mimima
Drama Llama
Stay Gold, Ponyboy
Posts: 5,022
Jun 25, 2014 19:25:50 GMT
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Post by mimima on May 29, 2023 0:25:22 GMT
You have been given a gift, to be with your dad in this liminal space and to be honest and open. Much love and prayers. I'm so sorry
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Post by paulao on May 29, 2023 13:39:25 GMT
I did that with my mom. Her reply was “I know I can. I already talked to Pastor Billows about it.”
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Post by lily on May 31, 2023 15:16:45 GMT
I’m very close with my dad. He’s been my rock my entire life. He’s 86 so he can’t live forever but gosh this is killing me. Feel like something broke in me during that conversation. Trying to find the right words and stumbling along. Ugh I am SO sorry. This part of your post hit me in the heart because I just had to talk with my sweet Dad last month about DNR's and stuff like that. He did not totally understand it all, and it was so hard to explain. Thankfully a wonderful staff doctor also spoke with him and helped him understand. A few days later he passed away peacefully and mercifully fast. He was 90. I will be praying for you.
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Post by lesserknownpea on Jun 2, 2023 9:19:16 GMT
How beautifully unselfish of you.
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