leeny
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Post by leeny on Jun 16, 2023 0:26:30 GMT
Whenever I think of how long DH and I have been married (44 years) I remember my maternal great-grandparents and maternal grandparents. Both sets were married for 73 years when they passed.
How long is/was the longest marriage you know of in your family or friends circle?
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Post by lisae on Jun 16, 2023 0:33:13 GMT
I had an aunt who married her husband 2 months after Pearl Harbor just before he shipped out. They were married 72 years.
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Post by MichyM on Jun 16, 2023 0:35:48 GMT
Wow, 73 is amazing. My maternal grandparents were married 62 years.
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Post by hopemax on Jun 16, 2023 0:38:05 GMT
My great-aunt and great-uncle will be celebrating 68 years in September.
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Post by luckyjune on Jun 16, 2023 0:41:36 GMT
My parents have been married for 61 years and they are halfway to 62 years.
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Post by GamGam on Jun 16, 2023 0:46:33 GMT
My parents have been married for 61 years and they are halfway to 62 years. Our length exactly 😄
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jun 16, 2023 0:55:33 GMT
Sadly, people in my family don’t live long enough to be married that long. I know my grandparents made it to 50 years but not sure how much beyond that. I’ve had several friends that made it to just over 50 years. With one couple the wife passed away, the other couple I know is at 54 years married and still going strong. DH and I have been together for going on 38 years, married almost 34 of those years.
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Post by Zee on Jun 16, 2023 4:21:23 GMT
I think I had one set of great grandparents make it to 50+ years and all the rest including grandparents and parents have all been divorced.
Though second marriages in my family have tended to last much longer, including both of my parents' new marriages and one set of grandparents.
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Post by snyder on Jun 16, 2023 4:32:59 GMT
Had my father lived, my parenets would have been married 75 years this New Year's Eve. Unfortunately, he passed when they had 58 years. My mom is 92.
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Post by ToniW on Jun 16, 2023 5:12:48 GMT
This October we will be married for 53 years.
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Post by monklady123 on Jun 16, 2023 9:35:34 GMT
My parents had been married for 76 years when my dad died. The WWII generation. They met in Australia when my dad was in the Navy. He was on shore leave and the local Catholic church held dances for sailors and the young girls. The entrance "fee" was that you had to go to Mass first. lol. So my very not Catholic mother went off happily to mass. hahaha The rest is history, as they say.
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Post by karenlou on Jun 16, 2023 11:54:10 GMT
My Mom passed away just a little over a month before their 60th Anniversary😢
DH and I will celebrate 26 years in October...we got a late start as we were in our 40's when we married ....first marriage for both of us!!!
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Post by hannahruth on Jun 16, 2023 12:26:27 GMT
DH’s parents were married for 60+ years. I’m not sure exactly. We had our 51st anniversary in April.
we met during early years - went to the same church, the same schools - both junior and high school. It was at high school that we began dating, and have been together since.
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Post by epeanymous on Jun 16, 2023 12:37:42 GMT
My parents were married for 60 years (my father died last year, and they married when my mother was 19).
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Post by anniebeth24 on Jun 16, 2023 12:53:17 GMT
Not sure how to calculate for my parents as they could be celebrating 60 this year, but a silly divorce got in the way for about 13 of those years. They remarried 14 years ago.
My inlaws just celebrated 58.
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Post by katiekaty on Jun 16, 2023 13:58:08 GMT
My grandparents on my moms side were married 81 years. They married when she was 16, he was 19.he lived to just over 100. She passed working in the fields at 103.
My DH’s grandparents made 65 years before he passed and she followed four years later.
My parents made it to 56 years when my mom passed and my stepfather passed four years later.
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Post by katiescarlett on Jun 16, 2023 14:06:33 GMT
My parents have been married 61 years.
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Post by compeateropeator on Jun 16, 2023 14:17:46 GMT
My grandparents were married 67 years when my grandfather passed away in 2009. My grandmother will be 101 this year.
My parents will be married 60 years this year.
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Post by iluvpink on Jun 16, 2023 15:13:59 GMT
I think my paternal grandparents made it past 50 years (maybe 55?). My maternal grandparents separated at around 30 years and my grandfather died very soon after (sadly, he took his own life and I have no real memories of him). My stepmother who I grew up mostly with, her parents made it to forty years before her father died).
My dad and stepmother will celebrate 50 years this fall.
ETA I don't know about my great grandparents. I really only know about my dad's side. One set of his grandparents both died somewhat young, maybe 50 and 60?.The other set lived longer. I imagine they made it to 50 years.
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Post by MorellisCupcake on Jun 16, 2023 20:02:30 GMT
Sadly, people in my family don’t live long enough to be married that long. I know my grandparents made it to 50 years but not sure how much beyond that. I’ve had several friends that made it to just over 50 years. With one couple the wife passed away, the other couple I know is at 54 years married and still going strong. DH and I have been together for going on 38 years, married almost 34 of those years. Mine too. My paternal grandparents were married 39 years when he died, and my maternal grandparents got to 38 years when he died. My parents just passed 30 years when my dad died. That's about it for long marriages. I told DH (we had our 30th anniversary on June 12) that I'll have been married longer than my parents by September. It's a weird thought. I think because of all that, it's hard for me to imagine being married 50, 60 etc years.
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Post by nlwilkins on Jun 16, 2023 20:06:29 GMT
husband and I were married for 53 years before he passed this past spring That is the longest I know about in both sides of our families
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Post by Tamhugh on Jun 16, 2023 20:50:17 GMT
My in-laws have been married for 62 years. They were married while he was in grad school and she was only 20. DH and I will have been married 35 years this fall.
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Post by Tearisci on Jun 16, 2023 22:02:51 GMT
my parents are like others and will celebrate their 61st this year.
We celebrated my dad's 91st birthday and their 60th wedding anniversary together last year because they are in the same month.
I think with my dad's age, we'll have a big party for him every year because being over 90 and in fairly good health deserves to be celebrated!
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Post by seaexplore on Jun 17, 2023 4:30:39 GMT
This august will be 54 years for my mom and dad
My paternal grandparents had to be close to 75.
DH and I will be 20 years married (26 together) next year
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Post by Leone on Jun 17, 2023 13:01:06 GMT
We use to have a mountain cabin near Flagstaff...most everyone there had a second home and lived in Phoenix during the winter. So the charming church we would go to had a minister who mentioned he was celebrating his 50th wedding anniversary. He wanted to know how many in the congregation had been married 50 years...well about 90% of the hands went up. So then he asked 55 years. Still most hands were up. Then he asked 60? Well...about 50% of the hands were still raised.
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Post by KelleeM on Jun 17, 2023 13:42:27 GMT
My parents were just weeks shy of 60 years when my Mom passed in 2012. I’m not sure about my paternal grandparents but it had to be over 60 years.
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Post by myboysnme on Jun 17, 2023 23:02:55 GMT
My family is pretty much the poster family for divorce. One set of grandparents probably would have been the winners but grandma died in her 60s.
I honestly can't think of too many long marriages but possibly an aunt and uncle. They are probably at like 55+ years. Another aunt and uncle was probably close to that before aunt died.
But long marriages like more than 50 years, very very few and none at 60+ years for sure.
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