paigepea
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Post by paigepea on Jan 8, 2021 21:48:34 GMT
I’m so blue today.. I really miss seeing my friends and my parents. We can go for a walk with 1 other person so I do that sometimes but my mom is awaiting surgery so can’t walk right now. The rumblings here are that the pandemic won’t end until the end of 2021. That feels so far away. I don’t know. I guess I’m just venting. I have a lot of good, wonderful things but for some reason today my chest feels so heavy with sadness. Please say this doesn’t only happen to me.
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breetheflea
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Post by breetheflea on Jan 8, 2021 21:58:47 GMT
Yes. Our numbers are horrible here and I just got the weekly school district newsletter that my 1st grader will be able to start hybrid school two days a week on the 25th. I'm opting out, but I'm still going to feel really bad if they make him change teachers because I really like the one he has. Also DS is going to be upset when everyone else is at school and he's not...
My fellow PTA moms (can't say friends because I'm mad at them) are all planning trips to Great Wolf Lodge, Disneyworld etc this Spring and we're not going anywhere until the entire family is vaccinated this summer... it's not fair.
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Post by malibou on Jan 8, 2021 22:07:09 GMT
I woke wearing a massive pair of cranky pants today. Fortunately yapping with my sister helped.
My mom's mental state is rapidly deteriorating and some physical problems are coming on as well, all while my dad is on meds for 2 aggressive cancers. I haven't seen them in 18 months and with each day the realization that I likely won't see them again rises. Ouch.
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Post by summer on Jan 8, 2021 22:18:11 GMT
I got word that my best friend’s father was rushed to ICU this morning with Covid, he’s a doctor. I’m praying that he pulls through. My mother is scheduled for hip replacement surgery next week, we are trying to get her vaccinated beforehand but so far no luck. I will gladly wear masks, social distance, work from home as long as needed. I just want my loved ones to be healthy and alive at the end of this pandemic.
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 8, 2021 22:32:30 GMT
Yes. It is all so disheartening. All the different states handling the vaccine differently is really stressful too. I thought once the vaccine was rolling it things would calm down, but it is all such a mess it is causing me more stress!
I live on the border of Oregon and Washington. I teach in Oregon, but live in Washington. Washington just released their updated guidelines, only teachers over 50 will be getting the vaccine initially. They haven’t announced when younger teachers will be getting it, but it will be May at the very, very earliest. In Oregon they are prioritizing teachers over old people. My mom is old and lives in Oregon. If we traded residences we would both be getting the vaccine much sooner. She will likely be June or later even though she is old and has congestive heart failure. I don’t mind waiting for the vaccine, but if my co workers all get the vaccine and schools open in Portland my school will open. Will parents want an unvaccinated teacher working with their kids? Will I have to stay home until I get the vaccine? Will I lose my job because I am 49 (almost, still 48 for a a week or so) and can’t be vaccinated until so much later then Oregonians?
I don’t mind staying home (well, I hate it, but am willing to do so to keep people safe and will wait for my vaccine) but I don’t want to lose my job and my unemployment because of the state I work in vs the state I live in.
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Post by elaine on Jan 8, 2021 22:34:47 GMT
I’m overwhelmed and cranky.
The riots at the Capitol happened 20 miles from my house. We never were in danger, of course, but DC feels like “my city.”
I have another surgery on the 25th to try and fix the damage the Borat plastic surgeon did and spent 4 hours at Walter Reed on Wednesday having pre-op appointments and tests.
My mom is having surgery on the 12th, and I’ve had to get up at the crack of dawn and drive up to Maryland the past two days and spend hours taking her to her pre-op appointments and tests.
I’m tired and cranky and freaking depressed. I hate Trump and everyone who voted for and supports him.
There are no COVID shots in my or my 85 y.o. mother’s immediate future and I hope that will change for her sooner rather than later. I haven’t been going anywhere other than doctors’ appointments because COVID would be devastating for both my mother’s and my surgery schedules.
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Post by julie5 on Jan 8, 2021 22:42:45 GMT
You are not alone. I’ve been trying to go easy on myself and my son because it’s very hard to be the sole provider of his emotional needs. I homeschool him as well and my husband thinks I don’t push hard enough but I’m like dude I’m doing the best I can here.
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Post by gar on Jan 8, 2021 22:46:28 GMT
I woke wearing a massive pair of cranky pants today. Fortunately yapping with my sister helped. My mom's mental state is rapidly deteriorating and some physical problems are coming on as well, all while my dad is on meds for 2 aggressive cancers. I haven't seen them in 18 months and with each day the realization that I likely won't see them again rises. Ouch. Oh that's heartbreaking...I truly hope it doesn't come to that
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Post by fiddlesticks on Jan 8, 2021 22:47:08 GMT
Yep. My sister had her second (and last) baby today. It makes me so sad that I won't get any newborn snuggles at all. Who knows how old she will be before I get to meet her? 😔
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Post by epeanymous on Jan 8, 2021 22:47:16 GMT
The state put up the vaccination schedule a few days ago here. It goes through April. People like me (healthy people under 50 who aren't in certain job categories) aren't on it. So what that means is, barring a speedier-than-expected rollout (which, at least so far, "speedier than expected" has not been the speed), the soonest I might be vaccinated is May, and who knows if we're looking at May or a later time.
I think that I was prepared to lose this winter, and moderately prepared to lose the spring, but now, it looks like maybe the summer as well. Meanwhile, my school board rep resigned because she says that our school district is financially unable to do the things it would need to do to reopen schools safely and that it's not fixable.
So, yeah. Between that and the attempted coup here, I'm having a week.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jan 8, 2021 22:48:08 GMT
Today is the first day in weeks that I honestly felt good. I felt like a normal person today and for me that was such a victory.
And then I got on a conference call and had to listen to my coworker bitch about not being able to eat in a restaurant and how Democrats are tearing the country down and how she won't be returning to work if gas if $8 a gallon. And I just sat there in silence. Thanking God that I get to work from home and don't have to be exposed to her at work.
And welp, that brought me down for sure. And then I finished up my work (I had a super productive day today) and I logged out for ten days off. Yay, me!
I decided even to have a glass of wine with dinner tonight.
But I'll tell you I've been very unsteady lately. I'm holding it together. I see my psych next Friday and I'm asking her to increase my meds.
ETA: I'm only liking posts because I feel you, sisters.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jan 8, 2021 22:48:32 GMT
Skellinton my county is vaccinating people who live here and people who work here. Of course, according to CDC guidelines.
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Post by uksue on Jan 8, 2021 22:49:36 GMT
Me!!! London mayor has announced a Major incident here. My boss is recovering from covid and refusing to get the practice professionally cleaned before she reopens next week. She’s clearly still unwell as she keeps giving us different days she’s coming back to work and arguing with me that I’m wrong even though her WhatsApp messages are there to see.
I’m not sure the practice is safe for our patients- or myself . I’ve given up a lot of my holiday inc Christmas eve to cancel patients and deal With track and trace and have now been told we won’t get paid as she ‘hasn’t been earning ‘- this woman is a millionaire 😡
My direct opposite colleague has said she won’t come in anymore as she doesn’t feel safe and is expecting to be furloughed , my boss won’t discuss who will cover her shifts- it’s an absolute sh*t show . Then her sister comes on the work whatsapp group and criticiseS my daughter ( who jumped in last Saturday to help me cancel patients )and I because there was one patient we couldn’t get hold of who contacted my boss about his appointment ( I’m amazeD he got through - she hasn’t answered my calls or texts since 21st December!) we had actually driven round some houses with letters, but couldn’t contact 2 because sfe had their notes so we had no address for them .
I’ve just about had it . It’s a very part time job but I take it very seriously and the money helps me to support my daughter whilst she’s too ill to work, so I can’t just quit as I’d like to!
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Post by MichyM on Jan 8, 2021 22:53:17 GMT
Yes. And I’m sorry for all of us struggling. I am *still* trying to hang onto the nuggets of goodness that came from my son’s visit. He left on 12/13, I am hoping it hangs on at least a little longer. Hugs to you all.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jan 8, 2021 23:03:38 GMT
It’s definitely tiring. Keep on keeping on friends!
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 8, 2021 23:30:46 GMT
Skellinton my county is vaccinating people who live here and people who work here. Of course, according to CDC guidelines. Thank you, my cousin is an essential worker and got her first shot today, she is going to ask when she goes back for me. She thinks I will be able to get it when teachers in Oregon do. My boss is also going to ask when he gets the notification for our program. I honestly don’t mind SIP as long as I need to, but I will have to go back to work when they open or lose my unemployment which we cannot afford. We are just getting by as it is. I don’t want to be seen as jumping the line or scamming the system though. If there wasn’t such a significant gap between the two states I could wait a month or so. Teachers in Oregon will likely be February, teachers my age in Washington will be May at the very earliest.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jan 8, 2021 23:59:01 GMT
I have filled out the form on that state site. The state is starting 1b..but police and EMTs(?).. But no idea when they get to me. I don't mind the bottom of 1b, it's ok. The county won't let me sign up at all.
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Post by tallgirl on Jan 9, 2021 0:45:23 GMT
I’m not expecting to be vaccinated until September. It’s going to be another very long year. 😩
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2021 0:46:34 GMT
You’re so not alone. It’s disheartening the number distributed vs inoculations.
I’m disappointed in Gov. Northam (VA). His news conferences are infrequent. In fact, just this week Northam held his first virus briefing in nearly a month. Jjust getting around to naming someone in charge of the state’s vaccine effort. It’s not like we haven’t known for a year that a plan would be needed.
Virginia’s positivity rate is 17%. In contrast, Maryland’s is 8%’and DC is 6%.
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Post by ashley on Jan 9, 2021 1:29:28 GMT
I don’t expect I’ll have any sort of normal life for almost an entire year. I won’t be vaccinated until at least September. So I’m trying just to recognize that this is the situation and in a year from now I’ll still be here and adventures and fun can resume again.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Jan 9, 2021 1:46:35 GMT
I totally hear you! I have felt sad too. Even though I have been able to see my adult children, and my parents some. I have not really seen much of anyone else besides my co-workers. I miss going out to dinner with friends. Just doing things. I miss those things and YET, there are post on fb all over of people out doing whatever. having parties, going out, getting together for cmas and NYE, When my family didn't do any of those things. It makes you just want to just give up. because WHY should I do it??? when others don't??? and we need more people to do it to get thru this vaccine but of course they won't. ooooh, and then the USA politics and all that.....along with no time off at work, and my parents getting elderly and I am scare to death they will get sick...oh, yea, that makes me a sheeple. sigh. so yes, I hear you loud and clear.
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Post by dewryce on Jan 9, 2021 1:48:39 GMT
I’m sorry for everyone who is having such a rotten time right now and hope you feel better soon
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Post by Zee on Jan 9, 2021 1:52:58 GMT
I'm sorry for everyone who is struggling Honestly I'm doing great today mentally, physically I'm just not myself and I've felt like this for a few months. Probably building antibodies again, that's what I keep telling myself! (Idk if I have them or not, but I bet I probably do) Today is DH's bday and we drove down to FL and it's cold as hell. We went for a long walk on a practically deserted beach and had a nice dinner, it's been a lovely day.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jan 9, 2021 1:54:08 GMT
I am sorry, Paige. Today I think was a good day on the lower Island because it was just so nice. DS lives in the Fraser Health Region and there are thousands of them and 23 on the Island. We get punished. It’s not going to wreck my day but I want to see my children.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jan 9, 2021 1:55:20 GMT
My message might only make sense to people in BC. My apologies.
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Post by jubejubes on Jan 9, 2021 1:56:00 GMT
I'm having a difficult time in dealing with the pandemic. Living alone doesn't help and not being able to see family really doesn't help at all!
The rates in my area are now very high and I am stressed out.
They haven't even started to vaccinate front line workers so it will be months before I will get a vaccine.
Right now I am so tired of the many politicians and other people in "high positions" not following the rules and their non-apologetic of saying that they made a bad decision of going out-of-country to someplace warm and expecting to "get away" without repercussions.
The latest was a Chief of Police, who went to Florida and now said that it was a bad decision. This man was on the committee regarding Covid-19 procedures. Just tired of excuses from people who only pay lip-service to the rules.
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Jan 9, 2021 1:59:49 GMT
I'm sorry you're feeling down today.
You aren't alone if feeling blue. I don't like living like this either. I miss so many things. Going to church. Getting to be with friends. Getting to hug people. Going to concerts. I hate wearing a mask, but I do it anyway. Even after all these months of wearing a mask, I still find that I forget to grab one out of my car when I'm going into a place of business.
I don't like going for a walk and someone who walks past me pulls their scarf/mask/shirt up over their mouth & nose. It makes me feel like a lepor.
I know December 2021 feels like a long way away, but we're almost half way through this.
Try to find little things that make you happy. For me, it's been lighting good smelling candles.
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Post by scrappinmom3 on Jan 9, 2021 2:03:35 GMT
Yep. We are going back to school in person on January 19th. We’ve been remote since the beginning of November. The vaccine became available for teachers/staff this week and I didn’t get an appointment. I tried for a day and a half and had no luck and off course, there are no more available for now. So, this diabetic asthmatic gets to go back with no protection. Not happy.
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Post by monklady123 on Jan 9, 2021 2:16:51 GMT
You are definitely not alone. The whole vaccine distribution "plan" -- or lack of one -- is depressing. I'm holding out hope that Biden can get something going when he's finally in the White House. I was telling my dh this evening that our health people need to call in health experts from some of the "shit hole countries" to help with this. I remember yellow fever and measles outbreaks when I lived in Africa... the public health folks would roll into our town (really just a large-ish village), the police would show up and round everyone up, everyone would line up and boom, everyone was vaccinated. Now obviously we know that third world countries have major health issues and that vaccines are scarce in so many places... But when they have them they do know how to distribute them. We need some large outdoor centers such as stadiums, major parks, etc. where they could vaccinate a lot of people in a shorter amount of time. My dh works at the State Department and although he's considered essential personnel within the department -- on call during times of world crisis, first to be evacuated to a site away from DC, etc. -- he's not essential in terms of the vaccine. Yet he was able to get it because State had extras. Dh is unsure about whether it was extra because they were given too much, or if it was because some people refused to get it... But each week they have an open sign up for people who want the leftovers. So now we're wondering how many other places have extras that are going to waste. Meanwhile in Virginia I'm in group 1-C. They're on 1-A at the moment and it's going slowly. Dd isn't even in 1 anything... she's not until much later. I'd give my dose to her if I could. My mother is getting hers because she lives in an assisted living place, but I still don't know if that means I'll be able to visit her. Does anyone here know? if she's vaccinated but I'm not, does that mean we could at least visit at a safe distance? I think part of everyone's sadness at the moment is because it's winter. It was a bit easier to bear back in the warmer weather. Plus of course back then we had no idea it would go on this long. But at least when the weather was nice we could sit outside, or go to the park with friends and sit around at a distance but still talking. etc. And of course add in the events at the Capitol. I live just across the river from DC and several counties here had a curfew on the night of the attack on he Capitol. So many of the terrorists were staying at hotels here in Alexandria and Arlington (and most likely Falls Church, and Fairfax) that our mayors asked the governor to declare states of emergency and to put in a curfew because they were afraid that the idiots would come back here afterwards and cause trouble. And Virginia is an open-carry state. We actually did have some incidents of vandalism where store windows were smashed (several small shopping centers had all stores vandalized) and you know it was the trumpers. And as we saw at the Capitol they are just so stupid that they don't even think about security cameras. hahahahahahahaha As I type this I can hear dh downstairs on the phone and his voice is going up and up....I worry about his blood pressure. It's never been high but after all this who knows.... My dog is 13 and being tested on Monday for Cushing's disease. Zoom doesn't work well in our house if more than 2 or 3 people are on it, so I'm basically cut off from my church. My dd can't find a job. Thankfully she's just enrolled in a graduate program for non-profit management so hopefully that will keep her from getting too depressed over it all. I feel like I'm the major mood-enhancer around here. But as I said above, because of the weather we can't even go do some of the things we did back in the summer. And both of my jobs -- substitute teacher and hospital chaplain -- have been on hold. I'm not subbing virtually because the technology was just too much to deal with. And I have been in to the hospital a handful of times since Covid for some emergencies. And now that our numbers are rising they've canceled all in-hospital pastoral care except from the full-time chaplain. I do some pastoral care by phone but to me that is just sad. My absolute favorite time is when I'm on call for the weekend and I sleep at the hospital. Walking the halls and spending time in the ICU and the ER at night is a whole different thing than daytime work. And there's always the NICU and getting to cuddle babies. All that is gone for now. So yeah...
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 9, 2021 2:22:50 GMT
Yep. We are going back to school in person on January 19th. We’ve been remote since the beginning of November. The vaccine became available for teachers/staff this week and I didn’t get an appointment. I tried for a day and a half and had no luck and off course, there are no more available for now. So, this diabetic asthmatic gets to go back with no protection. Not happy. You were only remote since November? We have been out of school since March 13. I am sorry you have to go back without a vaccine. They need to have a better system for passing them out.
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