friend spent a lot of time helping me, and taking a lots of notes, (and was a retired cardiac care nurse, so she knew what to ask). I also had a great nurse, who was aware when I was getting discouraged and frustrated. On the fifth day, after surgery, she got me in the shower, and washed my hair, and that was the best thing that helped me move forward.
I have a high pain thresh hold, but the incision is uncomfortable, and there is bone pain from the sternum. You may also have incision on the leg, and wrist from the vein harvest. But most surgeons don't use stitches or staples anymore, and that make the incisions heal quicker.
I was discharged 2 weeks after surgery, but since I live alone, had to stay with nurse friend for three days. Visiting nurses came each day, then when I was home, medical equipment was installed, that watched bp, heart rate, weight, etc, and reported them to hospital several times a day. You cannot drive for 6 weeks, but when riding in the car, take your pillow! (for the bumps!)
Your surgeon and cardiologist will determine when you can start cardiac rehab, but it is so important to be faithful to attending every session of that program. Meanwhile, there are exercises that you can do at home to help strengthen upper body as soon as Dr. oks it.
I went back to work 12 weeks after my surgery, and I have a very physical job. I had lifting restrictions, and still have some weight limitations as to how much I can lift above my head. The longest side effect is the tiredness that comes as a side effect from the anesthetic. It took months before I didn't need afternoon naps.
I actually don't feel the surgery itself is that bad. I think the recovery is harder because you actually don't feel ill. Just follow the Drs and listen to what your body tells you, and it should be a success. This is now a common procedure and is so well developed that there should be little concern.
I hope your surgery and recovery are a success.
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Post by ToniW on Dec 27, 2019 0:56:29 GMT
DH had a double bypass in August. Artgirl1 has great info. Yes, he was out for about 24 hours and out of the loop as the anesthesia wore off. He was a bit grumpy and not much for talking the first day or two, too.
He had a pillow that he was told to press against his chest when he had to cough. He was in the hospital for 11 days (from being diagnosed at the ER) and discharged from the hospital 7 days after surgery. He would have had a triple, but the surgeon did not find good veins in his leg (he had it stripped some years back) so he had to get it from his chest. He only needed the narcotic pain pill for 24 hours and was on Tylenol afterward.
The doctors were surprised how well he bounced back as he had two checks against him, his weight and age. He has lost 15 pounds (he hated the hospital food) and kept it off and he is 74 years old. He has finished his cardiac rehab and doing well.
I will be sending you good thoughts for a speedy recovery!
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Post by Jili on Dec 27, 2019 1:11:24 GMT
My father had a quintuple bypass in April. He had his procedure at the Cleveland Clinic, and they have this down to a science. As part of pre-op procedures they gave him a great deal of material to read to prepare for what to expect, down to pretty much every last detail. While he was in surgery, my mom and sister were regularly updated through text to let them know where they were in the procedure. They even attended a class, while the surgery was occurring, where they learned about what to expect post-surgery and when they saw him for the first time.
His procedure was delayed, so he wasn't out of the operating room and into recovery until maybe around 5:00? Then they weren't able to see him until around 8:30 or so when he was moved into his ICU room. He was sedated and very swollen at that point. Per protocol, they could not stay long. They went home and returned the next morning (my sister told me that my mom was actually avoiding going back, as she was not sure what to expect). He was conscious about a couple of hours after they left that night. My mom was notified when he regained consciousness. He was in a little bit of pain from the intubation, and was sucking on some ice chips.
The next day he was in good spirits. When my mom got there, he asked her if she would get him an iced coffee from Starbucks. He was only allowed to drink liquids for a couple of days. He was able to talk to me on the phone. He honestly sounded great.
He had very little difficulty recovering and needed very little pain medication post-surgery. He did have the sensation of feeling cold all of the time and was generally just a little crabby, but that's how he rolls. It took a few weeks before he was feeling pretty much back to normal. He did remark to me that he felt the recovery was much easier than his knee surgery had been. That procedure was painful and he had side-effects from the pain medications. He also lost a fair amount of weight after that.
He did not get into rehab until about two months after his procedure (no joke-- the list was long), but he went regularly and he honestly loved it. He made some new friends and he liked the exercise.
I am confident that you will be in good hands, too. Best of luck to you. I believe that knowledge is power, and knowing what you might expect is a good thing.
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Post by danalz on Dec 27, 2019 1:12:38 GMT
My father had it. The first day he was sedated and the second day he was up and yelling for coffee and asking to shit. LOL seriously though, for such a major surgery it was not as hideous as we thought. He had pain and was very fatigued for maybe Three months as he healed. He did everything his doc said and had no complications at all. He did say the sternum repair was weird and he often felt it at first. He rapidly got healthier compared to his pre surgery condition. It was a very positive experience and he did extremely well with it. A word for your family: when they take them back to see you after you come out of surgery it can be distressing, a lot of tubes and machines, and you will be sedated still and on a ventilator. Being prepared for that saved me some grief and the improvement in the next 24 hours was rapid. When we saw my dad after surgery, there were lots of tubes and wires and he was kind of a grayish color. It was really scary to see but he came through it very well
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Post by paperaddict on Dec 27, 2019 5:14:30 GMT
My dad had a double bypass surgery when he was 48 years old (heart disease runs in his family). He recovered from it pretty well though he did get a bit depressed dealing with the pain a couple of days after the surgery. Overall, he is doing well and is now in his late 60s.
Sending you positive thoughts and wishes for a quick recovery.
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Post by canadianscrappergirl on Dec 27, 2019 5:55:23 GMT
No experience with this but I would strongly suggest you having a advocate there with you if it's possible. There were so many times I'd catch stuff with Spencer that he wasn't even aware of the issue.
Best of luck for a quick recovery and successful surgery
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Post by mikklynn on Dec 27, 2019 14:12:42 GMT
No advice, just sending my best wishes your way.
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Post by julieb on Dec 27, 2019 17:37:10 GMT
My dad had a triple bypass last year at 87. Everyone said it takes a full year to recover and they were correct. He finally feels better, but that is an 87 yo man. I've heard younger and better shape will have you bounce back quicker.
Good thoughts for the skillful hands of your surgery team and a quick recovery!!
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Post by jcm28 on Dec 27, 2019 19:00:47 GMT
I’ve never had the surgery but was an open heart nurse in the CVICU for 30 years before I retired in 2018. In our unit, we extubated as soon as possible, usually within 4 hours. Then up in the chair for a couple of hours then to step down the following day. I was always generous with Morphine and Oxcodone. Ice chips as soon as you are extubated then working up to clear liquids. Chest tubes and lines out first day post op, if all is going well. Most of the first night is a blur and many patients don’t even remember it. If you would like to PM me, I could try to answer any questions you might have.
Janet
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Post by jcm28 on Dec 27, 2019 19:01:30 GMT
I’ve never had the surgery but was an open heart nurse in the CVICU for 30 years before I retired in 2018. In our unit, we extubated as soon as possible, usually within 4 hours. Then up in the chair for a couple of hours then to step down the following day. I was always generous with Morphine and Oxcodone. Ice chips as soon as you are extubated then working up to clear liquids. Chest tubes and lines out first day post op, if all is going well. Most of the first night is a blur and many patients don’t even remember it. If you would like to PM me, I could try to answer any questions you might have.
Janet
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Post by jcm28 on Dec 27, 2019 19:02:21 GMT
Sorry for the double post. My iPad is being stinky today!
Janet
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Post by luckyjune on Dec 27, 2019 19:34:18 GMT
My dad had a double bypass surgery when he was 48 years old (heart disease runs in his family). He recovered from it pretty well though he did get a bit depressed dealing with the pain a couple of days after the surgery. Overall, he is doing well and is now in his late 60s. Sending you positive thoughts and wishes for a quick recovery. I could have written this, except my dad was 42 years old. His cardiologist continues to be amazed at his recovery, saying that if he didn't know my dad's history, he'd never guess that he'd had heart problems. Dad is currently in his 70s and going strong! Sending you the best possible healing vibes! Keep us updated on how you are doing!
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Post by Fairlyoddparent on Jan 15, 2020 5:20:35 GMT
Update--
I'm just 4 days post triple bypass surgery. I'm not going to sugar coat it... It was/is terrible. I'm holding on to other people's experiences and how most feel much better. I appreciate that you shared your experiences and well wishes.
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Post by snyder on Jan 15, 2020 5:28:41 GMT
So happy you came through your surgery. Prayers that you heal quickly and that you will be feeling in tip top shape soon.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jan 15, 2020 5:39:46 GMT
Thanks for the update. You really will feel better. Your body and mind have gone through a major ordeal, they need to recover as do you mentally too!
((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))
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Post by bc2ca on Jan 15, 2020 6:55:15 GMT
I hope you feel better every day.
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Post by kristi on Jan 15, 2020 7:27:01 GMT
{hugs} thinking of you
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