sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Dec 7, 2014 20:35:51 GMT
or someone you know do this-- just belch matter-of-factly, without trying to stifle or disguise? ETA: or saying "excuse me" afterwards....
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Post by chaosisapony on Dec 7, 2014 20:36:56 GMT
Lots of people I know do this. My best friend is the worst! She says she just can't hold it in so it becomes a "love me, love my burps" situation.
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Post by vspindler on Dec 7, 2014 20:36:57 GMT
Only around the husband and kids
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Post by cindyupnorth on Dec 7, 2014 20:38:48 GMT
OMG. I think it must be individual. Because in my family we would NEVER do that, and my dh doesn't do it but his brother!! just ewwwwwww
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Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2014 20:42:57 GMT
Isn't it crazy that people actually do that in public? I can't believe it, I would never.
The other one is blowing one's nose at the table, which pretty much makes me gag.
Barbarians.
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ellen
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Post by ellen on Dec 7, 2014 20:46:25 GMT
I was on a flight this summer where the guy in the row across from me belched loudly on a couple different occasions. The people he was traveling with said nothing at all. They appeared to be Asian Indians which made me think perhaps it was a cultural thing. eta - i just googled to see if was considered rude to burp in India and a couple different websites said it was not.
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Peamac
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Post by Peamac on Dec 7, 2014 21:39:44 GMT
Only in front of Dh and kids, to show them I can belt out a good one every now and then. My brother used to unapologetically belch out the alphabet, just to prove he could.
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Post by hop2 on Dec 7, 2014 21:48:02 GMT
I haven't encountered that outside my 15 yo and his friends.
Most adults I know will at the very minimum say excuse me. I can't think if a time that hasn't been the case.
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Post by shannoots on Dec 7, 2014 21:50:06 GMT
I have noticed this more and more lately. I have really noticed it with tweens/teenagers. So much so that I've started wondering if saying excuse me (or not doing it at all) is something that parents aren't teaching anymore?!
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M in Carolina
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Post by M in Carolina on Dec 7, 2014 22:00:49 GMT
In some cultures, belching is a compliment.
The people I see doing this just don't have any manners.
I also hate blowing noses at the table. I do have allergies and have to wipe my nose discreetly--if I ran to the restroom every time, I'd never eat--but I'm extremely discreet--if I need to blow I go to the restroom. I have seen people blow their noses like a foghorn then inspect their handiwork in restaurants. So disgusting.
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Post by luvnlifelady on Dec 7, 2014 22:08:47 GMT
17 yo DD belches loudly and it's very annoying since it's usually in close proximity to me. Her BFF hates when she does it too. She doesn't do it in public though.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2014 22:17:33 GMT
I have noticed this more and more lately. I have really noticed it with tweens/teenagers. So much so that I've started wondering if saying excuse me (or not doing it at all) is something that parents aren't teaching anymore?! I agree and it seems to be evidenced in this thread. I wonder why it's "allowed" now? I find it extremely gross and rude and is not allowed in our house. My kids have been told not to in public either (fingers crossed!)
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Post by maryland on Dec 7, 2014 22:18:07 GMT
Yes, 2 of my 3 daughters. Gross! Makes them look like they have no manners. We tell them not to and that they must say excuse me. And we wonder why they don't have boyfriends!
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cakediva
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Post by cakediva on Dec 7, 2014 22:50:18 GMT
I'm sorry - I'm having a hard time with the "we never do that" "it isn't allowed in our house" thing. Do you mean burping in general? Or burping without saying "excuse me" after doing it?
Because burping is a natural bodily function. It happens. Sometimes you just have to burp, or even, one just happens when you don't mean to (like after drinking something fizzy).
We always say "excuse me" in our house after we do it, but we do all burp!
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Post by DEX on Dec 7, 2014 23:44:09 GMT
I absolutely love my son. Always have, and always will. When he was growing up he would belch without a word of remorse, or "excuse me". Of course, I would yell at him for it. This continued through his teen years, dating years with his wife, early married years, and now...my revenge. When I was visiting at Thanksgiving, I heard my perfect, angelic, grandson belch. His father, my not-so-perfect son, immediately chastised him saying, "That is rude, you need to say, excuse me". I was in another room but I had to intervene and say, "Repeat that again!" Being a grandma is the best revenge!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2014 23:52:17 GMT
I'm sorry - I'm having a hard time with the "we never do that" "it isn't allowed in our house" thing. Do you mean burping in general? Or burping without saying "excuse me" after doing it? Because burping is a natural bodily function. It happens. Sometimes you just have to burp, or even, one just happens when you don't mean to (like after drinking something fizzy). We always say "excuse me" in our house after we do it, but we do all burp! I was responding to the OP's wording of " just belch matter-of-factly, without trying to stifle or disguise? ETA: or saying "excuse me" afterwards...." Yes we all have to belch sometimes but you can do it rudely or politely.
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Post by momstime on Dec 8, 2014 0:21:53 GMT
Just be sorry and say so when your body performs a natural, healthy act. It makes people happy.
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Post by evnimom on Dec 8, 2014 0:47:52 GMT
My mother and DH does this. My DH will be gross and just do it continuously. He uses his gastric reflux disease as an excuse.
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thatgirlintexas
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Post by thatgirlintexas on Dec 8, 2014 0:54:53 GMT
Wait?! It's not acceptable to burp and then blow it in someones face? My world order is crumbling.
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Post by SabrinaM on Dec 8, 2014 0:57:36 GMT
Yes. I have an extended family member that does this. They think it's amusing. I think it's repulsive.
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back to *pea*ality
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Dec 8, 2014 0:58:29 GMT
I don't know the answer. I remember driving home from work, my first job out of college. I was at a red light. I haven't lived in that state for 30 years, but I remember exactly where I was and from the very pit of my stomach a rumbling, rolling belch that seemed to go on forever came out of me. It was like an out of body experience. I had never had anything like that happen to me like that before or since. It was epic. Thank goodness there were no witnesses.
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Post by my2apps2 on Dec 8, 2014 1:21:52 GMT
We have belching contests at home, but never at the table or in public.
I don't see anything wrong with it in the right setting, but raising a few boys has given me an appreciation for body humor. Right or wrong, I find it hilarious!
However, my kids know if they pull that at the dinner table or in public, it won't be pretty. There is a time and place, be silly at home but mind your manners where manners are required.
Now, nose blowing at the table? Gross!
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Post by melanell on Dec 8, 2014 1:24:13 GMT
I'm sitting here at my desk, and DH is sitting at his, with headphones on, and he can't hear me at all. And I just burped and immediately said "excuse me" and no one even heard me burp. Or excuse myself for that matter. And then I remembered this thread. So there's your answer. I even excuse myself when no one hears me burp in the first place.
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Post by gypsymama on Dec 8, 2014 1:40:41 GMT
its disgusting and i don't buy the "culture" thing... lack of class maybe. and i have raised 3 boys and none of them think its cute or funny or whatever. my husband, who was basically raised by wolves, will do it but i'm working on getting him to use the same manners we ask of the kids. yes it happens, but yuck
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akathy
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Post by akathy on Dec 8, 2014 1:55:04 GMT
Yuck, that is gross! I know it happens but an excuse me is in order then. Seriously, if you accidently farted in public you'd say excuse me, wouldn't you? To my way of thinking a burp is the same thing... gas escaping from the body so please excuse yourself when gas escapes no matter which end it came out of.
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Post by AussieMeg on Dec 8, 2014 1:57:23 GMT
17 yo DD belches loudly and it's very annoying since it's usually in close proximity to me. Her BFF hates when she does it too. She doesn't do it in public though. <------ This 47 yo belches loudly, and apparently it's very annoying to her family members also!! (I don't do it in public. Well, not too often anyway!)
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Post by laureljean on Dec 8, 2014 2:36:29 GMT
DD and DS do this (only with family, not in public), then grin at me. They were brought up better, but just like to push my buttons.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 8, 2014 3:06:55 GMT
I vote poor manners. It's one thing to burp in front of your S/O and not really have to say excuse me but still, one should. If I burp, I try to make it as quiet as possible and if I'm in someone's company, I will say excuse me. I have to give my kids, especially my youngest, the stink eye when they burp. I keep telling them when they're with their friends and they don't care about that kind of stuff, then go right ahead, but when you're at the dinner table with family, you will say "excuse me." I'm hoping that eventually, they'll have acceptable manners for the adult world once they're out on their own. Otherwise, I suspect, one of them will be living in my basement until they're 35.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 8, 2014 3:53:33 GMT
Only in casual family settings. We have enough manners at weddings and funerals.
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Post by moveablefeast on Dec 8, 2014 4:23:30 GMT
My dad has this insane burp, it is like a Mack truck going over a highway overpass, but I don't seem to have the ability to burp like that even if I chug a whole glass of Coke at once. All I can ever come up with is an impolite but sad little brrrrp.
My husband burps so politely it makes me giggle sometimes. He burps like he is blowing on the flame of a candle but not blowing it out. And then he says, goodness, excuse me. Usually I'm like, for what? because I didn't even know he was burping.
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