craftymom101
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Post by craftymom101 on Apr 28, 2021 18:55:53 GMT
Does anyone else feel like they are being pulled in a million directions right now? My bf (whom I live with) is a full time firefighter and works a wonky schedule with 24 hour shifts, we have four kids (ages 9-15), we adopted a purebred Harlequin Great Dane puppy last week, I am a full time high school biology teacher, and I cannot find time to complete a page and post it! It's driving me crazy! I have a bunch of new supplies, tons of photos to scrap, and absolutely no down time to get anything done. Finn (the puppy) requires 100% supervision right now so crafting while he is out of his kennel is not a great option. I also lost my craft space when my bf and I moved in together in November, so I can't keep projects-in-progress out anywhere; everything has to be shoved back in the hall closet (or the garage). I know, I'm whining. I have a wonderful life and an amazing man, I just wish I had a little more time for this hobby that I love. Thanks for reading.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Apr 28, 2021 19:00:48 GMT
Ok, I think I have the answer to your problems: first, give us more photos of Finnegan. That's the basis for the magic potion. I understand that you're missing your hobby but also loving your life. It'll fall back into place when things settle a little, I'm sure. Have you thought about doing a smaller project in the meantime to satisfy your scrappy needs? A TN about your puppy growing up? Something where you can craft out of a small box and start to get your pup used to seeing you use scissors and paper bits when he starts to wind down.
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Post by marg on Apr 28, 2021 19:14:02 GMT
For me, the puppy would be the major reason why I couldn't find time to scrap. The first few months are exhausting work when you have a new pup, it can be really overwhelming. I would imagine a great dane would have high energy and be demanding. When we got our Newfie she occupied all of my free time.
It's a phase in many phases of life - things will change again and calm down and hopefully you'll be back to scrapping in time, completely reinvigorated and inspired. Hang in there!
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Post by mom on Apr 28, 2021 19:15:17 GMT
To everything there is a season. This is just a season you're in. Enjoy it for what it is, and know that things will slow down eventually.
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Post by craftymom101 on Apr 28, 2021 19:20:03 GMT
Danes aren't super high energy but he's a puppy and into EVERYTHING! He is a chewer and I have a brand new house I don't want destroyed, so he's with me or my SO at all times. sleepingbooty I will post more pictures tonight! marg and mom you are absolutely right... this phase will pass. I'm just anxious to get back to the hobby I love.
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Post by stormsts on Apr 28, 2021 21:20:05 GMT
I understand how you feel craftymom101. We moved into our new house the end of February. I am slowly unpacking my scrap room. My work schedule is killing me( I own a tax preparation firm). All I want to do is get my room set up and spend an entire day in there scrapbooking!
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Post by papersilly on Apr 28, 2021 21:23:59 GMT
i think many of us feel this way. there simply isn't enough time to get any crafting done. life seems to have other priorities so the luxury of crafting always takes a back seat.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 28, 2021 21:35:54 GMT
That puppy stage seems to last longer than the toddler stage. Outside every 30 minutes to potty train. Four kids... that is a lot too. Bribe the kids that if they take care of the dog and there are no messes or destruction, you'll feed them. Not take them out for dinner... just feed them. My kids also did a lot of chores. If the adults were both working full time, the kids had responsibilities. It also really helped when they moved out and already knew how to do most things well. They were well into elementary school before they realized that most kids didn't do their own laundry.
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Post by grammadee on Apr 28, 2021 22:44:39 GMT
Busy times, craftymom101... When dd's dog was here, I didn't do anything but spend time with her. And even when she is back at home, I don't have a job or kids or a puppy around here, and there are days--sometimes days on end--when I can't seem to do any crafting. Seems like when I am busy, my head is full of ideas and I see inspiration everywhere, and then when I have time, the ideas fly away... Maybe you can convince your bf &/or the kids to take the puppy outside for an extended time over the weekend and you can get your pages done.
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Post by myboysnme on Apr 28, 2021 23:22:06 GMT
When that happens to me I try to at least keep up with taking photos and perhaps getting them edited when I'm sitting in an appointment or stuck in traffic. Document the little things about your life now here and there. Use your journal to jot down little things to remember when you do have time again.
Life for me and many waxes and wanes. Busy for days and then nothing, with too many things to choose from in the down times.
What I do is find a crop or retreat or something like that. You can look forward to a planned uninterrupted crop time.
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Post by Elsabelle on Apr 29, 2021 0:07:32 GMT
You're not whining. We all have our moments when we feel overwhelmed with very little down time. Life can feel exhausting when you feel like you can't recharge. I don't have any suggestions except to ditto myboysnme and sleepingbooty. Maybe put together a kit in an iris box or something similar that can easily be brought out and put away and also keep taking pictures. Before you know it life will change again and maybe you'll have more time in your hands. Hang in there.
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Post by tc on Apr 29, 2021 2:18:07 GMT
I don't know if this will help or not, but I saw this idea probably close to 20 years ago now and it stuck with me. It was from a scrapbooker who didn't have a space to leave her projects out where her young children wouldn't touch them and get jelly or yogurt or something on them. So she bought one of those clear acrylic poster frames in the largest size she could buy (like this) and she would keep her ongoing layout on the kitchen counter and put the shadow box over the top of it when she wanted it protected (open side down so there was a clear box over the top of her pieces), but didn't have time to work on it. Sometimes she covered it with some fabric so she could set things on top of it and not have it be too visually cluttered on her kitchen counter. But mostly she just left it out so she could rearrange the layout in brief moments. When she was happy with it she glued the layout together and started laying out pieces for the next one. It's a thought...
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Post by scrappyem on Apr 29, 2021 11:47:24 GMT
I feel this so much. DH and I moved in and got married all within the last year. We have his kiddo part-time and my dog is 15 who's been diagnosed with dementia. The dog is breaking my heart and waking me up at various times at night. It's been really rough trying to keep up my normal routine which was to do 30 minutes in the morning, before work and before I started my day on the weekend. I've had to add back in exercise in the morning for my mental health, but I'm having a hard time getting up early enough to do both things and do my new commute to the office on the days I have to go in. I keep telling myself I'll find a rhythm, but it's been tough. Hugs.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 29, 2021 12:21:37 GMT
I understand! Not having a dedicated space makes it really hard.
We have our 7th grade grandson here for a month. I have to feed the eating machine 3 meals a day! He's an athlete, so he eats a lot. Yesterday breakfast was cereal, pancakes, sausage, kiwi fruit, and orange juice! Then we start the schoolwork. I love this guy with all my heart, but OMG, I am exhausted.
I figure a week to beat my house back in shape, then I can play.
We are also starting to look at townhomes. A dedicated space for my crafts is a must-have.
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Post by craftymom101 on Apr 29, 2021 12:33:55 GMT
Thank you so much for understanding. I’m still getting a routine with my SO & the kids & the new puppy. I do have summers off as a teacher and I’m excited at the prospect of having some free days to craft. Here are some Finnegan pics from last night/this morning. sleepingbooty he is getting so big already!
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Post by peachiceteas on Apr 29, 2021 13:49:25 GMT
Finn is a gorgeous pupper! I love his big floppy ears.
Having a new dog in the house will be what's not giving you the free time to sit down and scrapbook. It doesn't matter whether they're a puppy, a teen, a senior, hyper or chill - it's a complete lifestyle change similar to having a baby. It will take you a little while to get into a new groove. It's another thing to think about on top of everything else that we deal with as humans.
We adopted a 3 year old dog in August and the first few weeks and months were time consuming. He still consumes a lot of my time now as we're doing lots of training with him but between that and my day job, I have been able to find pockets of time to scrapbook.
My suggestion would be to carve out dedicated time to scrap, even if that means you have to give up doing something else. I'd also try and make it as easy as possible for yourself to scrap when you get that time. Putting together kits will definitely help you start when you find the free time.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 29, 2021 14:08:58 GMT
It's to be expected w/all that change that things will be chaotic for a while.
Just know it will settle down and you'll have more time again for your scrappy joy too.
Hug.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 29, 2021 17:36:55 GMT
Finn is a gorgeous pupper! I love his big floppy ears. Having a new dog in the house will be what's not giving you the free time to sit down and scrapbook. I t doesn't matter whether they're a puppy, a teen, a senior, hyper or chill - it's a complete lifestyle change similar to having a baby. It will take you a little while to get into a new groove. It's another thing to think about on top of everything else that we deal with as humans. We adopted a 3 year old dog in August and the first few weeks and months were time consuming. He still consumes a lot of my time now as we're doing lots of training with him but between that and my day job, I have been able to find pockets of time to scrapbook. My suggestion would be to carve out dedicated time to scrap, even if that means you have to give up doing something else. I'd also try and make it as easy as possible for yourself to scrap when you get that time. Putting together kits will definitely help you start when you find the free time. I have a nice chair that "houses" my girl when I scrap. She likes to be tall enough to see what I am doing. Eventually she crashes and I get a lot done. As a puppy, she was into everything for 2.5 years. She still likes to dig something out of my scrap trash and run. Then she will bring it back and expect pets and a treat for returning it. Our back door neighbors have a giant Great Dane and he is very well behaved and very goofy. I would guess that four kids would tire him out quickly.
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Post by FurryP on Apr 29, 2021 18:47:41 GMT
I love your layouts and can't wait until the Finn layouts start coming!
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Post by sleepingbooty on Apr 29, 2021 19:55:09 GMT
Goodness me, Finn is such a beauty! His face spots are a piece of art. I just want to boop his adorable nose... Thanks for posting the puppy pic update, craftymom101! The good news is that Great Danes settle down big time once they're past the puppy stage. As long as you train them well when they're young, you'll have a lovely companion when adulthood hits. Until then, I feel you on the let's-not-destroy-the-house-please front. Those are big teefsies that'll leave big marks! Have you thought of starting to get him used to sitting in the kennel for a few minutes while you sit on a chair at the table (simulating craft time)? I think you have an amazing opportunity to train him to be quietly in your company while you craft. It'll be in increments, of course, and you may not get much more done than opening a new kit or sorting some embellishments in the first few weeks but you'll get there eventually through repeated exposure and positive reinforcement.
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Post by Linda on Apr 29, 2021 21:13:18 GMT
no advise as we're cat not dog people but Finn is gorgeous. (((Hugs))) any kind of change means new routines and finding your place again, I find. Hopefully as Finn gets older and you all get more used to having him around, crafting will be easier to fit in
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Post by quinmm14 on Apr 29, 2021 23:19:35 GMT
Awww, that face! He's a cutie! Not a whine at all, I totally understand how hard it is to find the time and juggle all the other household things. I worked from home during the height of the pandemic and thought I'd have so much more time to play with scrappy things. My dh decided that was the time to start looking at relocating (my retirement is getting closer and we're thinking about heading somewhere south) so we were knee-deep into some mostly cosmetic house repairs which then turned into a full remodel of some rooms and no time to scrap. Now I'm back to a semi-fuller work schedule and still not finding the time. I get a bit stabby about it at times.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Apr 30, 2021 0:17:50 GMT
Have you thought about something like this or something similar, where you can have "work in progress" and not have to put everything away, just have to roll the cart away. www.scrapbook.com/store/ac-661060.html
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Post by craftymom101 on Apr 30, 2021 22:11:55 GMT
Have you thought about something like this or something similar, where you can have "work in progress" and not have to put everything away, just have to roll the cart away. www.scrapbook.com/store/ac-661060.htmlOhhh I love that! Thank you!
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