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Post by kluski on Mar 8, 2023 2:12:22 GMT
I’m making one for a colleague and beginning to wonder if she’ll even appreciate it. I know the hours of work are my choice. My dd is 20 and blankets were still very much appreciated at that time. Just wondering if they have already become a thing of the past. Thoughts?
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Post by myshelly on Mar 8, 2023 2:34:10 GMT
Haven’t been around much lately have you? This has been a hot topic on the board.
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It’s a giant, resounding NO for me and all the moms I know IRL.
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Post by myshelly on Mar 8, 2023 2:35:17 GMT
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Post by elaine on Mar 8, 2023 2:39:36 GMT
I’m making one for a colleague and beginning to wonder if she’ll even appreciate it. I know the hours of work are my choice. My dd is 20 and blankets were still very much appreciated at that time. Just wondering if they have already become a thing of the past. Thoughts? The moms I know are different from myshelly’s. Many appreciate them if made out of wash and dry-able soft yarn.
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Post by peabay on Mar 8, 2023 2:40:24 GMT
I live in a climate where crocheted blankets are used on car seats and to transport babies to and from the house etc... so it's a yes from this lady in New England.
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Post by snyder on Mar 8, 2023 2:44:25 GMT
I think it depends, but usually they are well received. I know my great, great newphew loves blankets of any kind. He was born with a rare brain deformity so that is probably some of his obsessiveness of the blankets, buy his sister loves them as well. I have a friend that has passed and I promised her I would keep in touch with her grand children. One just had a new baby and she loves homemade blankets.
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Post by BSnyder on Mar 8, 2023 3:17:57 GMT
I think it depends on the receiver. My dd is 26. She comes from a family of makers and I have all of the handmade items from her childhood stored away. She would appreciate anything handmade. She understands to thought, love, and time it takes.
I know that some of her friends would not. Handmade not what they have been exposed to or something that was valued in their families, so they value trends and brands names. For a handmade gift, you either have to know your audience or unfortunately be prepared for a less than ideal response.
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Post by roundtwo on Mar 8, 2023 3:20:36 GMT
I read the previous thread and I really do think a lot of it has to do with climate, however ymmv. We live where it is cold and like peabay said, they are well used here, on car seats and when moving about in the cold. I gift a lot of crochet blankets and baby quilts and have yet to have anyone respond negatively. As elaine mentioned, the material matters and my blankets and quilts are all machine washable and able to go in the dryer.
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Post by caangel on Mar 8, 2023 3:48:03 GMT
For the most accurate answer ask her.
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Post by malibou on Mar 8, 2023 3:51:42 GMT
I loved the ones I got when Ds was born 22 years ago. He also loves them, and took them to college!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Mar 8, 2023 4:29:07 GMT
I live where it gets cold more than half the year, so yes, they are still well received here as long as they’re snuggly soft and easy to wash.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Mar 8, 2023 4:52:31 GMT
I read the previous thread and I really do think a lot of it has to do with climate, however ymmv. We live where it is cold and like peabay said, they are well used here, on car seats and when moving about in the cold. I live in the South and they are used often here as well - because of the air conditioning! kluski - The only way to know for sure is to ask your colleague. If you don't want to ask her directly, maybe put out some feelers with your other colleagues? Otherwise, just give the blanket from your heart. I do agree with the others that it should be from very soft yarn, as well as machine washable/dryable.
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Post by milocat on Mar 8, 2023 5:00:37 GMT
I'd say they are probably more likely to be used if not done in more traditional baby colours like mint green and yellow.
My girls' are just in their 20s (and hopefully not having kids for awhile), they would appreciate a crocheted or quilted blanket.
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Post by gina on Mar 8, 2023 5:01:49 GMT
I am a newborn photographer and I get plenty of clients who bring along homemade crocheted/knit blankets they want included in a photo.
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Post by ModChick on Mar 8, 2023 5:56:09 GMT
I love and have many from almost 18 years ago when my son was born. As far as I know still well received in my (cold Canadian) parts too.
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Post by pjaye on Mar 8, 2023 6:15:18 GMT
The only way to know is if they either ask you directly to make one - or if you ask them but even if you ask, most people who don't want one won't be rude enough to say it directly to you.
I'm a crocheter myself so keep that in mind...I understand what it's like to want to make something, but just because we enjoy a hobby doesn't mean we have to inflict it on others. Making things for other people is usually more about the person wanting to make something than it is about if the other person really wants/will use it.
Now I don't recall seeing any of your work specifically so this isn't a personal comment - but I am in a few FB crochet groups and some of the blankets people post are downright ugly and badly made and/or use horrible colours. I've seen so posts where it says "I made this for a co-workers baby" and it's some misshapen monstrosity in brown and purple and lime green.
So I think the skill with which a blanket is made and the color choices are directly proportional to the desirability of the blanket.
Also if you're going to worry about "appreciate" - then don't do it. Crochet blankets are a niche item and I think people either love or hate them...and the crocheters themselves love them more than most recipients do.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Mar 8, 2023 6:43:59 GMT
Definitely ask. I wouldn't want my hard work to go to someone who had no use for it. And ask what colours they would like too.
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Post by manda on Mar 8, 2023 7:01:19 GMT
I received several crocheted blankets for my baby born in January and I love all of them.
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Post by sueg on Mar 8, 2023 7:24:25 GMT
My DiL is a young mother and also a crocheter. Not only do both her girls have beautiful crochet blankies that they love, she makes a blanket for all her friends and family when babies are born, and all are well received.
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Post by lainey on Mar 8, 2023 9:56:36 GMT
I think it's pointless to ask anyone other than the intended recipient whether she likes them or not, peas could tell you they loved them till the cows come home but that doesn't mean this person will.
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Post by J u l e e on Mar 8, 2023 11:25:05 GMT
Unless the recipient is a socially inept ogre, of course it will be well received. It can also then be thrown in the back of a closet, used to line the dog’s bed, or donated. If you’re okay with those possibilities once the gift is given, proceed.
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Post by gillyp on Mar 8, 2023 11:29:49 GMT
My DIL has a deformed finger from when she was a baby and wrapped in a crocheted blanket. Her little hand got caught in a thread that cut off the blood supply. She wouldn’t use the knitted, lacey shawl that I used for my babies, nor anything else that wasn’t a close weave. Best to ask imho.
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Post by moretimeplease on Mar 8, 2023 12:14:54 GMT
It really depends on the person, but crochet isn’t as passé as some would have you think. My 32yo niece just announced her pregnancy by crocheting a traditional pink and blue blanket for herself. She and many of her friends *love* crocheted items.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Mar 8, 2023 12:19:30 GMT
My two daughters-in-law who have babies have both been thrilled with the ones they received and have used them regularly - often as a light blanket over the car seat.
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Post by Patter on Mar 8, 2023 12:40:31 GMT
I still make them, and I am making one now for a new mom that is 25. I will share the photo of what I am working on. I even had one mom contact me last month because the one I made for her son 8 years ago has a hole from the cat. She wants it repaired if I can because the son (and mom) still love it! I love praying for the person/child as I make it. It is a blessing for me to make these. I never ask, I create, and gift.
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Post by peasapie on Mar 8, 2023 12:54:25 GMT
My daughter crochets and receives requests from her pregnant friends all the time to make blankets for them. Patter I adore that blanket. The stitches and colors are dreamy.
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Post by Patter on Mar 8, 2023 12:56:02 GMT
It really depends on the person, but crochet isn’t as passé as some would have you think. My 32yo niece just announced her pregnancy by crocheting a traditional pink and blue blanket for herself. She and many of her friends *love* crocheted items. Oh yes, many younger people are now learning to crochet. I taught a 29 year old a year or so ago. She loves it. I have others tell me they want to learn also. And the crochet group I belong to on FB has people of all ages. One of them, in fact, went to university with my girls. It's fun seeing her creations on there. Also, many baby blankets being crocheted there for family/friends that request them for their little ones.
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Post by littlemama on Mar 8, 2023 12:56:42 GMT
If you want to know for sure, ask the recipient. Or, give the blanket from the heart and dont worry about it. If any of the crocheted blankets I got for DS had been soft, I would have used them more. I still used them occasionally and I appreciated the time and effort the giver put into such a thoughtful gift.
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Post by Patter on Mar 8, 2023 12:57:09 GMT
My daughter crochets and receives requests from her pregnant friends all the time to make blankets for them. Patter I adore that blanket. The stitches and colors are dreamy. Ha, we posted at the same time, and we posted similarly also (people requesting blankets). And thank you. I love these patterns and this yarn. Truly my favorite to work with (both patterns and yarn).
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Post by Patter on Mar 8, 2023 12:58:16 GMT
If you want to know for sure, ask the recipient. Or, give the blanket from the heart and dont worry about it. If any of the crocheted blankets I got for DS had been soft, I would have used them more. I still used them occasionally and I appreciated the time and effort the giver put into such a thoughtful gift. Some yarns are scratchy but goodness there are so many beautiful, soft options out there now. I am getting rid of my older stash of yarn because the new yarns are just so beautiful to work with and give!
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