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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2020 18:08:55 GMT
that I'd love to see more answers to.
What is your favorite thing about getting older?
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sueg
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Post by sueg on Aug 11, 2020 18:11:02 GMT
No longer having periods My granddaughter Freedom to travel without worrying about school vacation times
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Post by kellapea on Aug 11, 2020 18:12:05 GMT
My favorite thing about getting older is I can say or think "I don't really care" and totally mean it.
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peabay
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Post by peabay on Aug 11, 2020 18:13:08 GMT
I don't care as much about what others think of me. It's very freeing.
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Post by quietgirl on Aug 11, 2020 18:16:35 GMT
The time to discover. Learn more. Whether it be history, nature (birds), how to crochet, a new language, whatever strikes my fancy. And I'll echo no more periods. Mine stopped after chemo, when I was forty. But I could throw a ticker tape parade every day over that one alone!
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The Birdhouse Lady
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Aug 11, 2020 18:23:24 GMT
I feel more confident in my skin. I used to be really shy and now I feel like a WOMAN!!
I feel like I am able to give my attention where it is needed instead of running all over taking care of this and that and getting this kid to practice and that kid to dance. I guess I just feel settled. KWIM?
Also I FINALLY am DONE with periods! I couldn't be happier!!
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Post by peano on Aug 11, 2020 18:26:00 GMT
I finally know who I am, and because I know this, I am comfortable with myself and my life decisions, which are dictated by me, not other people. Also,I have more daily awareness that time is finite and so I say what needs to be said and do what needs to be done.
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Post by mollycoddle on Aug 11, 2020 18:26:44 GMT
I understand people a lot better than I did.
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Post by bc2ca on Aug 11, 2020 18:38:07 GMT
Not being tied to kids school and extracurricular schedules is a huge one for me.
Having a little wisdom that comes with age and experience.
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Post by quinlove on Aug 11, 2020 18:40:15 GMT
I don't care as much about what others think of me. It's very freeing. Exactly this. I say that I don’t care - but it’s more like - not as much. It never really should have mattered in the first place. But, it usually takes us awhile to figure that one out.
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 11, 2020 18:51:34 GMT
Today is the first day of school for my district (teachers started two weeks before the kids). I retired at 50. I do miss the kids, but I volunteer at the school once a week to get my kid fix. I love not waking up to an alarm clock.
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Post by Zee on Aug 11, 2020 18:53:23 GMT
It's very freeing to no longer have the sort of back and forth with a man and wonder if he's hitting on you, deciding he's just being nice, and then finding out he was definitely hitting on you and now it's an issue.
I feel like that was a constant when I was young that I am free of now. If anyone is bothering these days, I'm not noticing, haha.
Maybe men are a little different now or I'm just not as desirable, or both, whatever. I can pump gas without catcalls and I can go to the store and just blend in if I feel like it.
I also have more available money and my children are grown so I'm pretty free to do whatever I want. I don't regret having my kids in my 20s at all. Now is my time.
But I do wish I had my youthful metabolism back, the ability to go on and on without sleep, and a body that doesn't hurt constantly!
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Mystie
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Post by Mystie on Aug 11, 2020 19:07:38 GMT
I guess just knowing myself better and being a more compassionate person toward myself and others.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Aug 11, 2020 19:08:58 GMT
Able to relate to my son better at times.
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Aug 11, 2020 19:17:14 GMT
Not caring as much what other people think of me and not feeling the need to go along with the crowd. No is much easier to say now. Having the financial freedom to do what we want (for the most part). No periods. I haven't had one in 13 years. I was recently with some friends and one of them is much younger. She was worried about being at the pool and having her period. I had to laugh to myself because I haven't thought about that in years and it took me a second to even get what she was talking about.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 11, 2020 19:25:49 GMT
Learning when to keep my mouth shut, and when to speak up. In other words, I've learned to pick my battles. This is very energy-saving.
I agree with no more periods, but unfortunately, I just traded them for years and years of hot flashes. This has taught me tolerance.
Being able to sit down and read a book whenever I want!
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Aug 11, 2020 19:26:33 GMT
Wisdom, as in discernment based on years of lessons learned and experience.
Appreciation of stuff I used to take for granted.
Understanding my own strength, abilities and value.
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 11, 2020 19:52:07 GMT
No periods, being retired, finally having a little free time are wonderful perks to being 62.
Also being able to shop early at Costco!
I am also more accepting of others.
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Post by auntkelly on Aug 11, 2020 20:04:33 GMT
Being retired and having lots of free time.
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Post by workingclassdog on Aug 11, 2020 20:15:14 GMT
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Post by gar on Aug 11, 2020 20:34:03 GMT
No longer having periods My granddaughter grandsonFreedom to travel without worrying about school vacation times, covid not withstanding obviously They're my thoughts too And we love being empty nesters (do I need a different phrase since it's been about 4 years since our youngest left home?)
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Post by mariemily on Aug 11, 2020 20:37:27 GMT
Having more wisdom, especially regarding relationships Not tolerating disrespect anymore Not caring about what people think of my choices and decisions
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Post by papersilly on Aug 11, 2020 20:45:14 GMT
i'm 53. my favorite thing is just being alive. i am at that age where some people my age are starting to get cancer or some other serious illness. some of my friends have even died already. unlike my 20's, i know i won't live forever. i'm just happy to be alive.
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Post by fruitysuet on Aug 11, 2020 20:45:20 GMT
Washing my hands of things (people) that are detrimental to my happiness Wisdom - when to speak up and when to keep my thoughts to myself mainly No periods. At last. I started aged 9 and didn't end until late last year (55) and I struggled so much with them over the years, moods, pain, crime scene, unpredictable, ugh, just really glad to be over that!
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Post by SAHM wannabe on Aug 11, 2020 20:57:01 GMT
The best thing about getting older is being one day closer to retirement.
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Post by NanaKate on Aug 11, 2020 23:23:12 GMT
My favorite thing about getting older is I can say or think "I don't really care" and totally mean it. This and my grandkids sums it up for me. Oh, and retirement, lol!
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AmeliaBloomer
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Aug 11, 2020 23:43:24 GMT
Honestly? What honestly comes to mind? Not teaching or having children in school during a global pandemic.
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 11, 2020 23:54:51 GMT
Not being tied to kids school and extracurricular schedules is a huge one for me. This is the one that I am really looking forward to. I have another 2.5 years of crippling private school fees, then I am DONE! DSO and I will have money to do fun stuff, and we won't have to worry about being limited to school holidays if we want to go away, DS will be driving himself around and we will be freeeeeeeeeeee!!!
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Aug 12, 2020 0:43:29 GMT
For me, it's been figuring out who I truly am. It didn't happen until later in my life (40's and 50's). Better late, than never! I took me a lot of healing, then a lot of soul searching....to figure myself out. I spent far too long in my younger years being controlled by someone, being who and what I was expected to be, being who I thought I was supposed to be, etc... Being someone other than who I truly was. At the age of almost 54, I moved into a studio apt all by myself. In general, first time living alone (other than three months by myself, getting away from ex-husband) but that was stressful, I was broke-no money, I was broken(emotionally), and I was being stalked by ex-husband........so it wasn't single girl, cute place, fun. It sucked! This past couple years in my own little place have been life changing for me. The freedom I have felt is indescribable. I can decorate however I want. I come and go as I please. I am in charge of my money. If I don't want to do something I don't do it. I drove myself on a few days at the beach road trip by myself in 2018 (I'm a big girl now!). My 50's have been the best years of my life (minus the pandemic and being mandatory out of work for a couple months). The other best thing of my 50's >>>> No more period! No more cramps! No more (TMI >>) "peri-menopause heavy flood, that would arrive whenever"!
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Post by fredfreddy44 on Aug 12, 2020 0:48:16 GMT
my kids are mostly independent my husband and I get along without any extra energy needed less and hopefully soon no periods realizing the friends I have is just fine, I really don't need more, though I'd be fine if one fell in my lap having money
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