Post by Mel on Dec 31, 2020 14:53:04 GMT
I can't post this on any of my social media because it's a sticky situation but... I'm gonna be a GRANDMA!!!!!
My SO's DD told us last night that she is pregnant, due in the summer. We were shocked, but excited!!
A little back story. SO and I have been together almost 6 yrs. We live together, he is "step-dad" to my kids. We just haven't made it "official" with a wedding. Anyway... C's Mom is a B*&^h!! Not just because of what she did to SO, but just in general. She is very possessive, and very me me me me. So she will go to great lengths to "discredit" me as one of the grandparents, C is HER daughter, blah, blah, blah... Her first words when C told her? "I am TOO YOUNG to be a grandmother!! Have you really thought this through?"
C & her do NOT have a mother/daughter relationship at.all. I have said many many times that I don't care to take her Mother's place, but I want to be there for her, and support her, etc. Her Dad & I have had a united front when it comes to all things that have to do with her. She was an adult when we got together, so she didn't need a Mom, but hers leaves a lot to be desired so it wasn't too hard for me to become one of the "good guys". I call her my Bonus Daughter.
So, to not cause problems, I don't/can't post anything about being happy or having a grand-baby on the way on my social media. So once again, the Peas get my excited announcement! LOL
I'll wait to see what "name" her Mother chooses to be called (I KNOW it won't be grandma!) but I'm parital to Nana... hehe
My SO's DD told us last night that she is pregnant, due in the summer. We were shocked, but excited!!
A little back story. SO and I have been together almost 6 yrs. We live together, he is "step-dad" to my kids. We just haven't made it "official" with a wedding. Anyway... C's Mom is a B*&^h!! Not just because of what she did to SO, but just in general. She is very possessive, and very me me me me. So she will go to great lengths to "discredit" me as one of the grandparents, C is HER daughter, blah, blah, blah... Her first words when C told her? "I am TOO YOUNG to be a grandmother!! Have you really thought this through?"
C & her do NOT have a mother/daughter relationship at.all. I have said many many times that I don't care to take her Mother's place, but I want to be there for her, and support her, etc. Her Dad & I have had a united front when it comes to all things that have to do with her. She was an adult when we got together, so she didn't need a Mom, but hers leaves a lot to be desired so it wasn't too hard for me to become one of the "good guys". I call her my Bonus Daughter.
So, to not cause problems, I don't/can't post anything about being happy or having a grand-baby on the way on my social media. So once again, the Peas get my excited announcement! LOL
I'll wait to see what "name" her Mother chooses to be called (I KNOW it won't be grandma!) but I'm parital to Nana... hehe
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