peabay
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Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Nov 15, 2022 18:31:20 GMT
That's certainly a complicated anniversary to cope with. Glad to hear you are doing well!
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Post by stormsts on Nov 15, 2022 21:01:21 GMT
Hugs to you.
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Post by Basket1lady on Nov 15, 2022 21:19:47 GMT
What a big day for you. I hope that you look at it with triumph for all that you’ve come through. You are flourishing and should be so very proud of yourself.
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Post by librarylady on Nov 16, 2022 2:44:06 GMT
mouse over the hug.
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Post by papersilly on Nov 16, 2022 3:38:28 GMT
My heart broke for DD, whose IG post today was “ pro tip: live a good life so your children can grieve you without shame"I love that
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TXMary
Pearl Clutcher
And so many nights I just dream of the ocean. God, I wish I was sailin' again.
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Jun 26, 2014 17:25:06 GMT
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Post by TXMary on Nov 16, 2022 3:48:57 GMT
I remember your story well. I'm sorry for what you and your children went through. You’re a tough lady. So happy to hear that things are going good for you now. Hugs!
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Post by gigito7 on Nov 16, 2022 14:23:48 GMT
You are strong and brave. You went through hell and came out a strong woman. Much respect for you! Hugs!
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Post by leftturnonly on Nov 16, 2022 17:20:43 GMT
“ pro tip: live a good life so your children can grieve you without shame”. True Wisdom I can't believe it's been 10 years already!
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Post by mom on Nov 16, 2022 17:38:59 GMT
I haven't posted to this thread yet - though I had read it and it has been on my mind since I originally saw it. I just didn't know what to say that would ease your pain. And the truth is, nothing I can do will ease your pain.
Thank you for sharing...sharing that today was the anniversary of such a horrible day in your life. And sharing that you still struggle with hating him while loving him also. Your strength to be so open about your feelings will certainly help someone else when they come across your post later on.
I hope you were able to have some peace yesterday. You deserve it.
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Post by andreasmom on Nov 16, 2022 18:55:33 GMT
(((Hugs))) You have gone through so much and have always displayed strength, resilience, and grace.
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janeinbama
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,174
Location: Alabama
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Post by janeinbama on Nov 16, 2022 23:11:25 GMT
You and your children have traveled and long and hard road. (Hugs)
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Post by mollycoddle on Nov 16, 2022 23:20:14 GMT
I’m sorry; today must be so hard. But you made it! You came through it, and good on you. My best to you and your family.
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Post by quinlove on Nov 17, 2022 1:44:44 GMT
Sending love to you. ❤️
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Post by supersoda on Nov 17, 2022 2:36:52 GMT
I’m so glad to hear that you are doing well and I hope that your children can eventually find peace.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Nov 17, 2022 22:14:51 GMT
I haven't posted to this thread yet - though I had read it and it has been on my mind since I originally saw it. I just didn't know what to say that would ease your pain. And the truth is, nothing I can do will ease your pain. Thank you for sharing...sharing that today was the anniversary of such a horrible day in your life. And sharing that you still struggle with hating him while loving him also. Your strength to be so open about your feelings will certainly help someone else when they come across your post later on. I hope you were able to have some peace yesterday. You deserve it. Thank you. The Pea community has been a blessing and resource. Especially when I just need to share my feelings without worrying how it will affect family. If my experience were to help others in any way, it would be that putting yourself first when a marriage is unhealthy is ok. The second message is that even if you find yourself feeling you have invested your whole adult life to someone not worth it, it’s never too late to create a new different life.
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moodyblue
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,173
Location: Western Illinois
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Jun 26, 2014 21:07:23 GMT
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Post by moodyblue on Nov 18, 2022 0:30:28 GMT
My heart broke for DD, whose IG post today was “ pro tip: live a good life so your children can grieve you without shame"I love that These words of wisdom come from experience. And they say a lot about the pain and emotions in this situation. I hope you continue to thrive and move farther away from the horrible events that changed the lives of you and your children.
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