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Post by mikklynn on Feb 14, 2022 12:01:05 GMT
My DH, Terry, passed away peacefully in hospice care at the hospital Saturday. He had battled renal cell carcinoma for nearly 15 years.
He was admitted to the hospital from the clinic 2.5 weeks earlier.
Our daughter, son, and grandchildren were able to get here and we all stayed with him in his room overnight. He died with us holding him.
I am broken and relieved at the same time.
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Post by peasapie on Feb 14, 2022 12:06:02 GMT
Oh mikklynn, I’m so sorry. You have been very quiet about this, I think. I’m so glad he was surrounded by love when he passed, and I’m terribly sorry for your loss. |
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Post by destined2bmom on Feb 14, 2022 12:06:25 GMT
I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your husband Terry. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know that I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by compeateropeator on Feb 14, 2022 12:07:18 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and caring thoughts to you and your family. I am so glad that you were all able to be all together. Again, my sincere condolences.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Feb 14, 2022 12:07:21 GMT
I wish I could hug you, mikklynn. 15 years is a long and brave battle to lead. I'm glad you all managed to come together and comfort him and each other in his final hours. I hope this final night united as a family will bring you all the strength and knowledge that you will eventually get through this grief. Until then, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Sending you love. |
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Post by sueg on Feb 14, 2022 12:08:33 GMT
Oh I am so sorry to hear this. I am glad you were all able to be with him in his final moments. Big hugs. Take care.
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Post by christine58 on Feb 14, 2022 12:10:44 GMT
My DH, Terry, passed away peacefully in hospice care at the hospital Saturday. He had battled renal cell carcinoma for nearly 15 years. He was admitted to the hospital from the clinic 2.5 weeks earlier. Our daughter, son, and grandchildren were able to get here and we all stayed with him in his room overnight. He died with us holding him. I am broken and relieved at the same time. I am just so very sorry. You were so helpful to me when my dad was diagnosed with kidney cancer. Your suggestions on foods he can eat not eat etc. were so so helpful. My heart is broken for you and your family. I’m so happy that you were able to be with him because that meant everything to our family also |
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Post by teddyw on Feb 14, 2022 12:12:33 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. Big hugs and prayers for you and your family.
Try to take care of yourself. ❤️
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Post by QueenoftheSloths on Feb 14, 2022 12:18:14 GMT
So sorry for your loss today.
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Post by paperaddictedpea on Feb 14, 2022 12:22:20 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss mikklynn.
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Post by momto4kiddos on Feb 14, 2022 12:22:43 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss ((HUGS))
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Post by disneypal on Feb 14, 2022 12:22:56 GMT
Oh, I am so sorry.
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Post by maryannscraps on Feb 14, 2022 12:24:16 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. This has been such a long and difficult time for you -- very gentle hugs sent your way.
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Post by DEX on Feb 14, 2022 12:24:17 GMT
Friend, what a struggle it has been. Each day from here on will be different. Some good and some not so good. I know you prepared for this eventuality but the reality can still be jolting. None of us will ever know what you, personally, are feeling but please know that many of us can relate to your grief. Let our little "Pea" family wrap our arms around you now. We all care.
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Post by gar on Feb 14, 2022 12:24:23 GMT
I can completely understand your mixed emotions...I'm so very sorry ((hugs))
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2022 12:24:39 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. It is never ever easy, even when they are sick. There is some relief, yes, that they no longer suffer. Still it is difficult. My thoughts are with you and I send you thoughts of peace and comfort during this time.
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Post by iluvpink on Feb 14, 2022 12:25:27 GMT
(((HUGS))). I'm so sorry.
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Post by janeliz on Feb 14, 2022 12:25:28 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Post by aj2hall on Feb 14, 2022 12:27:11 GMT
I’m so very sorry.
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Post by leannec on Feb 14, 2022 12:34:15 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss! Hugs to you!  |
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Post by jeremysgirl on Feb 14, 2022 12:35:19 GMT
Oh, dear friend, I am so sorry for your loss. I know just how hard this battle was on the both of you and I think you were such a good wife to Terry all these years. I hope he is dancing with the angels and you feel relieved he is at peace. I will keep you in my prayers as you grieve. Please know you can reach out to me any time you need to. Big huge hugs from me.
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Post by mollycoddle on Feb 14, 2022 12:35:50 GMT
I’m so very sorry.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Feb 14, 2022 12:46:54 GMT
I’m sorry for your loss, but certainly understand the feeling of relief as well. You’re a strong person and have been so supportive of him throughout. As we all now express our condolences, know too that we’re here for you over the long haul as you move forward.
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Post by lisae on Feb 14, 2022 12:49:18 GMT
I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm sure it was a comfort to all of you to be with him at the end. You've given him all the love and support he needed over this long battle. {{hugs}}
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Post by Jili on Feb 14, 2022 12:50:34 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. 😢
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Post by melanell on Feb 14, 2022 12:52:26 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am glad he had all of you there with him, surrounding him with love and support.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2022 12:52:45 GMT
My condolences on the end of his long battle. I hope you feel supported.
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Post by J u l e e on Feb 14, 2022 12:53:54 GMT
I am broken and relieved at the same time. I completely understand this and it’s perfectly said. I am so sorry for your loss. Overwhelmingly huge hugs! |
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Post by dawnnikol on Feb 14, 2022 12:54:40 GMT
I am so sorry for you and your family.
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Post by Kate * on Feb 14, 2022 12:56:08 GMT
Deepest condolences to you and your family.
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