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Post by cadoodlebug on Nov 10, 2023 21:07:11 GMT
Reading your post is almost identical to a friend whose husband of 42 years is divorcing her. Mind boggling identical. I wish nothing but the best for you.
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Post by lisae on Nov 10, 2023 22:25:30 GMT
I'm sorry. You will get through this. Better things await you when all this is past. Lies typically catch up with people so eventually his will come out and cost him.
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Post by AussieMeg on Nov 10, 2023 22:34:02 GMT
Thank you for taking the time to pop in to update us, and let us know you are okay. 😘 Even from this side, it feels like this whole saga has been going on for ages, so I can only imagine how long and exhausting the process feels for you. I feel very optimistic that things will soon start to improve for you, especially now with the forensic accountant on board. I can't wait for this to be over and you can start to heal, and discover how much better your life will be.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 10, 2023 22:40:17 GMT
Sounds like credit card records need major audit! You can do this and come out ahead of him in every aspect of your life!! This as my first thought too. And credit cards that you don't know about, for sure.
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Post by roundtwo on Nov 10, 2023 23:24:04 GMT
I think what is the hardest about all of this is that I have been with this man for almost 40 years, and he clearly cares so little about me. That is hard to come to terms with. This is what really blew my mind as well. I really have no idea how people like this can look themselves in the mirror. Then again, with all the lying and deceiving to us over the years, I guess they have learned how to look past little things like compassion and kindness. We are just pawns in their game and they are pissed off that we have upended the board. I am glad to see that you have friends and family who are there for you. Hang in there. It will get better, I assure you. He is trying to wear you down, but you will eventually get to the truth and your new life can begin. Exactly this. It will get better. I use to hate hearing that when I was in the middle of the war but it really does get better.
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edie3
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Post by edie3 on Nov 11, 2023 4:26:01 GMT
Hugs and peace to you!
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Post by hop2 on Nov 11, 2023 11:15:05 GMT
Hugs
I wish you strength to get thru this and peace & stability after.
You will be so much better on the other side. I am sure of it. You just have to get there.
Many hugs
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Post by peasapie on Nov 11, 2023 11:37:24 GMT
Stay in there and keep your chin up. When this is all done, hopefully you will get the amount of money you deserve. Spouses do this so often, and I’m very happy you will have a forensic accountant involved. I had to do that to get the correct amount of $ when I was divorced.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 11, 2023 12:07:50 GMT
The long slog divorces take a toll. Ask me how I know. But as others have said, once on the other side it’s a whole different world.
Keep your chin up. We’re here for you.
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Post by originalvanillabean on Nov 11, 2023 13:19:57 GMT
(((Hugs)))
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teddyw
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Post by teddyw on Nov 11, 2023 13:33:10 GMT
Hang in there once that accountant gets going you should be in a better place financially.
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Post by stormsts on Nov 11, 2023 13:46:08 GMT
Hugs to you. I am so sorry this is being drug out.
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Post by SallyPA on Nov 11, 2023 15:29:35 GMT
I’m so sorry that it seems so dark right now. There are a lot of unknowns and that is difficult! Hang in there and just keep doing the next thing you need to. Thinking of you!
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