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Post by julieinsweden on May 18, 2023 17:34:50 GMT
Unless you or the venue get a call out charge from the fire brigade. Then I would suggest letting it go. Even if you say something and they apologise.....is it really going to make you feel better?
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Post by cmpeter on May 18, 2023 17:52:34 GMT
Let it go.
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Post by lisae on May 18, 2023 22:21:15 GMT
If you say something, it will cause a big ruckus that will overshadow what was mostly a lovely day. Let this go and perhaps remove these children from any future invitations until they are old enough to know better.
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Post by librarylady on May 18, 2023 22:33:54 GMT
Let it go for all the reasons given.
I am not sure a 4 or 6 year old are tall enough to pull the ones I have noticed, not to mention the ones behind the glass.
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Post by littlemama on May 18, 2023 23:33:10 GMT
Let it go. You have no proof that it was them and you cant demand an apology and expect to get one. And next time, dont invite the unruly children- their parents can be offended all they want.
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Post by auntkelly on May 18, 2023 23:52:59 GMT
Thank you all for the responses. I am going to follow your advice and let it go!
Just venting about what happened helped me feel better. It was a beautiful wedding and if you’ll indulge me, I’ll post a few pics, but maybe I shouldn’t post on this thread in case the family ever stumbles upon them.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 19, 2023 0:05:07 GMT
I’m glad you’ve decided to let it go, but wanted to say that I’m in the forgive but don’t forget camp. Those kids wouldn’t be invited to anything else, ever. Kids who are raised like that typically don’t get to an “age where they know better” because they’ve never been taught what that looks like.
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Post by epeanymous on May 19, 2023 0:31:28 GMT
I want to add one more thing for folks to think about if one is including children in the invitations.. A good number of the weddings I've attended have a hired kid wrangler/babysitter. If one invites young children to a wedding, I think it's a nice thing to do so that the parents aren't on high alert for the entire day or evening. Food for thought. I love it when weddings do this. Not having kids at the wedding meant I couldn't attend a distance wedding when the kids were young, and even if you are an attentive parent, weddings are long and full of strangers, so it was always nice when a wedding would have a person or two with games or whatever for the very young kids.
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