artbabe
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Post by artbabe on Dec 26, 2023 14:17:38 GMT
She had cancer and had stopped eating so I knew she was going to die soon- she just picked an awkward day to do it.
Two days ago she slept with me. She never sleeps with me and I always wanted her to. I stayed in bed until 1 pm spending time with her. I finally had to get up and go to the grocery store.
When I came home I couldn't find her. I didn't see her for 24 hours, so I thought she found a place to die in my house so I went around looking for a body. Still couldn't find her. After we opened presents my sister came over and helped me look. We found her, alive, hiding under my cabinets by the dishwasher. There is a bit of baseboard missing and she went in there. I pulled the dishwasher out and got her out. Twenty minutes later she died. So weird. I'm glad I found her before she died, though. I was afraid I wouldn't find her until she began to stink.
She was my buddy for 16 years. I lost my other 16 year old cat in July. So last night was the first time in 16 years that the house was empty. It was really weird.
As soon as I finish this cup of coffee I'm taking her to the vet to be cremated.
It isn't a huge shock so I'm at peace with it, but I did have a little trouble sleeping last night.
I know I'll not be able to handle an empty house so I'll probably end up with another cat next week. Doesn't mean I didn't love her- I actually got her two days after my very first cat died. I couldn't stand coming home to an empty house.
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mimima
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Post by mimima on Dec 26, 2023 14:22:10 GMT
I'm so sorry. I'm glad that you were able to cuddle with her yesterday.
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Post by malibou on Dec 26, 2023 14:42:04 GMT
Indeed on the bad timing, but I'm glad you found her alive. RIP kitten!
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on Dec 26, 2023 14:44:15 GMT
I’m sorry. What a crappy day for her to pass. I’m glad you found her and were able to give her loves until she passed.
One of our cats (out in the morning/in at night) hasn’t been home since 12/14. We are assuming she got into it with a predator. The other 2 don’t seem to miss her.
If I may suggest, get a bonded pair when you choose new fur balls. ❤️
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Post by Linda on Dec 26, 2023 14:52:37 GMT
(((Hugs))) I'm so sorry for your loss
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Post by peano on Dec 26, 2023 15:06:14 GMT
I'm so sorry about your cat. Sixteen years is a good long life and I'm glad you were able to find her.
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Post by gillyp on Dec 26, 2023 15:16:22 GMT
I’m so sorry.  |
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Post by KelleeM on Dec 26, 2023 15:18:40 GMT
Aw. I’m glad you found her when you did. Hugs.
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MDscrapaholic
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Dec 26, 2023 15:24:57 GMT
Oh geez, I'm glad you found her when you did! I've heard animals/people like to die when others aren't around. Big hugs. I'm sure she'll be missed.
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Post by librarylady on Dec 26, 2023 15:26:41 GMT
My condolences.
It hurts when a long time pet dies.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Dec 26, 2023 15:28:53 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by mom on Dec 26, 2023 16:01:05 GMT
I am so sorry.
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valincal
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Post by valincal on Dec 26, 2023 16:40:45 GMT
I’m so sorry. 😢
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 26, 2023 16:55:31 GMT
I'm so very sorry to hear about your kitty. ((((HUGS)))). You mentioned getting cat now and I think that's a great idea. I lost my buddy and it was hard. A week later we rescued my big kitty who is an absolute sweetie. Then we rescued another little guy a couple years later. Two kitties is an ideal number. Rescuing another cat helped me to heal. It didn't make it less sad, just gave me someone new to love.
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Post by Lurkingpea on Dec 26, 2023 17:01:51 GMT
I am very sorry. I hope her passing was peaceful. I think it is wonderful you are already open to another cat. That is a wonderful way to honor your pet. By sharing your love with another cat. Gentle hugs to you.
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Post by leannec on Dec 26, 2023 17:07:18 GMT
I'm very sorry!
Yes, rescue another cat ... or two!
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Post by katlady on Dec 26, 2023 17:07:49 GMT
Hugs!!
I find it so touching that your cat wanted to be near you in the end. Our cat was dying and she came looking for me. I held her in my lap and she passed within 30 minutes. Cats know. They also know who loved them. Once again, big hugs to you!!
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Post by freecharlie on Dec 26, 2023 17:09:02 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss
We adopted our current cat within a week of suddenly losing our previous. It was the right choice for us
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Post by quinlove on Dec 26, 2023 17:32:27 GMT
((( artbabe ))) I’m so sorry.
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Post by quietgirl on Dec 26, 2023 17:56:33 GMT
I'm really sorry
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luckyjune
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Post by luckyjune on Dec 26, 2023 18:07:37 GMT
I'm so glad she got to spend her last minutes with you. So sorry for this loss.
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Post by lisae on Dec 26, 2023 18:44:20 GMT
I'm very sorry.
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Post by hop2 on Dec 26, 2023 18:55:07 GMT
I am so so sorry.
Hugs
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Dec 26, 2023 19:06:38 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by karenlou on Dec 26, 2023 19:10:09 GMT
Good that you found her... So sorry for your loss. She sounds as thought she was good company for you (((HUGS)))
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Post by Delta Dawn on Dec 26, 2023 19:29:35 GMT
I am so very sorry for the loss of your baby kitty. My pets are my babies. Yours are too, I am sure. Getting a new one tomorrow sounds like a lovely idea. Maybe 2.
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Post by scrapcat on Dec 26, 2023 20:21:29 GMT
I'm so sorry. I was hoping this was somehow a resurrected post bcz I remember you losing a cat earlier in the year. Glad she is at peace.
I think for cat ppl, the most loving thing you can do in honor of your kitties is to open your home/heart to others bcz there are so many out there in need. Rescues near me are overrun, a lot of ppl who adopted during the pandemic are "surrendering" pets back because now they are traveling again and I guess don't want to be responsible.
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Post by Zee on Dec 26, 2023 20:33:58 GMT
Oh I'm so sorry. 😢
I am like you, had to have another kitty after my cat died. I felt a little guilty at first because I only waited about 3 weeks, but my heart was so broken without him that I really needed another kitty to focus on and ease the pain.
There's no right or wrong answer! ❤️
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katybee
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Post by katybee on Dec 26, 2023 21:36:48 GMT
So sorry for your loss. She wouldn’t want you to be lonely or sad. Get another kitty if that’s what your heart is telling you.
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frankiegirl
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Post by frankiegirl on Dec 26, 2023 21:38:55 GMT
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you found her and was with her when she passed. It is so strange in the house when our pets are gone. There are so many cats that need love and you will know when the time is right.
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