scrappinspidey2
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Oct 3, 2022 22:01:08 GMT
I am having a friendly argument with a friend. I am a notorious night person. They are one of those annoying up with the sun kind. I have always been a slow riser. My 9am-10am is everyone else 5-6am setting. My typical day ends at midnight without even struggling or trying. I struggled for decades with the typical day routine and then I found night shifts and man what a difference.
Now I’m training in a new job and the start times have been all Over the place but earlier than I’m used to. For the next two weeks it’s now going to be a 6:30am start time due to time zone issues.
Friend thinks that I can change from being a night owl into a day shift sunshine like they are. I completely disagree 😁😁. What say peas?
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Post by moretimeplease on Oct 3, 2022 22:15:09 GMT
I think it can change. My son used to be an early to bed, early riser. Even as a teenager on weekends, he would willingly head to bead at 9:30pm. He now bartends while in college and he easily stays up until 3am most nights, and struggles to get up before 10am.
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Post by mimima on Oct 3, 2022 22:18:37 GMT
My Dh is a night-owl who has to get up at 3:00 am for work. I can say that he is able to do it during the week, but definitely slips into his night-owlness when he isn't working.
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Post by Lexica on Oct 3, 2022 22:28:42 GMT
I have had it change for me. I had always been an early morning riser. Waking between 4am and 5 am was typical for my entire family. I could wake at 4, grab a cup of coffee from the freshly made pot and know that whoever made that pot was awake and I would hunt them out to chat and have coffee together. The majority of the time it was my mom that was awake.
It wasn’t until recently that I developed difficulty getting up early in the morning. I blame it on the fact that my sleep during the night was so broken and disturbed. I would sleep fitfully in hour increments throughout the night. When I would wake, I would try everything from watching a show on my laptop to reading to just laying still and trying to empty my mind. On nights like that, I really struggle to wake refreshed in the morning at any time truthfully. I feel groggy and exhausted all day.
I found myself staying up later and later at night, finally falling asleep around 2 am, but able to sleep I disturbed until 9am or so. I hate it. I prefer being a morning person and I have resorted to drinking sleepy time tea or taking melatonin and setting my alarm, trying to gradually get up earlier and earlier.
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Post by monklady123 on Oct 3, 2022 22:29:00 GMT
I think it can be forced temporarily, but honestly I don't think it can be permanently changed. At least among adults. I know kids are different, but I think once we get to be adults we stick with our preferences. Kind of like Myers-Briggs Introverts... We can force ourselves to act like Extroverts but once we're done being extroverty we go right back to introversion. lol
I'm an early-to-bed-up-with-the birds person. If I absolutely have to stay up late I can but I have to dose myself with coffee. And I'm miserable the whole time. This is why I LOVE Zoom meetings. Seriously. Church meetings are now on Zoom so even if they're at night I can attend with my PJ bottoms on, and when the meeting is done I can just roll into bed rather than having to get in my car and drive home in the dark. lol
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Post by katlady on Oct 3, 2022 22:48:20 GMT
I think you can train yourself, but it is easy to fall back into your natural pattern. I am a night owl. I know I need to go to bed earlier, but it is so hard. When we were 100% working from home, it was great for me. I could wake up at 7:45 and be at my computer by 8. Lol! If I had no motivation to wake up early, I will naturally go to bed between 12 and 2.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Oct 3, 2022 22:56:59 GMT
I've been a night owl and insomniac my entire life.
My "early" is up between 8:00am to 10:00am.....and it's only because I have to for work. For me, rising early is forced and makes me feel out of sorts. I struggle with a day schedule and usually have to nap once or twice a week, depending on my days off.
I think there are many who are "forced" to change circadian rhythms because of work or School schedules. But if not on a schedule, natural night owls gravitate right back to a night schedule.
For me personally......Staying up until 2:00am to 4:00am, then sleeping (on and off) until 10:00am to noon, would be my ideal sleep pattern. Disclaimer: I never get a solid eight hours of sleep. My sleep is always in increments of 2-4 hours, then up to use bathroom, then sometimes back to sleep, sometimes toss and turn then sleep, sometimes no sleep and get up for an hour or two. I need a total of eight hours+ to feel rested and not tired. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't.
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Post by iteach3rdgrade on Oct 3, 2022 23:04:32 GMT
In the summer, I become a night owl. I think the only way I'd be a morning person would be to move to Hawaii. 😀 Love the sunshine.
Well that sounds silly. The sunshine there is just different. 😀 It gets dark too early. Must be vacation mode.
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Post by nursema on Oct 3, 2022 23:13:23 GMT
I’ve worked nightshift (1900-0730) for 19+ years of my 26 year career. Was a night owl since I was an infant, per my mom. I think night owls tend to do the best when it comes to the later shifts. I studied it a lot (in an attempt to optimize my health and stay on that shift) and tried different hacks for years, starting in 2009. What I’ve learned from my own experience is that leaning into my natural “clock” tends to be better than trying to go against it. I struggled every time I tried to “be a dayshifter” for any length of time. No part of me wants to (or can) fall asleep by 10pm. I believe we can ALTER our natural patterns, and there is a lot of science behind that now, but I don’t know that we can actually change them. I feel we can shift them and make them work better for us for prolonged periods of time, though. There are many ways. This is a go-to guy on this subject at the moment, Andrew Huberman. He’s amazing and knows his stuff. If you don’t find the answers to your question in this episode, I guarantee you’ll find them in one of his. His IG acct and podcasts are gold mines of information - and not just on this subject, but on the many facets of overall health. He just said on an IG live I watched last week that: “Sleep is THE foundation of physical health, mental health, and performance.” …and I agree! It doesn’t hurt, either, that he’s easy on the the eyes. Hope this helps someone. youtube.com/watch?v=h2aWYjSA1Jc&feature=share
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Post by seaexplore on Oct 3, 2022 23:13:48 GMT
I'm a perky up with the sun no caffeine to get going person. Winter is a struggle to get up on time (6:15 am) for me. I also go to bed with the sun. In the winter I'm ready for bed at 5. LOL
I DO think you can change sleep patterns but not really the whole perkiness at an early time thing.
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Post by katlady on Oct 3, 2022 23:19:08 GMT
I think this is why the time change is harder for some people. We are not just changing our sleep pattern for a couple of days and then going back to our old pattern. We have to completely change our pattern/rhythm for the time changes.
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Post by malibou on Oct 4, 2022 0:11:30 GMT
I'm a night owl and an early riser. I need about 5 hours of sleep. 1am to 6am is my natural rhythm. Sometimes at the beginning of spring forward time change, I sleep about an hour longer for a few days.
Too much sleep makes me out of sorts.
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Post by peano on Oct 4, 2022 1:06:00 GMT
I have always been an inveterate night owl. But as I've gotten into my 60s, I've found I don't (can't) sleep late enough to make up for it. This was making my life unpleasant, so I began to force myself to go to bed early enough to get at least 6-7 hours of sleep, e.g. 12 midnight instead of 2-3am. This worked last winter, but this summer I noticed I was drifting back into my regular sleep pattern and using coffee to stay awake.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 4, 2022 2:46:03 GMT
I’ve always been a night owl. I think those patterns can be shifted but I think it’s hard for someone to completely change from one to the other extreme. I can naturally wake up without an alarm most days around 7:30 and normally like going to bed around 11:30-12:00. I’ve never been a sound sleeper even under the best of circumstances. In recent years, it has been harder and harder to get consistent restful sleep due to chronic pain, sinus issues, needing to pee, etc. As a result, I end up really tired in the afternoon.
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Post by dewryce on Oct 4, 2022 6:49:48 GMT
My circadian rhythms changes very easily, but not in a good way. I am a night owl, always have been, always will be. I just function better in the late evening early morning. But it often changes to me being awake ALL night and sleeping during the day when I go through a manic cycle. Then I got a job where I was required to be there at 6 am 5 days a week. It wasn’t fun but I was able to do it. But I wasn’t Suzy Sunshine at that time. Unless I’m manic I never am in the am.
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Post by Embri on Oct 4, 2022 9:21:56 GMT
While I agree you can condition your body to a routine of certain hours awake/asleep, I think everyone has their own natural circadian rhythm they will drift back into, given the opportunity, and be happiest in.
It makes a certain amount of sense that evolution would have prioritized mostly diurnal individuals, with a small number of nocturnal people to keep an eye out while everyone else sleeps. As far as I know people don't usually go crepuscular (without comorbidity conditions), though you could argue in some extreme environments it does happen. Either way our bodies rely on external cues to keep the internal clock working - it's much harder if you're completely blind, for example, to stay in a fixed sleep/wake routine.
I'm very much a night owl, and always drift back into that pattern unless forced out of it.
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Post by compeateropeator on Oct 4, 2022 13:39:16 GMT
I am a night owl, but also don’t really sleep late. I have issues with sleep and always have. I work 2nd shift and have for over 20 years.
Prior to this 20 year stint, I worked at a Bank for 15 years where I started in the check/transaction processing area. We started at in the afternoon and went until finish…which could be before midnight or 2 or 3 in the morning or later depending on the volume of transactions to process and balance. I then moved to the supervisor/manager position which was more day hours and it was a very difficult transition and I never felt totally comfortable with those hours.
Short answer is I think you can alter it but not sure that you can actually change it…at least I have never been able to.
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Post by Susie_Homemaker on Oct 4, 2022 13:42:29 GMT
Friend thinks that I can change from being a night owl into a day shift sunshine like they are. I completely disagree 😁😁. What say peas? No, I do not think it can be changed. I'm a night owl and have worked a 8-4 job for 15 years and still have not made the shift. Given the choice, I would not naturally get up early and go to bed early. During breaks, and especially during covid shutdown when I was working from home for 4 months, my natural body rhythm is to stay up until 12 or later and then my body would naturally wake up 8.5 hours later. That's what naturally happened when I had an extended amount of time without needing to be up and get ready for work. I found myself staying up later and later, then just had to make 12 or 1 my bedtime so I wouldn't continue that trend. I'm not a morning person and I believe that I never will be no matter how many years I'm forced to get up early to be at work.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Oct 4, 2022 14:28:19 GMT
I don't even know what my natural rhythm would be because I've been so affected by bipolar disorder. My sleep was affected so much before I was on medicine I would alternate between 10-12 hours of sleep during depression to 3-4 hours of sleep when I was ruled by mania. And never any consistency. It's only now while I've been on medication that I've had any stability. For years, I was on medicine that made it very hard to wake up in the morning. But the past 4 years, I've been on a medicine that doesn't make me groggy like that anymore and I am 9pm in bed and 5am awake every single day.
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scrappinspidey2
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Post by scrappinspidey2 on Oct 4, 2022 16:45:36 GMT
So I tried to go to bed early last night and it did not work. I’m dragging really hard this am. It’s temporary. Only two weeks so far of this 6:30 start time. I’ve been told that they need someone to start later once I’m out of training and a 9am start is an option. I’m letting myself be crabby about it today and then moving on. I’m in the camp of I can force myself to do dayshift hours but I don’t feel good doing it. I like the idea of working around my body normal but unfortunately corporate world, which is where I am now even as a nurse, doesn’t work that way. Swing shift is my favorite cause it straddles both worlds nicely.
I won’t ever be a happy morning person. I will drag until 9-10 😁 then maybe I will be nice 😁😁
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Post by bigbundt on Oct 4, 2022 18:13:19 GMT
I think you can adapt to waking up early, but your optimal productive time stays the same. After having kids, I can't sleep past 7:30 but I'm not at optimal level at all. My most productive window is between 10 am-3 pm and that has never changed from college regardless of the time I've gone sleep/woken up.
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Post by birukitty on Oct 4, 2022 19:19:11 GMT
I agree with the other Peas-I think it can be forced, but I don't think your natural Circadian rhythm can be changed. I've been a night owl since birth my parents tell me. They couldn't get me to go to sleep easily at night and when they tried to wake me up "at a decent hour" in the morning I'd be all cranky and wanted to go back to sleep. My natural time to go to bed (when my body tells me it's time to go to sleep) is between midnight and 2:00 am. I wake up around 10:00 am.
During my school years and work years I forced myself to get up early, but I never felt "awake and engaged" until after the clock struck noon. Even with coffee. DH knows not to talk to me in the morning (if I have to be up early) until I have my caffeine.
What I really don't like is morning people who think they are somehow superior to night people, and believe it is easy to switch and become just like them. Or that we night people are lazy. We are not and no it can't be changed. It's just like being an extrovert or an introvert. You are born one way or the other.
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Post by katlady on Oct 4, 2022 19:43:15 GMT
What I really don't like is morning people who think they are somehow superior to night people, and believe it is easy to switch and become just like them. Or that we night people are lazy. We are not and no it can't be changed. It's just like being an extrovert or an introvert. You are born one way or the other. The one I hear often is that I am wasting away my day by sleeping in late. I tell them (and yes, it is one particular friend), I get 7-8 hours of sleep just like you do, how am I wasting away my day? They will then mention how much they get done from 6AM-8AM, and I shoot back at them how much I get done from 10PM-Midnight.
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Post by Embri on Oct 5, 2022 0:20:35 GMT
What I really don't like is morning people who think they are somehow superior to night people, and believe it is easy to switch and become just like them. Or that we night people are lazy. We are not and no it can't be changed. It's just like being an extrovert or an introvert. You are born one way or the other. I never understood this either. Who cares which hours someone is most productive in? Having different shifts of people using resources and services is actually a good thing, it means you can get better coverage with less infrastructure. Think of how much better traffic would be if it was evenly distributed over a 24h period. No more rush hours, no crammed public transportation.
Not to mention it means there are people who are happy to be active during times others want to be asleep, for jobs that need constant staffing.
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Post by peabay on Oct 5, 2022 0:42:22 GMT
They can absolutely change. I remember when I was at college I would easily sleep til 11 or noon. I made fun of one of my roommates for getting up at 9 am. I used to plan my classes only for afternoons because I literally could not be up before it was almost lunchtime.
Now? I'm a 6 am riser - when I "sleep in" it's til 7. Maybe 7:30.
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Post by monklady123 on Oct 5, 2022 10:09:41 GMT
What I really don't like is morning people who think they are somehow superior to night people, and believe it is easy to switch and become just like them. Or that we night people are lazy. We are not and no it can't be changed. It's just like being an extrovert or an introvert. You are born one way or the other. The one I hear often is that I am wasting away my day by sleeping in late. I tell them (and yes, it is one particular friend), I get 7-8 hours of sleep just like you do, how am I wasting away my day? They will then mention how much they get done from 6AM-8AM, and I shoot back at them how much I get done from 10PM-Midnight. Lol. I'm one of those "get so much done between 6 and 8 a.m." people (although I'd never judge you for not being one). Between 10 and midnight I am sound asleep. It fascinates me how people's brains are just different. My dh can do brainy things after dinner, like our taxes. Or sometimes he does webinars for the Asia bureau from here at home because they're so late (our time).. I'll hear him downstairs saying things like "take a look at the blah-blah report, on page 16 column 8, look at the figures for so-and-so..." Me... I can't even do the Wordle at night. lol
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Post by dizzycheermom on Oct 5, 2022 18:09:44 GMT
For me personally......Staying up until 2:00am to 4:00am, then sleeping (on and off) until 10:00am to noon, would be my ideal sleep pattern. This is 100% me! And now that my daughter is grown, this is my daily schedule. I do have to get up earlier occasionally for appointments and other things. If I have to get up early, I usually have to take a nap. I wish I could have a normal schedule, but even though I am constantly tired no matter how much sleep I get, this is what works best for me.
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Post by birukitty on Oct 5, 2022 19:22:54 GMT
The one I hear often is that I am wasting away my day by sleeping in late. I tell them (and yes, it is one particular friend), I get 7-8 hours of sleep just like you do, how am I wasting away my day? They will then mention how much they get done from 6AM-8AM, and I shoot back at them how much I get done from 10PM-Midnight. Lol. I'm one of those "get so much done between 6 and 8 a.m." people (although I'd never judge you for not being one). Between 10 and midnight I am sound asleep. It fascinates me how people's brains are just different. My dh can do brainy things after dinner, like our taxes. Or sometimes he does webinars for the Asia bureau from here at home because they're so late (our time).. I'll hear him downstairs saying things like "take a look at the blah-blah report, on page 16 column 8, look at the figures for so-and-so..." Me... I can't even do the Wordle at night. lol Yes! I'm my most creative between 10 pm and 2 am so I love to work on scrapbooking, knitting or whatever my creative mind craves during those hours when the rest of my family sleeps. I'm so grateful to have a wonderful scraproom in half of our finished basement while my family sleeps 2 floors up. I can listen to music and craft away without waking them. That's when my mind is churning with ideas!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2022 19:51:56 GMT
Didn't read any replies, but I was always on the same schedule as you!! I used to get great sleep too. That all changed for me in the past year.
I've had jobs where I had to be out the door by 6 am. Ughhh. I'd go to bed 8 hours before I had to get up and it worked... HTH.
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Post by AussieMeg on Oct 6, 2022 0:55:18 GMT
I think that a lot of people change over time, whether they want to or not!
I am a night owl, and since I've been working from home, I usually go to bed after midnight. Most of my life I have been able to sleep in until after 9am. But the older I get, the less I am able to sleep in. Even if I go to bed after midnight, I'm still awake at about 7am most mornings.
DSO used to be able to sleep in, but these days he gets up anywhere from 4am - 6am. 6:30am would be a sleep in for him.
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