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Post by revirdsuba99 on Feb 9, 2023 21:33:40 GMT
NO! NO! NO! NO!
NO is a complete sentence!
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Post by AussieMeg on Feb 9, 2023 21:39:32 GMT
Absolutely not, that's horrendous.
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huskergal
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Post by huskergal on Feb 9, 2023 21:39:36 GMT
Absolutely not. Very unfair to the child.
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Post by guzismom on Feb 9, 2023 21:52:54 GMT
No
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Post by disneypal on Feb 9, 2023 21:59:47 GMT
No - I don't think children, no matter what their age, should be involved with their parents marital relationship. If a wife thinks her husband is cheating, she could get a friend or hire a P.I., but not ask their grown child.
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Feb 9, 2023 22:34:33 GMT
No. It's inappropriate and crosses a boundary that shouldn't be crossed.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Feb 9, 2023 22:50:11 GMT
My dh works for a company that was owned by the husband and wife. The crew was made up of the husband, his son, and 3 other workers. The husband was cheating on the wife. He was getting hotel rooms and billing them to the company, saying he had to stay over for work. No, he was sleeping with another women. He got caught when the son knew he wasn't staying over for work. So the wife got the son to show him the hotel, and they confronted the husband and his girl friend. Yea, that was a fun time to be working for them. Esp when they got divorced and split the company, that they all still work for. Can you say uncomfortable???
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Feb 9, 2023 23:15:16 GMT
My dh works for a company that was owned by the husband and wife. The crew was made up of the husband, his son, and 3 other workers. The husband was cheating on the wife. He was getting hotel rooms and billing them to the company, saying he had to stay over for work. No, he was sleeping with another women. He got caught when the son knew he wasn't staying over for work. So the wife got the son to show him the hotel, and they confronted the husband and his girl friend. Yea, that was a fun time to be working for them. Esp when they got divorced and split the company, that they all still work for. Can you say uncomfortable??? In this senerio, the son made the offer to assist the mother. With a company there was an added issue. Apologies... Corrected that the did not offer to help the mother.
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Post by hannahruth on Feb 10, 2023 0:51:12 GMT
Absolutely not! Not ever!
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Post by cycworker on Feb 10, 2023 2:01:51 GMT
Nope. Not a chance in Hell.
And in general, keep your kids out of your marital problems. Like, if you're in marriage counselling and one of the issues is disagreement re: how to deal with the kid's behaviour, don't tell say to the kid, 'You're the reason we're in counselling."
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Feb 10, 2023 3:24:01 GMT
Absolutely not.
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Post by Merge on Feb 10, 2023 3:36:21 GMT
Oh hell no. I’ve already scarred my kids unintentionally in too many ways. That would cross a big line.
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Post by scrappinwithoutpeas on Feb 10, 2023 4:11:09 GMT
Absolutely not!
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Post by prettyprettypaper on Feb 10, 2023 8:41:12 GMT
I would not want to put my child in that position. EVER.
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Post by malibou on Feb 10, 2023 8:52:37 GMT
Huge no from me. No child deserves that.
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Post by teddyw on Feb 10, 2023 12:57:15 GMT
No
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Post by tincin on Feb 11, 2023 3:29:01 GMT
I thought that was a job for a private detective. I would never ask a child to do it.
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Post by ameslou on Feb 11, 2023 15:12:31 GMT
Nope. Not a chance.
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Post by scrapngranny on Feb 13, 2023 20:22:46 GMT
Absolutely not. I have seen the damage parents can do to adult children by bringing them into the middle of marital issues. parents think because the child is an adult he/she can handle all the hostility that can out in a situation like this. My 23 year old grandson won’t speak to either of his parents after the damage of their divorce.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Feb 13, 2023 21:04:06 GMT
In this senerio, the son made the offer to assist the mother. With a company there was an added issue. I never said he offered...the mother asked him too, just like the question posed...
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Feb 13, 2023 21:13:26 GMT
In this senerio, the son made the offer to assist the mother. With a company there was an added issue. I never said he offered...the mother asked him too, just like the question posed... I corrected my original post that the son not offer to help his mother.
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Post by FuzzyMutt on Feb 14, 2023 5:51:53 GMT
No.
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