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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on May 14, 2020 12:21:22 GMT
With all of the uncertainty and worry, some little things that might not have bothered me before are really grating on my nerves.
In no particular order:
Go Noodle videos. My first grader's teacher plays them as a brain break. But oh my gosh, if I have to hear "Boom chicka boom" shouted again, i might lose it.
YouTube doing the majority of my students' education. Yeah, I know it's a tool they need to use, but it is seriously every subject, for the majority of the work. I feel like YouTube is teaching my kids, and that is extremely lazy feeling. (The teachers aren't lazy, but it all seems so thrown together)
The fact that there is no place to escape thinking about the pandemic. Every commercial is "We're in this together." Every website has reminders to wash your hands & wear a mask. I live in the inner city, so i can't just take a walk in nature. I would have to use public transportation, which is currently reserved (by the city) for only essential workers, medical appointments, and 1x week grocery shopping to get to anything resembling nature, so I can't do that.
Show me I'm not alone & list yours too!
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Post by gar on May 14, 2020 12:31:39 GMT
It's not a big thing but turns out my husband is noisy! Not eating (thank god!!) but he grunts a lot when generally moving around, sits down with a big "Ahhh", walks heavily upstairs, talks out loud when his laptop is 'misbehaving'...it just seems like all his physical actions are accompanied by a vocal noise. I just think I've never had him in the house non-stop so much before!
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Post by Fidget on May 14, 2020 12:39:18 GMT
My co-worker who was loud in the office is even louder on conference calls - it's like she is screaming and screeching into the phone. It hurts my head and my ears - I so badly want to tell her to use her inside voice..
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Post by bbkeef on May 14, 2020 12:39:41 GMT
My friend at work instant messages me every day and we've done this for years. EVERY DAY I hear one of these: I have a headache I don't want to work I'm cold/hot I'm hungry
I want to say I DON"T CARE! I'm not your mommy asking you what's wrong. This is a nearly 60 year old woman.
Also, anyone who texts before 7am. Why? Some of us are still sleeping and it's nothing of importance. I think these days minor things irritate me even more.
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Post by shescrafty on May 14, 2020 12:42:20 GMT
It's not a big thing but turns out my husband is noisy! Not eating (thank god!!) but he grunts a lot when generally moving around, sits down with a big "Ahhh", walks heavily upstairs, talks out loud when his laptop is 'misbehaving'...it just seems like all his physical actions are accompanied by a vocal noise. I just think I've never had him in the house non-stop so much before! My husband has house slippers that make a loud irritating shuffling sound. He cannot move things in the kitchen without banging a pot or pan all the time. He randomly coughs throughout the day. He always has. But now I hate it and my spidey senses are heightened to hear any coughs. He used to cough and just barely move his hand to cover his mouth (gross) but still least now he coughs into his elbow. Still irritating AF.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on May 14, 2020 12:49:20 GMT
Pandora keeps cutting out, and Adobe is not as fast as I want/need it to be. I keep getting Not Responding.
My coffee tastes good though, which reminds me, I am going to order some more.
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Post by Merge on May 14, 2020 12:56:44 GMT
It's not a big thing but turns out my husband is noisy! Not eating (thank god!!) but he grunts a lot when generally moving around, sits down with a big "Ahhh", walks heavily upstairs, talks out loud when his laptop is 'misbehaving'...it just seems like all his physical actions are accompanied by a vocal noise. I just think I've never had him in the house non-stop so much before! We call these "dad noises" at our house. DH does the same thing. I usually do something passive aggressive, like getting silently up from the couch and looking pointedly at him while I do it, and he cuts it out for 30 minutes or so.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 14, 2020 12:59:02 GMT
My friend at work instant messages me every day and we've done this for years. EVERY DAY I hear one of these: I have a headache I don't want to work I'm cold/hot I'm hungry I want to say I DON"T CARE! I'm not your mommy asking you what's wrong. This is a nearly 60 year old woman. Also, anyone who texts before 7am. Why? Some of us are still sleeping and it's nothing of importance. I think these days minor things irritate me even more. People like that are tiresome! As for the early morning texters, I solved that problem by putting my phone in Do Not Disturb mode from 10:00 pm until 7:00 am. Now unless someone is on my emergency list (basically just DH) no other calls, texts or notifications will make a sound. Ahhh, blissful silence. It’s a sanity saver that I wish I would have had years ago when one of my goofy siblings would call me on the phone at some ungodly hour just to chitchat.
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Post by hop2 on May 14, 2020 13:01:08 GMT
My internet stalling
My dog has decided to take up scratching or digging at things and I don’t know why. I can’t leave anything on the floor or he will paw it all over - maybe he’s just tired of me being home & messy
The aspca commercials every other minute. I’m tapped out on giving money right now so stop torturing me with these dying dogs - not to mention wouldn’t it have been better to treat the dogs before setting up to film them being abused? If I had any extra money I wouldn’t be sending it to you.
My neighbor & The smoke in the foyer- they aren’t supposed to be smoking in the common area. I can’t deal with it. There isn’t any other way in & out of my apartment and I tired of my Bobby’s reaction to the smoke. ( coughing, throat tightening etc )
My vacuum is slightly broken making it difficult to use
Back up alarms I hear them 24 hours now delivery trucks during the day road construction at night I can’t deal any more.
Myself - I’m tired of being this irritable at everything
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Post by iluvpink on May 14, 2020 13:02:59 GMT
Never ever being alone is annoying me. And I love my family and realize there are people quarantining alone who are miserable. So I feel guilty. But gosh a few hours alone would be nice. Dh is a general contractor and back to work, but they are having trouble getting supplies and not fully operational yet so he's not gone all day. DD is off work due to her health issues making her more susceptible to getting and having complications from Covid-19 so she's home. Even my dogs are getting on my nerves at times!
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 14, 2020 13:04:22 GMT
The things that irritate me now are the same things that irritated me before, which is that every time I turn around one of two things is happening in my house. Either my DD is leaving a room with every freaking light left on, or my DH is walking away from the kitchen cabinets with the doors hanging wide open. What the hell, people? I swear, I just go around the house turning off lights and closing cabinet doors all.freaking.day. and I feel like I’m turning into both my mom and my dad, LOL. So annoying.
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Post by gar on May 14, 2020 13:13:28 GMT
It's not a big thing but turns out my husband is noisy! Not eating (thank god!!) but he grunts a lot when generally moving around, sits down with a big "Ahhh", walks heavily upstairs, talks out loud when his laptop is 'misbehaving'...it just seems like all his physical actions are accompanied by a vocal noise. I just think I've never had him in the house non-stop so much before! We call these "dad noises" at our house. DH does the same thing. I usually do something passive aggressive, like getting silently up from the couch and looking pointedly at him while I do it, and he cuts it out for 30 minutes or so. I might try that
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Post by leannec on May 14, 2020 13:16:25 GMT
My complaint is the same one I've always had ... why cat, do you have to vomit at least once a day I'm tired of cleaning it up ... especially off the carpet Oh, and I'm also tired of seeing my ex over here as often as I do ... I'll be glad when he's moved all of his stuff out
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on May 14, 2020 13:25:36 GMT
It's not a big thing but turns out my husband is noisy! Not eating (thank god!!) but he grunts a lot when generally moving around, sits down with a big "Ahhh", walks heavily upstairs, talks out loud when his laptop is 'misbehaving'...it just seems like all his physical actions are accompanied by a vocal noise. I just think I've never had him in the house non-stop so much before! Mine is getting very stressed. His company chose the day before the bank holiday weekend to tell him and a load of his colleagues that their jobs were at risk of redundancy . So quite understandably, all the irritations that he's been managing successfully at home for the past X weeks (I've lost count) are now getting on top of him. Suddenly it's the difference between "well you need my signature on that, and I'm not signing anything unless you get it right" and "if I don't sign this, even though it's wrong, it's going to cause a delay that costs the company a bomb and they might use that as a reason to choose me to let go". Poor man. So it's not a little thing, but I'm hearing a LOT of anger and frustration. All I can do is take in drinks and snacks and kiss the back of his neck from time to time. I feel so helpless. ETA: Oh and I JUST discovered this morning, that Izzy, short for Isadora, who I've heard him discussing things with cheerfully for the same number of weeks every day, is a man. SILLY me for getting that wrong. It must be short for Isadoré.
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Post by gar on May 14, 2020 13:29:43 GMT
It's not a big thing but turns out my husband is noisy! Not eating (thank god!!) but he grunts a lot when generally moving around, sits down with a big "Ahhh", walks heavily upstairs, talks out loud when his laptop is 'misbehaving'...it just seems like all his physical actions are accompanied by a vocal noise. I just think I've never had him in the house non-stop so much before! Mine is getting very stressed. His company chose the day before the bank holiday weekend to tell him and a load of his colleagues that their jobs were at risk of redundancy . So quite understandably, all the irritations that he's been managing successfully at home for the past X weeks (I've lost count) are now getting on top of him. Suddenly it's the difference between "well you need my signature on that, and I'm not signing anything unless you get it right" and "if I don't sign this, even though it's wrong, it's going to cause a delay that costs the company a bomb and they might use that as a reason to choose me to let go". Poor man. So it's not a little thing, but I'm hearing a LOT of anger and frustration. All I can do is take in drinks and snacks and kiss the back of his neck from time to time. I feel so helpless. No that isn't a little thing at all! For man and poor you - very stressful for you both
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Post by smalltowngirlie on May 14, 2020 13:30:36 GMT
Amazon is out of the coffee I want.
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2020 13:46:27 GMT
ETA: Oh and I JUST discovered this morning, that Izzy, short for Isadora, who I've heard him discussing things with cheerfully for the same number of weeks every day, is a man. SILLY me for getting that wrong. It must be short for Isadoré. Now THIS would make me very happy, lol!
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on May 14, 2020 13:57:11 GMT
I swear, I just go around the house turning off lights and closing cabinet doors all.freaking.day. I would totally leave them like that. See if they say anything when they return to the kitchen
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on May 14, 2020 13:59:24 GMT
My irritations are minor as I do realize I am incredibly blessed. More than anything I am happy that everyone is healthy and we have shelter and food.
However, I am getting cooking fatigue from trying to plan out and prepare all the meals and damn these people go through a lot of dishes. The dishwasher runs almost daily, which in itself is fine, but someone has to empty it.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 14, 2020 14:03:27 GMT
I swear, I just go around the house turning off lights and closing cabinet doors all.freaking.day. I would totally leave them like that. See if they say anything when they return to the kitchen They wouldn’t say anything because they either don’t care or are oblivious, which is why they leave them like that in the first place. I seriously doubt they would even notice. LOL by the end of the day every overhead light in every room of the entire house would be on and every cabinet door left open, and both of them would probably be outside!
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2020 14:07:48 GMT
My husband doesn't seem to know how to do anything involving water without getting puddles all over the floor. He washes his hands and it looks like there's been a tsunami I told him there was water all over the kitchen floor and he took his sock off to dry it up I didn't even have words for that.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on May 14, 2020 14:13:55 GMT
I told him there was water all over the kitchen floor and he took his sock off to dry it up I didn't even have words for that. Thanks for cleaning that up. Haha!
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Post by lesley on May 14, 2020 14:36:56 GMT
The things that irritate me now are the same things that irritated me before, which is that every time I turn around one of two things is happening in my house. Either my DD is leaving a room with every freaking light left on, or my DH is walking away from the kitchen cabinets with the doors hanging wide open. What the hell, people? I swear, I just go around the house turning off lights and closing cabinet doors all.freaking.day. and I feel like I’m turning into both my mom and my dad, LOL. So annoying. Oh I so get that! My mum used to shout “Do you think I’m made of electricity?" when I left lights on all over the house. I’ve used it a couple of times on my kids, but they are generally pretty good at turning off lights. Now computers are another thing. There are two gaming PCs here, and they’re on pretty much the whole time the kids are awake. Phones and iPads are always on the charger. I am going to save so much money when they finally move out!
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Post by gar on May 14, 2020 14:42:02 GMT
I told him there was water all over the kitchen floor and he took his sock off to dry it up I didn't even have words for that. Hilarious!
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Post by breetheflea on May 14, 2020 14:53:33 GMT
I plan dinner, go pick it up, and cook it. The least people in my house could do is 1) add things to the list that we are running out of (ketchup) and put dinner stuff away (mayonnaise). Guess what, our next grocery pick up is in a week, I guess we're not going to use condiments for the next six days.
Also, I finally put some stuff to give away on a Facebook site because DH was complaining I hadn't done it yet and need to check every so often in case anyone has any questions. When day does DH decide to take the computer apart (I don't have Facebook on my phone) AND spend 4 hours playing a stupid game? The same day he watches me list the stuff. Grrr.
And finally, every time I get near the computer I have either DH or one of my four kids standing next to me staring at the screen asking what I'm looking at and commenting and/or insisting they aren't reading my emails. I might have started to snap at anyone who gets within 5 feet because it's driving me insane. It's been 61 days of staying at home, and 61 days since I had any time completely by myself. I might be a little edgy...
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Post by peabay on May 14, 2020 14:53:56 GMT
Right this second? I'm trying to work and in the next room dh is on a "work call" and talking about anything but work.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on May 14, 2020 14:54:10 GMT
There are five of us on my work team and we have meetings two times a month. Things that already bothered me in the past are bothering me even more over zoom. Two of the teammates are older and really struggle with technology. One doesn't even really try to learn new things. She still doesn't know how to start a zoom meeting on her own. The other seems like she tries but always ends up blaming the phone/computer/her wifi for her problems. Every. single. time we meet she spends at least 15 min complaining about how she can't get things to work. Add in the different personalities and people talking over each other, which is annoying in person but over zoom is especially frustrating. I feel like I can't get a word in at all because some of them just keep talking and talking unless someone does interrupt.
At home, DH's loud breathing is really annoying. I am not sure what happened but I just started noticing it over the last year. Also, my youngest wants me to sit by him and be touching him the whole time we are doing distance learning. Sometimes I am calm but yesterday I was more irritable and just needed to get some other things done. I didn't get cranky with him but inside I was frustrated.
We also have the issue of people leaving the lights on and cabinet doors open. I’m sick of doing everything with food—planning meals, shipping, putting food away, cooking, cleaning up.
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Post by pierkiss on May 14, 2020 15:01:59 GMT
The Covid commercials and news stories. I wake up in the morning and flip on the news to watch while I have my coffee. Instantly depressing for one reason or another. I came down this morning and turned off Rachel Ray and tried to watch the 3rd hour of Today. There was a guy in a hospital bed. I immediately turned it off and grumbled. I don’t want to start crying at 9:10 in the morning. I know that these stories are important. It is vital to keep them in the news at the forefront of this, because it is very serious. And because we have a person in the White House who is trying to make us all believe that this is a hoax and isn’t as serious as it actually is. So it needs to be in the news. But I am emotionally fatigued by it.
We had a FaceTime meeting about our daughters Girl Scout troop for the fall. The main leader threw a curve ball at us. One co-leader thinks it’s great. I do not. I argued my points, she argued hers (not like an actual argument, just discussing and throwing ideas/thoughts around). We need more details before a big decision can be made. I got off the call and told my husband about this. He is adamant that if the thing happens our kid won’t participate. 😖. It’s Girl Scouts. It’s not supposed to be this complicated.
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Post by SunnySmile on May 14, 2020 15:14:35 GMT
Why can't my dh pick up his feet when he walks? When he wears slippers he shuffles through the kitchen making a ton of noise. I have fantasies of strangling him with those slippers He also reads out loud when looking at his computer, sort of under his breath. Again, more thoughts of strangulation. I have been stuck at home nearly 6 months and my patience is wearing thin. Other than that, he's great, so I refrain. I am just plain tired of being home. Thankfully I am kind of a home body. The only times I have been out are to the doctor.
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Post by Deleted on May 14, 2020 15:26:06 GMT
Frankly? Everyone who protests they want NY Pause lifted. Everyone who complains about being in quarantine like it was put in place to personally restrict them. I would rather live with these restrictions than watch a family member die. I am over the drama. Oh and my husband's chewing. But I have mentioned that before.
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