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Post by brynn on Feb 19, 2023 6:31:39 GMT
I am glad that you are happy and calm. Going forward, I wish you good things.
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Post by hop2 on Feb 19, 2023 12:00:51 GMT
(applause) If your adult children move back in, can you charge them at least a small amount to pay for the increased grocery bills? Perhaps split the utility bill between the adults? You can't act like they are age 10 and you pay for everything. the older one and his gf, yes. It will save them some money and help me out. I told them they'd have to commit for at least a year. The younger one, I figure he can pay maybe $100 / month over the summer. I will not charge him during the school year For both, any that I don't NEED to pay bills will go into an Ally bucket to give back to them. Hey, I understand, I’m a never charge my children rent type person too. And the ‘rent’ my father charged me was in the bank too. I know where you are coming from! But don’t forget to keep a rainy day amount for yourself especially since he’s already shown he won’t/doesn’t want to pay support. I applaud you though. If you can hold it together a year or two you might be in a better position to move both financially & mentally. 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Hugs
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Post by peace on Feb 19, 2023 16:57:54 GMT
and the best is yet to come...
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Post by luckyjune on Feb 19, 2023 17:27:04 GMT
How wonderful to hear this update! You sound so well and happy.
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Post by lisae on Feb 19, 2023 18:00:42 GMT
That's wonderful. You've earned this good feeling. And thank you for the positive update. We all need to be reminded that there is an up to all the downs in our lives.
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Post by Just T on Feb 19, 2023 18:06:26 GMT
Awesome post. I'm glad you are moving forward and feeling good about life.
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Post by 950nancy on Feb 20, 2023 1:38:56 GMT
The fact that the housing market has kind of shifted for now might work to your benefit. If you keep the house for a few years, you can wait until the market goes back up and sell with the profit in your name only.
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Post by epeanymous on Feb 20, 2023 1:40:26 GMT
You rock. What a wonderful feeling.
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Post by Nanner on Feb 20, 2023 2:47:51 GMT
What a great update! So glad to hear!
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Post by cycworker on Feb 20, 2023 3:21:33 GMT
I am so happy to read this update! Wish you all the best going forward!
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