Guys, I’m concerned about a fellow pea

Remember back when I was asking questions about various Oregon cities when I was looking for a house to buy?  My realtor had suggested this senior golf community and wanted to show me a house in the neighborhood.  She had told me it was the largest retirement community in Oregon.  A fellow pea said she thought the realtor had to be talking about the community she lived in and offered to take me on a tour of the neighborhood!  I was thrilled to meet up with a fellow pea and possibly have her as a neighbor.

I met up with her and she took me through the clubhouse and then drove me around the town, pointing out stores that she thought I might be interested in.  Then we went back to her house where I met her husband and we sat in their back patio and visited.  She was just delightful and we talked about walking our dogs together and meeting up at the clubhouse to swim in the pool and use the exercise equipment.  This was all before I purchased the house so I wasn’t sure I was going to get it because someone else had also put in a bid on the home, but we were trying to think positively.

Well, eventually I learned that my offer was accepted and waited to move in.  I tried to contact her to take her to lunch as a thank you for showing me around.  I sent her a couple of text messages from here to let her know that I got the house.  I never got an answer.  

I couldn’t call her because I had replaced my phone and did not transfer over the old information because I wanted a fresh start here in Oregon.  I had written down a few numbers and then reformatted that phone.  I didn’t think to transfer her phone number over.

From what I can tell, she hasn’t posted here since we met and never responded to any of my messages.  I don’t remember exactly where her home was located, I just remember there was an amazing huge tree in her front yard.  I have tried to drive around, hoping to see that tree and find her house but haven’t found it.  I even downloaded Google Earth and have looked at several large trees on various streets in the development.  I haven’t located it.

Then last week I sent her another message on here and decided to reread all the messages between us and was happy to find the message where she sent me her phone number.  I sent a text message to her phone explaining that I purchased a new phone and that I still would love to take her to lunch.  Again, no response.

When she and I were talking as we drove around, she told me she had had a very serious heart attack a year prior.  That is what prompted the discussion of us walking together to help us both lose some weight and to get her the exercise her doctor had recommended.

I know I barely knew her, but I really liked her and felt that we would be great friends.  She recommended multiple places she wanted to show me in the area and the plan was to get together again if I got the house.  If nothing else, I would like to at least take her to lunch to thank her for taking the time to show me the community.

I do not remember their last name or I would look up her address in the community directory.  I have an awful feeling that something bad has happened to her.  And if it did, I would not want to upset her husband by showing up at his front door.  What I had considered doing was to send a thank you card to her house if I found which house was hers on Google Earth.  I am worried that she hasn’t posted here since we met up.  And I know she was quite worried about her health.

I had really hoped that she had just stopped coming here and never saw my messages, but would get the text to her phone and would respond to that but it has been a week now with no response.

Do I just let this go?  Do I spend time on Google Earth looking at the entire community of over 1500 homes looking at every large tree and then send a card to her home?  I just don’t know what to do.