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Post by happyOCgirl on Aug 10, 2023 1:13:25 GMT
Thank you for the update. It sounds like you have such a supportive hospice team. This journey isn’t easy at all. I am sure your new school will support you with whatever you need. The energy in the room as a person is going through the stages before death is difficult to explain. I am sure the hospice team will tell you, whatever you decide to do (go to school, get some sleep, etc) is the right thing to do. ❤️
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katybee
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Post by katybee on Aug 10, 2023 1:44:57 GMT
Update in OP
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Post by katlady on Aug 10, 2023 1:46:18 GMT
I am a so sorry!! Hugs to you and your family.
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snyder
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Post by snyder on Aug 10, 2023 1:48:34 GMT
So sorry to read your update! Prayers for you and your family to have the strength to get through this most difficult time in your lives. Maybe his memories bring you some comfort and peace. {{{Hugs}}}
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 10, 2023 1:48:50 GMT
I'm really sorry katybee. Your brother was lucky to have you and your SIL to care so well for him. I hope your SIL is able to let go of that guilt.
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Aug 10, 2023 1:51:03 GMT
My deepest sympathy to you both.
I'm so very sorry.
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Post by paperaddictedpea on Aug 10, 2023 1:52:15 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss Katybee.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Aug 10, 2023 1:52:25 GMT
How about a big, gentle hug and I hold you while you process this. Losing a sibling is terrible.
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pantsonfire
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Post by pantsonfire on Aug 10, 2023 1:53:36 GMT
Oh I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of love coming your way.
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cakediva
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Post by cakediva on Aug 10, 2023 1:54:00 GMT
Oh Katybee I’m so sorry - hugs to you and your family.
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peasquared
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Post by peasquared on Aug 10, 2023 1:57:00 GMT
Oh, Katy, I'm so sorry. Often times our loved ones go when we step out. It's their way of protecting us and not having that be our last memory.
I hope you are both able to find peace and strength. We are ALWAYS here for you!
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Aug 10, 2023 1:58:16 GMT
I am so sorry. May he rest in peace.
It’s been said, that people wait until they’re alone to pass. I’m not sure why. Big hugs!
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Post by mom on Aug 10, 2023 1:58:29 GMT
Oh Katy, I am so sorry. While I know it has to be hard that you and his wife weren't in the room with him when he passed, I truly believe he probably wanted it that way to protect you. You are in my prayers.
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Post by penguin on Aug 10, 2023 2:01:28 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Post by Lurkingpea on Aug 10, 2023 2:01:36 GMT
Oh, Katy, I'm so sorry. Often times our loved ones go when we step out. It's their way of protecting us and not having that be our last memory. I hope you are both able to find peace and strength. We are ALWAYS here for you! That was my thought too. I think he waited to spare his wife and you the pain. I am sorry for your loss.
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Post by freecharlie on Aug 10, 2023 2:02:55 GMT
I'm very sorry for your loss
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RosieKat
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Post by RosieKat on Aug 10, 2023 2:04:37 GMT
Oh, katybee, I'm so sorry. I know you will (and already do) miss him dearly.
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Post by peano on Aug 10, 2023 2:09:53 GMT
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on Aug 10, 2023 2:12:44 GMT
(((((GREAT BIG HUG))))) I am so sorry
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Post by canadianlinda on Aug 10, 2023 2:13:44 GMT
So sorry to read your update. Please know that we are all thinking of you at this sad time.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 10, 2023 2:20:01 GMT
So very sorry for the loss of your brother ... May you all find peace and comfort during the difficult days ahead..
(((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))
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Post by auntiepeas on Aug 10, 2023 2:20:35 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Aug 10, 2023 2:21:27 GMT
I am so very sorry for your loss. May your brother rest in peace. You and your family will be in my prayers. It was quite evident what a close bond all of you have.
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naby64
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Post by naby64 on Aug 10, 2023 2:21:56 GMT
I am so sorry.
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Post by marmargirl on Aug 10, 2023 2:26:01 GMT
I’m sorry for your loss. 💔
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quiltz
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Post by quiltz on Aug 10, 2023 2:27:28 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
It is very common for people to pass when no one is in the room as I have heard this happen to many people and then they feel guilty. My therapist said that it is very common.
Your emotions will be all over the place, wishing you peace as you learn to live in your *new normal* life.
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Post by calgaryscrapper on Aug 10, 2023 2:31:20 GMT
{{{hugs}}}
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Post by SnoopyFan on Aug 10, 2023 2:35:49 GMT
Oh, I am so sorry.
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Post by Merge on Aug 10, 2023 2:36:46 GMT
Katybee, I am so sorry. Every when you’re expecting it, it’s a shock. What a gift you gave him in being present for the last year of his life. I’m sure he has his wife were grateful for that.
Sending you all my best wishes and support. Please do let us know how you’re doing over time. We are here to support you!
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Post by Basket1lady on Aug 10, 2023 2:38:03 GMT
I’m so very sorry. This has been a long journey for you all. He sure fought the good fight.
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, Rest In Peace.
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