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Post by Deleted on Jan 31, 2015 3:08:04 GMT
Mom and I are going on vacation. Mom is 72, and finds that swimming in the ocean can be intimidating because she is afraid of being knocked down by the waves. Any suggestions?
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Gravity
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Post by Gravity on Jan 31, 2015 3:14:59 GMT
How about staying at a beach resort where your mom can wade in the very edge of the ocean, but swim in the pool?
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styxgirl
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Post by styxgirl on Jan 31, 2015 3:29:22 GMT
Florida Keys? We were there last May for a day. Beautiful, warm, clear water and no waves.
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Post by betty on Jan 31, 2015 3:39:38 GMT
Anna Maria Island, FL. We rented a house right on the beach a few summers ago and my mom stayed in the water all day! I'd never seen her swim in the ocean before that. She was hanging onto one of the kids boogie boards and just floating in the warm water. She still talks about it.
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Post by janniepea on Jan 31, 2015 3:56:49 GMT
Napili Kai beach resort in Maui. Gorgeous beach, calm waves, incredible views, sigh!
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Post by gorgeouskid on Jan 31, 2015 4:08:59 GMT
Napili Kai beach resort in Maui. Gorgeous beach, calm waves, incredible views, sigh! This is exactly what I was going to post. We loved it for DS, who started going when he was about three.
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Post by Loydene on Jan 31, 2015 4:29:51 GMT
Gulf Shores Alabama --- and along that coast. Beautiful water, sugar white sand that extends a long way out. Plenty of places to stay ... and Mo's BBQ (Oh Gawd .... southern pulled pork BBQ and marinated cole slaw)
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Belle
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Post by Belle on Jan 31, 2015 4:33:44 GMT
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Post by brookeq on Jan 31, 2015 4:49:41 GMT
north redington beach florida was very nice. It is near lots of other places. We took a day trip to Fort De Soto beach which was ranked #1 in the country at one point.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Jan 31, 2015 13:00:51 GMT
Cayman Islands. Grand Cayman is mostly surrounded by a reef. So the waters are very calm and very shallow. I would stay near rum point. You can walk out really far and the water won't be up to your waist.
It is some of the clearest water too. Really beautiful
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Post by mushypeasandchips on Jan 31, 2015 13:06:56 GMT
Any of the Virgin Islands have gorgeous warm white sand beaches with few waves
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Post by brina on Jan 31, 2015 13:30:13 GMT
Cayman Islands. Grand Cayman is mostly surrounded by a reef. So the waters are very calm and very shallow. I would stay near rum point. You can walk out really far and the water won't be up to your waist. It is some of the clearest water too. Really beautiful this is what I was going to say.
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Post by trixiecat on Jan 31, 2015 14:02:07 GMT
Aruba definitely. I don't agree with the comment on any Carribean Island. We just went to St. John's. The pull of the water going back into the ocean was extremely strong on some days. Once you got out past that point it was very calm.
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Post by librarylady on Jan 31, 2015 14:17:24 GMT
I have no idea if this is still possible, as beach development may have ruined the possibility. When I was young, we went on the "backside" of Galveston Island and swam in the bay water. It was like a giant saltwater pool. Probably any island has a side with no waves.
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Post by shannoots on Jan 31, 2015 14:21:59 GMT
Aruba definitely. I don't agree with the comment on any Carribean Island. We just went to St. John's. The pull of the water going back into the ocean was extremely strong on some days. Once you got out past that point it was very calm. We just went on a cruise and we stopped at Aruba....it had the biggest waves of any of the ports and I was actually a little nervous with the kids swimming. We had a similar experience in St. Maarten a few years ago.
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Post by M in Carolina on Jan 31, 2015 14:27:30 GMT
The Atlantic side of the Eastern US does have some strong riptides. It depends on the weather and the time of year. It's not something that can be predicted.
I grew up at Atlantic Beach, NC, and every year we'd have several people drown from the riptides. They'd still swim even when the red flags were up.
I'd go to a place that had a protected bay or cove. Weather affects the waves, so even if the weather isn't ideal, the protected bay/cove will still be calm.
I also think finding a resort with a great pool is a good idea. Sometimes the salt water can itch and burn. Sometimes there can be algaes in the water that cause rashes or if the weather has been stormy, a lot of sand gets pulled into the waves and can irritate the skin. This is another reason to pack a couple of swimsuits so you can switch if you get a rash.
As much as I love swimming in the ocean, my skin really likes the pool better. Also, don't skimp on sunblock. I made the mistake of grabbing a generic sunblock for a rafting trip. I was the only one who slathered sunblock on my skin all day, and I was the one who got sun poisoning.
I hope you and your mother have a great trip. I'd also look for a resort that had lots of good wooden or concrete boardwalks around the resort. My MIL doesn't go to the beach because she can't walk in the soft sand to get to the water. There is a great public boardwalk at the beach where I live, so she's gone there to sit and look at the ocean.
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Post by anxiousmom on Jan 31, 2015 14:48:44 GMT
We spend a lot of time on the west coast beaches of Florida. The majority of the time, the water is calm and there are no strong waves or currents. I can (and do) spend all day just hanging on to a pool noodle floating in the water. However, there are times when the weather or the moon or whatever interferes and even the calmest beaches get strong waves that will knock you over. It doesn't happen very often, and in my experience doesn't last long-like it can be awful in the morning but by lunch time, calmed down to nothing. I say all the time my favorite times are when the ocean is like a bathtub-calm and warm. Someone mentioned Anna Maria-beautiful beautiful beautiful beaches. North Reddington is also a great place to go. There was a storm a couple of years ago that eroded and shortened the beach, but they have been doing some work and it is as nice as it was before. My kid was at Pass-a-Grille a couple of weekends ago and said that it was perfect. Really there isn't a bad beach along that stretch of the coast.
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Post by candygurl on Jan 31, 2015 15:00:49 GMT
Love this beach! We went last year with my 2 yo nephew and it was perfect for him. Actually, we all loved this place because some other beaches in Kauai were too rocky for us, but this place and the others you mentioned are great! Also love the one beach at the north end of the island. Forgot the name but starts with an 'H'.
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Post by kckckc on Jan 31, 2015 15:00:56 GMT
Cayman Islands. Grand Cayman is mostly surrounded by a reef. So the waters are very calm and very shallow. I would stay near rum point. You can walk out really far and the water won't be up to your waist. It is some of the clearest water too. Really beautiful this is what I was going to say. I was going to say this too. I am a fairly weak swimmer and I felt comfortable.
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Post by 950nancy on Jan 31, 2015 15:59:24 GMT
We stayed in Negril, Jamaica. Our hotel was nestled inside a cove. The water was very warm and calm. It was the Riu Tropical Palace.
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Post by beachbum on Jan 31, 2015 18:41:42 GMT
We live in SW Florida - I love Sanibel Island or Captiva. Very calm water most of the time (a storm in the Gulf can give us some small waves, nothing like the Atlantic coast, tho), great shelling, wonderful restaurants... just a great relaxing place. Before we moved here we would rent a condo at Sundial, but there are many wonderful places right on the beach. In Captiva I would go to South Seas. Love the area.
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Belle
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Post by Belle on Jan 31, 2015 21:48:10 GMT
You might also consider buying or renting a boogie board for her. She can sit on top of it or hold onto it.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 1, 2015 2:03:56 GMT
Thank you for all of your suggestions! I've been looking at each and every one. I think I might have overwhelmed Mom though...because now she says she wants to go back to the Riviera Maya in Mexico, "because we know our way around." LOL. She's been there twice, I've been four times.
She loves X-Caret, and wants spend a day there. I know a private guide in the Tulum area, so we can skip all the big bus excursions and just hire him to take us where we want to go. I'm looking at resorts in Akumal Bay...mom wants to see the turtles.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Feb 1, 2015 18:36:55 GMT
Aruba definitely. I don't agree with the comment on any Carribean Island. We just went to St. John's. The pull of the water going back into the ocean was extremely strong on some days. Once you got out past that point it was very calm. We just went on a cruise and we stopped at Aruba....it had the biggest waves of any of the ports and I was actually a little nervous with the kids swimming. We had a similar experience in St. Maarten a few years ago. It depends a lot on time of the year and cycle of the moon. I think almost anyplace can have strong tides, as the tide is going out. It is important to pay attention to High and Low tide. That said.. the reef is so far out at Rum Point you don't get the pull unless there is a storm coming.
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Post by likescarrots on Feb 1, 2015 19:40:30 GMT
If you're expecting calm oceans, do not go to Kauai. We went in the summer and there were few swimmable beaches, and the ones that were, were still really rough (mostly people boogie boarding/body surfing/jumping in the waves).
I think there are some southern caribbean islands that have very gentle oceans. I've been to Bonaire which is extremely calm, great for snorkeling, but there aren't many beaches, mostly places where you have to get into the water from rocks or rocky shore line.
My favorite island is Maui, and you can find many calm swimmable areas, but there are still waves. We just returned mid january from a trip and there was some rough areas and some calm areas. I found though, that the rough waves were RIGHT at the shoreline and once you got past that break it was pretty calm.
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Post by Mary_K on Feb 1, 2015 21:11:36 GMT
I'll second Poipu Beach on Kauai - it was perfect when my kids were toddlers!
Mary K
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Post by myboysnme on Feb 1, 2015 22:33:40 GMT
San Juan Puerto Rico. I spent alot of time just hanging out in water up to my neck; so warm and beautiful and few waves at the shore line.
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Post by Kate * on Feb 2, 2015 17:32:15 GMT
Puerto Rico. There are beaches you can easily float in and some where you can snorkel right off the beach.
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Post by scorpeao on Feb 2, 2015 17:55:33 GMT
Love this beach! We went last year with my 2 yo nephew and it was perfect for him. Actually, we all loved this place because some other beaches in Kauai were too rocky for us, but this place and the others you mentioned are great! Also love the one beach at the north end of the island. Forgot the name but starts with an 'H'. Anini beach is great. I hate being pushed and pulled by waves while snorkeling...freaks me out. This is the first beach where I felt totally at ease while snorkeling.
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