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Post by lesserknownpea on Nov 15, 2022 7:37:35 GMT
I was crying myself to sleep, wondering whether to hope that my estranged husband would ever be someone I could trust again. I had no idea that in the morning he would break into the house, and do the unthinkable, leaving me in the hospital and getting himself sent to prison.
3 years ago tonight the same man took his last breath, relieving both those who loved him and those who hated him. ( and me, who falls somewhere in the middle).
My heart broke for DD, whose IG post today was “ pro tip: live a good life so your children can grieve you without shame”.
There’s been a lot of therapy. And tears. I will never forgive what all this has done to my children. But my life is pretty good, and I’ve learned to focus on the joy possible in each moment.
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Post by malibou on Nov 15, 2022 8:24:35 GMT
HUGS, great big long hugs!
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Post by FrozenPea on Nov 15, 2022 8:39:25 GMT
Sending you hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2022 9:22:01 GMT
Sending hugs and thoughts of healing for all of you.
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Post by gar on Nov 15, 2022 9:25:28 GMT
Hugs to you and your family.
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Nov 15, 2022 9:28:05 GMT
I'm sorry, that's a horrible thing to happen.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Nov 15, 2022 10:25:53 GMT
(((hugs)))
You are strong.
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Nov 15, 2022 11:11:24 GMT
You are such an inspiration to us! You got through something terrible and are now living a good life. Thanks for showing us it can be done. You are a warrior!
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Post by hop2 on Nov 15, 2022 11:31:12 GMT
Hugs
You are such a strong woman and an example of grace, forgiveness & kindness.
I wish you joy
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Post by christine58 on Nov 15, 2022 11:59:12 GMT
Hugs to you and your daughter. I remember you writing about the terrible things he did to you. You are strong!
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mimima
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Post by mimima on Nov 15, 2022 12:10:11 GMT
Hugs indeed. You have prevailed.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 15, 2022 12:20:18 GMT
I have great admiration for you. You’ve shown such resilience in taking a horrible experience and coming out stronger.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Nov 15, 2022 12:37:39 GMT
What a road you and your children have had to travel! It sounds like you have shown strength and grace through it all. Prayers you each continue to live a good life.
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scrappyesq
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Post by scrappyesq on Nov 15, 2022 13:01:54 GMT
I remember you writing about this and it brings tears to my eyes. You are so strong and resilient! >>>>hugs<<<<
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Post by originalvanillabean on Nov 15, 2022 13:04:13 GMT
((Hugs))
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Post by scraphappy0501 on Nov 15, 2022 13:19:00 GMT
(((Hugs))) to you! You are a warrior hero - you made it through some terrible things and overcame them. Your strength and grace are an inspiration to me!
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Nov 15, 2022 13:30:38 GMT
I said it then and I say it now, you are one of the strongest, bravest people I will ever know! You have persisted with grace and honor. Wishing you and yours the very best.
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Post by workingclassdog on Nov 15, 2022 13:56:34 GMT
DAMN.... hugs and more hugs for you and your kids. You are here and we are here for you.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 15, 2022 14:01:26 GMT
You’ve survived a living hell. Sending wishes for peace and happiness!
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on Nov 15, 2022 14:16:47 GMT
Sending you all the love and warm hugs today and everyday for the hell you have endured. You are here and a testament to being a survivor.
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Post by casii on Nov 15, 2022 14:56:33 GMT
I am glad you are here with us, stronger and healthier and able to reflect upon all the hard work you've put in to get to today. Still, sending love because the heart is strong, but still tender.
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Post by peasandthanku on Nov 15, 2022 15:08:27 GMT
I can only imagine how extra hard today must be. Sending you hugs and hoping you feel the love from all the peas <3
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Post by bluebird71 on Nov 15, 2022 15:52:02 GMT
I have no words of wisdom, but I read your post and it struck me. I am so sorry for what you went thru.
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Post by gramasue on Nov 15, 2022 16:29:45 GMT
((( Hugs )))
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Post by disneypal on Nov 15, 2022 16:49:51 GMT
Oh my - you have really been through a lot with him. I am sure there was a mix of emotions when he passed. Either way, you are free from him...the good and the bad.
((HUGS))
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hutchfan
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Post by hutchfan on Nov 15, 2022 17:04:30 GMT
Sending you and your family hugs!
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cakediva
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Making the world a sweeter place one cake at a time!
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Post by cakediva on Nov 15, 2022 17:05:09 GMT
Another with no words of wisdom - just hugs!
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tanya2
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Post by tanya2 on Nov 15, 2022 17:23:53 GMT
I remember when you posted about this happening. Hugs to you and your family for all you have been through
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Post by flanz on Nov 15, 2022 17:52:28 GMT
You are an inspiration, dear one.
Sending you lots of love and huge hugs - so glad you were able to emerge from this horror in a good place!
((((( HUGS )))))
ETA: Your openness in sharing is a gift to us all. thank you!
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Post by papersilly on Nov 15, 2022 18:00:39 GMT
i remember your posts about that. i'm glad you are doing well these days.
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