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Post by freecharlie on Nov 8, 2020 15:49:21 GMT
Idiot town near me had their unofficial homecoming dance in a large pole barn. It was exactly like homecoming, just not at the school and with no teachers present
**UPDATE ***
Guess which school has had to quarantine a new set of kids every day since Tuesday...oh but not the football players, they had a game last night...
They got quarantined today AT THE END OF THE DAY!!!
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Post by kibblesandbits on Nov 8, 2020 15:50:51 GMT
Footloose!
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Nov 8, 2020 18:14:21 GMT
And boy will the participants be surprised when they or their loved ones get ill!
I hope they don't, but damn, what a reckless thing to do.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 8, 2020 18:17:19 GMT
Enabling parents!! Too bad they don't care if their kids get sick or worse, die.
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Post by sam9 on Nov 8, 2020 18:22:56 GMT
My pet peeve during this whole thing - parents not wanting their children to be disappointed or deprived during the pandemic. My own mother posted on FB a couple of weeks ago that young people should be allowed to do whatever they want and that the compromised or elderly (her) should be willing to sacrifice by staying at home.
I didn't speak to her for days. Yes, mom, that's a great lesson to teach our spoiled kids. They already think the world revolves around them. Let's reinforce how very special they are.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 8, 2020 18:31:04 GMT
What these parents do not understand...The children will not be forever damaged if an event/a tradition is not followed. Sure they will be disappointed but, not scarred for life. I never went to a homecoming dance, nor a prom and I was disappointed but lived a full life. The embarrassment of not having a date to take me stung, but probably no one else even noticed.
This group of children will have an entire class having the same "non event" so it won't sting as badly.
Getting a possible fatal illness WILL leave a scar for life.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 8, 2020 18:34:13 GMT
What these parents do not understand...The children will not be forever damaged if an event/a tradition is not followed. Sure they will be disappointed but, not scarred for life. I never went to a homecoming dance, nor a prom and I was disappointed but lived a full life. The embarrassment of not having a date to take me stung, but probably no one else even noticed.
This group of children will have an entire class having the same "non event" so it won't sting as badly.
Getting a possible fatal illness WILL leave a scar for life.
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Post by SockMonkey on Nov 8, 2020 18:34:16 GMT
Stupid. Just stupid.
Some folks may miss out on traditions much later because now they won't be alive to see them. But sure, go to a fucking dance in a pandemic.
The absolute refusal of adults to mentor their children through this and help them build resilience is so disappointing.
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Post by seaexplore on Nov 8, 2020 18:49:16 GMT
I wish I could say I was surprised but I'm very much not based on the way high school parents here are behaving. They are the reason I am headed back to half my class in my room and half online tomorrow. Sigh.
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Post by garcia5050 on Nov 8, 2020 18:54:10 GMT
Did you see the crowd on the field at the end of the Notre Dame game? It was wild. They were lucky they were even able to attend. I hope this results in 0 fan attendance like they’re doing in California. USC played in a stadium that holds 70,000, and they didn’t even allow parents. There really does need to be a nationwide enforcement with levels for risk, and penalties for noncompliance.
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Post by yodutchess on Nov 8, 2020 19:38:18 GMT
Did you see the crowd on the field at the end of the Notre Dame game? It was wild. They were lucky they were even able to attend. I hope this results in 0 fan attendance like they’re doing in California. USC played in a stadium that holds 70,000, and they didn’t even allow parents. There really does need to be a nationwide enforcement with levels for risk, and penalties for noncompliance. DS is a high school percussion instructor and Friday night the band was not allowed to perform and leave prior to the game, as they were for one game in the season before. He said the band kids were fine with it.
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Post by seaexplore on Nov 8, 2020 19:52:54 GMT
Please say that a pole barn is open-sided and that they all wore homecoming facemasks. I'm thinking that both of those would be a no answer.
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Post by epeanymous on Nov 8, 2020 19:59:28 GMT
Sometimes it feels like the ONLY people social distancing, wearing masks, and being careful in general, are on this board. The folks I know in real life are, although most of the people I know in real life here are professors who are over the age of 40, so it’s not necessarily a representative cross-section of America. Still, except for very small children, I rarely see anyone in a building without a mask.
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Post by freecharlie on Nov 8, 2020 20:09:58 GMT
Please say that a pole barn is open-sided and that they all wore homecoming facemasks. im not sure exactly which one it was, but they are similar to this one. images.app.goo.gl/SmUgaNyMPktQHP8V9
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 8, 2020 20:19:30 GMT
Please say that a pole barn is open-sided and that they all wore homecoming facemasks. im not sure exactly which one it was, but they are similar to this one. images.app.goo.gl/SmUgaNyMPktQHP8V9I see, real safe and enclosed, unless the big overhead doors were open on both ends, might help! And of course while also wearing masks! The people, not the doors. 😁
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Post by katlady on Nov 8, 2020 20:20:37 GMT
Did you see the crowd on the field at the end of the Notre Dame game? It was wild. They were lucky they were even able to attend. I hope this results in 0 fan attendance like they’re doing in California. USC played in a stadium that holds 70,000, and they didn’t even allow parents. There really does need to be a nationwide enforcement with levels for risk, and penalties for noncompliance. I admit, it was weird to see a totally empty stadium on tv yet still hear a full crowd cheering at the USC game.
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Post by dewryce on Nov 8, 2020 20:41:44 GMT
Did you see the crowd on the field at the end of the Notre Dame game? It was wild. They were lucky they were even able to attend. I hope this results in 0 fan attendance like they’re doing in California. USC played in a stadium that holds 70,000, and they didn’t even allow parents. There really does need to be a nationwide enforcement with levels for risk, and penalties for noncompliance. I admit, it was weird to see a totally empty stadium on tv yet still hear a full crowd cheering at the USC game. Until the finals the NBA had a virtual audience only. I’m not sure how they were chosen, but people would watch the game in front of their camera and they were broadcast sitting in seats. The final game was so cool to see the famous people they had participating. Some Spurs players and Obama were my favorites! I wish parents would realize that even if their children are at a lower risk for death, some of them, including those with mild cases, will have life long health repercussions. We know about issues with the heart and lungs so far IIRC. That’s not even getting into the risk of passing it onto a higher risk person...but it’s obvious they don’t care about that.
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Post by maryland on Nov 9, 2020 1:08:54 GMT
The kids at our high school did something like that too. But not one big party, a few smaller parties (2 weeks ago). And Halloween parties last weekend. And now kids like my daughter who follows the rules, always wear masks, no socializing outside of school/dance, test positive for covid. Our school is closing for a week because they have at least 8 active cases in the 11th and 12th grades. My daughter is so upset and was in tears for hours after her rapid test was positive. And the kids that party could care less! I am so upset right now!
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Post by fiddlesticks on Nov 9, 2020 1:36:19 GMT
The local high school got wind of parents throwing a private homecoming dance and said that anyone that attended would be ineligible for sports when they came back. I’m not sure how that’s enforceable but the teens at the dance studio I work at were pissed.
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Post by CeeScraps on Nov 9, 2020 1:56:22 GMT
This makes me sad.
I will say I’m to the point of.....let them do it. Let them do it and get sick and pass it on. Then at some point someone will wake up. Hopefully their enlightenment will come before their family members get sick or possibly die.
Have them fill the stadiums with people...go ahead......then maybe then those that don’t believe the science will. Those that believe the science will stay away. The biggest problem I see with this is that the “a” symptomatic people will pass it on to others.
Stupid people....just stupid.
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Nov 9, 2020 1:59:48 GMT
Someone in our district had something. The information wasn't freeflowing on facebook so I'm not sure what exactly it was. I saw girls in homecoming dresses and I know it was called another name. They seemed to keep pictures of it off facebook.
I've seen other parties with school kids bobbing for apples in a tub. I just couldn't imagine.
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Post by elaine on Nov 9, 2020 2:14:19 GMT
Did you see the crowd on the field at the end of the Notre Dame game? It was wild. They were lucky they were even able to attend. I hope this results in 0 fan attendance like they’re doing in California. USC played in a stadium that holds 70,000, and they didn’t even allow parents. There really does need to be a nationwide enforcement with levels for risk, and penalties for noncompliance. DS is a high school percussion instructor and Friday night the band was not allowed to perform and leave prior to the game, as they were for one game in the season before. He said the band kids were fine with it. They have cardboard cutouts in the stands at Ohio State games. The band isn’t even allowed to be there. This week, the band was taped doing Script Ohio in an empty stadium sometime before the game and they showed the video on t.v. during halftime. The Big10 and Pac12 aren’t allowing student fans, but the other conferences playing are. Those Notre Dame fans swarmed the maskless players on the field and it appeared a number of students removed their own masks. I hope a bunch of players don’t get sick as a result of that storming.
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Post by janeinbama on Nov 9, 2020 14:14:08 GMT
There have been several "non Homecoming dances" around here. I agreeit is reckless.
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Post by sabrinae on Nov 9, 2020 14:37:02 GMT
Did you see the crowd on the field at the end of the Notre Dame game? It was wild. They were lucky they were even able to attend. I hope this results in 0 fan attendance like they’re doing in California. USC played in a stadium that holds 70,000, and they didn’t even allow parents. There really does need to be a nationwide enforcement with levels for risk, and penalties for noncompliance. Have you seen the crowds for games in southern states?
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Post by maryannscraps on Nov 9, 2020 14:39:20 GMT
Sometimes it feels like the ONLY people social distancing, wearing masks, and being careful in general, are on this board. People around me are generally being careful. I rarely even see an uncovered nose at the stores. I'm not in a group of people with high school aged kids right now, but the kids in their 20s that I know are being careful. They're worried they'll lose their jobs if it spreads widely or if they have to quarantine for long periods. I walked the rail trail yesterday with my son, and it was pretty crowded. 100% of the people we passed biking and walking were wearing masks. Outside in the woods.
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Post by katiekaty on Nov 9, 2020 17:08:27 GMT
The local high school got wind of parents throwing a private homecoming dance and said that anyone that attended would be ineligible for sports when they came back. I’m not sure how that’s enforceable but the teens at the dance studio I work at were pissed. It is a consequence of not following the rules of avoiding large gatherings. I’d bet those kids are publishing photos on social media. Just requiring the kids to quarantine probably would make them ineligible. Kids need to learn consequences. Getting pissed is just a typical teen thing-they think the will live forever-damn the consequences.
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Post by Peal on Nov 9, 2020 18:01:33 GMT
I have a FB friend that has kids attending the other HS in our district, she has posted pictures, her kids so far have attended Homecoming and Girls Choice dances this fall. I assume my DS's HS has been doing the same but I haven't paid attention because he hasn't paid attention. (He's a bit anti-social engagements)
I'm not really shocked the schools are holding these dances, because I can see what's going on in the community. But, I am surprised this family is so caviler about it because her DH is a Dr. They seem awfully casual about the whole thing.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Nov 9, 2020 18:45:25 GMT
Really, I think we'd be better off if organizations would take the lead on providing safer alternatives rather than leaving it to parents to do their own thing.
Our homecoming fell at the point of lowest numbers so far around here. There was a football game, all the festivities, etc., but they cancelled the dance. Parents did their own thing in groups of 10 or 20 or 30, though my daughter and her friends weren't interested in doing anything. As a witness to all of this, I couldn't help but thinking they could have maintained social distancing more effectively by hosting a dance on the football field. Its well-lit, has great lighting and great sound, and they could keep the kids boxed in, see them from above, etc. If they were worried about the turf, they would have had shoes off or laid out a giant plywood dance floor; if they were worried about gathering size, they could have portioned off areas of the field and had kids "reserve" for their social circle. In the end, it would have been a controlled environment, as opposed to 50 uncontrolled environments.
I really do get not wanting the kids to miss out when possible. They missed prom last year - no big deal for the juniors, but those juniors are now seniors missing their homecoming and possibly prom, too. You want some semblance of normal for your seniors so that their last year of high school isn't just about what they missed. They are learning more than their fair share of resiliency! Alison stayed home and didn't see a single friend or even her dad from March until July when band camp started (and she has still only seen her dad 4 times, socially distanced) - I can't imagine doing that at her age.
Creativity is our friend in new uncertain times!
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Post by refugeepea on Nov 9, 2020 21:16:43 GMT
The local high school had a sponsored homecoming.
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Post by Lori McMud on Nov 9, 2020 21:26:55 GMT
That was my first thought!
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