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Post by gorgeouskid on Apr 30, 2023 21:54:04 GMT
Dude's had a rough college experience. From witnessing a stabbing to COVID to two knee surgeries (as a D1 athlete). His college athletics career ended yesterday.
He is having back surgery on Friday (herniated disc). I'm flying out to be with him, but it's more for me than it is for him.
Graduation just over two weeks after that.
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Post by peabay on Apr 30, 2023 22:29:37 GMT
I'm sorry - my dh was devastated when he gave up his D3 basketball career; can't even imagine how hard it would be for a D1 athlete. Hope he's okay - have a safe trip.
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Post by flanz on Apr 30, 2023 22:35:34 GMT
Oh, that's rough. I'm glad you'll be able to be with him.
xo
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Post by Neisey on Apr 30, 2023 23:03:16 GMT
Best wishes to your son. Enjoy your time with him.
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Post by librarylady on Apr 30, 2023 23:07:45 GMT
That is a lot to deal with.
My best wishes for your son and you to get this all "sorted out."
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Post by Bridget in MD on Apr 30, 2023 23:24:56 GMT
I am sorry the end of that era is over, but I am glad you can be with your son!
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 30, 2023 23:32:28 GMT
Aw, that is rough. I hope he has successful surgery and a quick recovery.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Apr 30, 2023 23:39:01 GMT
That's really hard for a young man.. Hope the surgery goes well!
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Post by casii on Apr 30, 2023 23:42:44 GMT
Hugs mama! It's so hard to walk beside them as they struggle, but he's lucky you're by his side.
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Post by Lurkingpea on Apr 30, 2023 23:47:28 GMT
I am sorry for your son, glad you can be with him.
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Post by scrappintoee on Apr 30, 2023 23:52:53 GMT
So sorry he's had to endure all the surgeries, Covid, AND seeing a stabbing?
I hope his recovery goes well, and glad you'll be with him.
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Post by pilcas on Apr 30, 2023 23:56:46 GMT
Best of luck to him, he did have it rough.
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Post by auntiepeas on May 1, 2023 0:25:14 GMT
Sorry it's been so rough for him.
Sending positive thoughts for his surgery and recovery, and gentle hugs for you.
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Post by amom23 on May 1, 2023 0:33:06 GMT
Injuries are tough and it's a bummer way to end a college sports career. Hope his surgery goes well and he has a great graduation.
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Post by gorgeouskid on May 1, 2023 0:47:20 GMT
So sorry he's had to endure all the surgeries, Covid, AND seeing a stabbing? I hope his recovery goes well, and glad you'll be with him. Like, the stabbing victim's intestines ended up in DS's lap. Perp (who was a teammate of my son) is now in prison. |
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Post by 950nancy on May 1, 2023 0:49:08 GMT
Oh man, that is all just terrible. Glad you can be with him. My husband had two herniated disc surgeries and they were rough. Hopefully they've improved the process since then.
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Post by Merge on May 1, 2023 0:56:35 GMT
I'm so sorry. I hope he has an easy recovery and is able to look toward the future.
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Post by gorgeouskid on May 1, 2023 1:09:45 GMT
Oh man, that is all just terrible. Glad you can be with him. My husband had two herniated disc surgeries and they were rough. Hopefully they've improved the process since then. I had one over 30 years ago, and I've been awesome ever since. The technology definitely has improved. It's now microsurgery and he should be out the same day. I have a seven inch scar, and I believe I spent the night? He's young and otherwise very healthy, so it should be a breeze. |
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Post by quinlove on May 1, 2023 2:39:09 GMT
((( gorgeouskid ))) I’m so sad to hear all of that regarding your darling son.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on May 1, 2023 2:54:52 GMT
I’m sorry to hear that.  . I hope he heals quickly and is able to enjoy graduation and what comes next. |
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Post by brynn on May 1, 2023 3:09:00 GMT
Best wishes for your son in the future. I'm sorry for his hardships.
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Post by destined2bmom on May 1, 2023 3:46:17 GMT
I am so sorry that your son has experienced so much pain and loss; during a time when he should be having a fun journey. I hope by you being there, he can heal more quickly.
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Post by scrappintoee on May 1, 2023 4:54:00 GMT
Like, the stabbing victim's intestines ended up in DS's lap. Perp (who was a teammate of my son) is now in prison. OMG! How on earth did he deal with that, poor thing? Was the victim his friend, and did he survive? |
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Post by lucyg on May 1, 2023 5:17:53 GMT
That poor kid! At least he’s almost done with college now. Sounds like he needs to just move on.  Good luck to him with his surgery. You’re a good mom. |
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Post by gramasue on May 1, 2023 13:06:10 GMT
Oh, he must be so disappointed. Hopefully the surgery goes well and he can begin healing. What awful experiences he's endured! It's good that you're going to be with him. Sending hugs and many positive thoughts to both your DS and you.
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Post by gorgeouskid on May 1, 2023 13:23:28 GMT
Like, the stabbing victim's intestines ended up in DS's lap. Perp (who was a teammate of my son) is now in prison. OMG! How on earth did he deal with that, poor thing? Was the victim his friend, and did he survive? Victim survived. Not a friend, but a teammate. |
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Post by gorgeouskid on May 7, 2023 3:16:40 GMT
It was a whole thing for me. My flight was (virtually cancelled due to mechanical issue) delayed with no assurance that it would work out. I rebooked to fly via Las Vegas on a redeye. It was terrible. I didn't sleep at all, and I thought I would be in his state at 5 am (per customer service) it was actually 8am. I went straight to the hospital where I met him (funny he arrived there 3 minutes after me, I have social media pix of us on a bridge at the same time).
Surgery went well, though the start time was delayed. I was dying because I hadn't slept in over 30 hours (maybe slept a few minutes on the plane).
Got back to the hotel they didn't have my reservation. Despite communicating multilple times to the hotel my cancelled flights and delays, they considered me a no-show. It was resolved fine, but my son had to stand around in the lobby for 30 minutes getting it resolved (they knew he'd just had back surgery).
He's fine and sleeping in the bed next to me. (I slept for 10 hours last night and had a 2 hour nap today.)
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Post by 950nancy on May 7, 2023 3:18:25 GMT
It was a whole thing for me. My flight was (virtually cancelled due to mechanical issue) delayed with no assurance that it would work out. I rebooked to fly via Las Vegas on a redeye. It was terrible. I didn't sleep at all, and I thought I would be in his state at 5 am (per customer service) it was actually 8am. I went straight to the hospital where I met him (funny he arrived there 3 minutes after me, I have social media pix of us on a bridge at the same time). Surgery went well, though the start time was delayed. I was dying because I hadn't slept in over 30 hours (maybe slept a few minutes on the plane). Got back to the hotel they didn't have my reservation. Despite communicating multilple times to the hotel my cancelled flights and delays, they considered me a no-show. It was resolved fine, but my son had to stand around in the lobby for 30 minutes getting it resolved (they knew he'd just had back surgery). He's fine and sleeping in the bed next to me. (I slept for 10 hours last night and had a 2 hour nap today.) May you both recover quickly! |
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Post by gorgeouskid on May 7, 2023 3:27:48 GMT
Got back to the hotel they didn't have my reservation. Despite communicating multilple times to the hotel my cancelled flights and delays, they considered me a no-show. It was resolved fine, but my son had to stand around in the lobby for 30 minutes getting it resolved (they knew he'd just had back surgery). He's fine and sleeping in the bed next to me. (I slept for 10 hours last night and had a 2 hour nap today.) May you both recover quickly! I slept 10 hours last night and another 2 hour nap today. |
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Post by scrapmaven on May 7, 2023 3:42:24 GMT
My mama heart goes out to you. I wish your son a quick and comfortable recovery.
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. I hope he heals quickly and is able to enjoy graduation and what comes next. 
