peasquared
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Post by peasquared on Apr 21, 2022 14:55:03 GMT
You have been in my heart and will continue to be forever. I hope today, when all the things that have kept you busy and your mind occupied this week, are past, that you find strength. It is the most difficult thing when the world around you goes back to their old lives and yours has just stopped. Do whatever you need to do to just get through each minute, each hour.
We love you and will always be here for you! Please lean on us.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Apr 21, 2022 14:56:57 GMT
I read these recently and it surely is you. “Where there was great love there will be great grief” and “the loss is immeasurable but so is the love left behind.” Continuing prayers for you and your family.
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Post by scrapmaven on Apr 21, 2022 17:39:13 GMT
You take all the time you need. We'll be here and you know that your chair at the table will be kept pristine. Post when you feel that you can do so. Even if you drop in just to cry or say "hi" or catch a break from your sorrow we're here. Right now you must make everything about YOU and of course, I know that you're also taking care of your other dd. Perhaps the two of you want to go on a bonding weekend at some point? A getaway might give you both a chance to share memories and make promises to really take care of yourselves and eachother. You are most important and whatever you need to do to take good, loving care of yourself is enough.
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moodyblue
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Jun 26, 2014 21:07:23 GMT
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Post by moodyblue on Apr 21, 2022 18:01:56 GMT
No parent wants to ever bury a child. Of course you feel broken.
Please do what works for you. When you want, read or post when you feel like it. If you want to post about your feelings, your loss, you beautiful daughter, do. Also know that if you want to just post on easy trivial threads, that’s okay too. Talk to us about Esther when you want, and don’t if you aren’t up to it. Sometimes paying attention to other things than your own grief can be a respite.
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Post by Bridget in MD on Apr 21, 2022 18:44:29 GMT
YOu and Really Red are in my heart and in my thoughts. Take as much time and we are here for you.
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Post by destined2bmom on Apr 21, 2022 19:23:39 GMT
jeremysgirl You take all of the time that you need. You are a special person on our board and we are here for you. I am going to continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by Baseballmom23 on Apr 21, 2022 20:21:44 GMT
Oh Sweetie, you take as much time as you need. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. (((hugs))) we are here for your. Continued prayers for strength and healing
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kibblesandbits
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Post by kibblesandbits on Apr 21, 2022 20:24:58 GMT
I have made a monetary donation and 20 hour time commitment to volunteer with our local youth collective that deals directly with LGBTQ teens and young adults, in honor of your Esther.
Be well.
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Post by peanutterbutter on Apr 21, 2022 20:56:36 GMT
Sending many prayers and gentle hugs your way. Do what you need to do, rhe peas will be here.
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Post by littlemama on Apr 21, 2022 21:14:07 GMT
jeremysgirl one of the hardest things after a loss is seeing people doing "normal" things while you feel like you are falling apart. It is perfectly normal and when you are ready to start posting again, we will be here with our arms wide open. So many hugs to you. ❤❤
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Post by grammadee on Apr 21, 2022 21:19:52 GMT
How are you doing today, jeremysgirl? So often we get geared up to have the energy for the funeral and people gather around us up until then, but the days afterward can be really hard, with no energy left and people moving on to their own lives when we feel we have nowhere to move on to. And everyone in a family may experience the stages in grief at different times and spiraling at different frequencies. Please be kind to each other. Accept whatever help is offered. Take time you need to be alone and process, but also try to make time for the people who share your grief. Sending virtual strength today for you to get through the rest of the week.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Apr 21, 2022 21:43:53 GMT
I have made a monetary donation and 20 hour time commitment to volunteer with our local youth collective that deals directly with LGBTQ teens and young adults, in honor of your Esther. Be well. This is such a beautiful gesture. Thank you. ❤️
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Post by sillyrabbit on Apr 21, 2022 21:51:22 GMT
Oh my goodness...I am so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Sending you hugs and sending up prayers for comfort for you during this devastating time and for your future as you live with a piece of yourself missing.
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Post by quietgirl on Apr 21, 2022 23:20:24 GMT
I'm sorry, so very sorry. I have no other words, except that you are in my thoughts.
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Post by ilikepink on Apr 22, 2022 2:57:16 GMT
My heart breaks with you. 💔❤️
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Post by ilikepink on Apr 22, 2022 2:57:44 GMT
My heart breaks with you. 💔❤️
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Post by Marina on Apr 22, 2022 4:30:34 GMT
Thank you for giving us an update on the service for Esther. You truly are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Mary Kay Lady
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Apr 22, 2022 4:44:13 GMT
I just read your update. I'm so sorry for your loss. I have no words that will bring comfort. (((HUGS)))
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grrlsmom
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Post by grrlsmom on Apr 22, 2022 4:56:54 GMT
Hugs
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AllieC
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Post by AllieC on Apr 22, 2022 9:51:56 GMT
Sending you continued love and support. I can’t imagine the heartbreak x
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Post by tentoes on Apr 22, 2022 15:34:27 GMT
I can't even imagine the pain you are feeling. ((HUGS)) and prayers to you and your family.
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luckyjune
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Post by luckyjune on Apr 22, 2022 16:55:29 GMT
Thinking of you this morning. Sending light and love!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 22, 2022 19:03:41 GMT
Thoughts and hugs go out to you. Very often friends and family seem to back off from keeping grief on the forefront. SO many stop calling, writing, etc. I hope you know that all of us here will keep dropping in on you and wishing you the best. So many Peas here have experience with grief and loss. When you're ready, drop in and we'll be here. You're in our hearts, as is your dear Esther. xo
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Post by Mel on Apr 22, 2022 20:37:16 GMT
I've been away for a bit so just seeing this. I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll surely be in my prayers!!
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ComplicatedLady
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Apr 23, 2022 3:00:42 GMT
I have been thinking of you and your family since I read your initial post, but I couldn’t think of anything to say that others hadn’t already said. I will add to the hugs that are being sent your way. We are here if you need to scream, vent, laugh, share stories, or whatever else you need.
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