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Post by katlady on Nov 13, 2023 17:04:42 GMT
I have been watching YouTube videos on tips and tricks for the iPhone 15. Almost all of the YouTubers change the Action button from “silent” mode to something else. The reason … EVERYONE ALWAYS keeps their phone on silent.
I don’t keep my phone on silent. I change it when I need to. Do you keep your phone on silent as a default? Just wondering if these YouTubers are the norm or the exception. 😆
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Post by padresfan619 on Nov 13, 2023 17:07:11 GMT
I haven’t taken my phone off silent since I got my first iPhone in 2013.
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Post by bianca42 on Nov 13, 2023 17:12:02 GMT
My phone is always on silent, but mostly because I have an apple watch and any notification that would come up vibrates on my wrist so I don't need sounds.
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Post by Basket1lady on Nov 13, 2023 17:13:11 GMT
Change mine when needed, but I do t have an Apple Watch either.
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Post by sueg on Nov 13, 2023 17:15:17 GMT
My phone is always on silent. I also use an Apple Watch, so it notifies me if there is a call coming in and for any Messenger or WhatsApp messages. I also have Do Not Disturb activated from bedtime until my regular wake up time.
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Nov 13, 2023 17:25:27 GMT
No, but my phone automatically goes to DND 8pm-7am.
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Post by gar on Nov 13, 2023 17:28:57 GMT
No, only at night and things like the doctor's office.
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Post by myshelly on Nov 13, 2023 17:29:12 GMT
My phone is on silent 99% of the time. Vibration is more than enough notification. All of my app notifications are off. I have silence unknown callers programmed. So, my phone will vibrate if I get a text or if someone who is in my contacts calls me. That’s it. I don’t get any other notifications.
It is on DND 98% of the time.
The exception is if my kids are not with me and might need to get ahold of me.
I am of the opinion that everyone’s phone should be on silent so that your apps don’t make noise. I should not have to hear your keyboard haptics, your camera click, your FB chime, your text send swish. I feel like it’s a very “old people” thing to not have your phone on silent.
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Post by gar on Nov 13, 2023 17:31:41 GMT
I feel like it’s a very “old people” thing to not have your phone on silent. Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old?
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Post by iluvpink on Nov 13, 2023 17:33:59 GMT
I change it when I need to. Always on silent at work. Otherwise it depends. Silent for the usual weddings, funeral, movies etc. Usually in restaurants/stores, but maybe not if very casual/loud etc.
At home it's almost never on silent. I do have it on do not disturb at night with a few exceptions for close family/people who might need to get a hold of me in an emergency.
I almost always have all texts silenced except for dh and dd. And most notifications turned off. I hate the distraction.
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Post by lavawalker1 on Nov 13, 2023 17:34:23 GMT
I dont keep my phone on silent as a default, but change as needed (church, movies, etc). I also have an Apple Watch, so I can get notifications if I get a call or text. My DH has his phone set up in focus groups, which I think handles when his phone goes on silent. I may have described that wrong.. …. I’m not very techie 😂
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Post by myshelly on Nov 13, 2023 17:36:34 GMT
I feel like it’s a very “old people” thing to not have your phone on silent. Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old? It’s just my observation that people who are my age or younger keep their phones on silent. People my dad’s age or older (so the generation before me or older) always have their sounds on and don’t even think about them.
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Post by femalebusiness on Nov 13, 2023 17:38:52 GMT
I feel like it’s a very “old people” thing to not have your phone on silent. Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old? Condescension at it's finest.
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Post by Ryann on Nov 13, 2023 17:39:52 GMT
I have my phone on silent - no vibrations or sounds. I only allow a couple of apps to send me notifications and they are also silent - no vibrations or sounds.
I really only turn the ringer on when DW goes grocery shopping. She’s relatively new to cooking/baking and often calls with a question.
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Post by myshelly on Nov 13, 2023 17:39:59 GMT
Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old? Condescension at it's finest. *its 😘😉
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Post by femalebusiness on Nov 13, 2023 17:41:14 GMT
Condescension at it's finest. *its 😘😉 Your eyes must be brown as you are so full of shit.
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Post by lindas on Nov 13, 2023 17:44:45 GMT
I feel like it’s a very “old people” thing to not have your phone on silent. Us ‘old people’ also don’t keep our phones attached to us like another body part all day either.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 13, 2023 17:46:46 GMT
No I don’t have mine on silent because most of the time the phone isn’t directly in my pocket or otherwise on my person so a vibration won’t be any alert to me at all. I put it on DND from 10 pm until 6:30 am even though my phone is left to charge in a totally separate room from where I sleep. I also put it on silent any time where that would be appropriate such as school or church events, movie theaters, etc. I also frequently use my phone for navigation using Bluetooth and that doesn’t work if it’s on silent.
Now I will say that I detest social media posts that have automatic music, video games that have sounds, camera or typing clicks, etc. and I do have all of that always turned off.
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Post by kelly8875 on Nov 13, 2023 17:47:16 GMT
It's on silent at work. Calls from my kids/fiance can come through, and that's it. At home it's on for sound, because I don't carry it all over with me.
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Post by smartypants71 on Nov 13, 2023 17:48:18 GMT
while at work and most public spaces, i keep mine on silent, but at home i typically don't. I never have it on vibrate though. That is the most annoying sound to me.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Nov 13, 2023 17:50:42 GMT
Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old? It’s just my observation that people who are my age or younger keep their phones on silent. People my dad’s age or older (so the generation before me or older) always have their sounds on and don’t even think about them. That’s pretty vague. How old is your dad?
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Post by Kerri W on Nov 13, 2023 17:54:10 GMT
I always keep my phone on silent. It's often in my pocket and I answer if I chose to or ignore it and check in every couple hours. On the weekend when I'm home more I usually put it up on a shelf in the kitchen and go longer periods of time without checking. When using navigation, I plug my phone in and use CarPlay since nav drains your battery so quickly.
I also feel I now need the disclaimer that I am 49. And have made the same observation about generations using the sound on their phone differently.
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Post by gar on Nov 13, 2023 18:06:15 GMT
Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old? It’s just my observation that people who are my age or younger keep their phones on silent. People my dad’s age or older (so the generation before me or older) always have their sounds on and don’t even think about them. So 60+? 70+?
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Post by pantsonfire on Nov 13, 2023 18:20:30 GMT
No because if something medical happens with ds at school they know to call the cell phone first.
It is also on for when dd goes our walking or I am out and she is home and she needs to get a hold of me.
And also on in case my parents have an emergency.
My ringer and The Ring are the only two things with sound.
Everything else is set to no sound or no alert (apps like IG for example)
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Post by Merge on Nov 13, 2023 18:31:02 GMT
I’m 50 and always have my phone on silent.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Nov 13, 2023 18:43:49 GMT
Not complete silence. I keep my phone on vibrate 99% of the time. The vibration alerts me to any incoming phone calls or texts. The 1% ringer on >>> is if something urgent or emergency is happening (someone is in the hospital), then I turn the ringer on at night so I can hear it when I am sleeping. I turn my phone to completely off, for during certain situations (Funeral service, Wedding, etc...), because during moments or time periods of silence .....a vibrating phone buzz, buzz, buzz, etc... can clearly be heard and some situations call for complete phone silence.
I have sensory issues and phone ringing bothers me.
My phone is always next to or near me so I usually hear the incoming vibration, but....I am not attached to my phone 24-7. My phone is for me. My phone is not for other peoples need for instant gratification or sense of urgency. If I am actively working, busy doing something at home, driving, doing something in public (my turn at cashier, medical appt, etc...) the calls go to voicemail and texts can be left pending and waiting. I feel that a 2-3 hour window is an acceptable time frame to return *non urgent* or *not a priority for me* calls or texts. At night, if I am unsure of a persons morning person or night owl status, then I don't call or text after 8:00pm. If I know for 100% certain that the call or text recipient is a night owl, then calls or texts until midnight are permissible and acceptable.
There are a couple select individuals-Family members that know, if there is an urgent or emergency situation happening, to call me is rapid succession (my phone go off vibrating five, six, ten times in two minutes from the same person....will make me at least glance at the on screen notifications).
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Post by Linda on Nov 13, 2023 18:46:51 GMT
53 here - I only silence my phone completely at places like church or the dr's office. But I keep the volume turned all the way down (to mute) and most of my silents are quiet unless I turn the sound on. If it rings when I'm out of the house, I send it to voice mail and then check the caller id - if it's one of my kids, I'll text them and I'll step outside if I need to phone them back. They (and DH) know that if it's an emergency, to call back again right away when they get sent to voice mail and then I'll step outside and take the call.
I do have it on DND in the late evening/overnight and my kids/DH are exceptions and so is anyone who calls twice from the same number in 5 minutes. That way I should get any emergency calls. We don't have elderly relatives - we're the elderly relatives, lol.
I'm home the majority the time though
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Post by wordyphotogbabe on Nov 13, 2023 18:47:08 GMT
I put my phone on silent when I have a meeting for work, go to the library, go to church, and/or am attending a show/movie/etc. It's on DND from 11 pm - 7 am.
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Post by Katiepotatie on Nov 13, 2023 18:51:53 GMT
Do you now I'm curious, what do you consider old? It’s just my observation that people who are my age or younger keep their phones on silent. People my dad’s age or older (so the generation before me or older) always have their sounds on and don’t even think about them. I get this. My mother-in-law (mid-80s) only recently learned that she could keep it silenced in the day time AND that she didn’t have to answer every call. She was complaining about all the telemarketers interrupting her day.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Nov 13, 2023 19:00:02 GMT
I don’t consider vibrate to be silent so I may have voted incorrectly. Mine is silent most of the time, vibrate a few hours a day, then with sound when I am home and expecting a call but don’t want to carry my phone around (seldom occasions)
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