Post by putabuttononit on May 16, 2015 3:39:05 GMT
Kody has been making some bad choices, as well as lashing out and being jealous and controlling, and our dd had to make the difficult decision to end their relationship.
He has taken it very VERY badly, to the point where we kept our dd out of school for several days because he wouldn't leave her alone. He constantly tried to find her, even stalking her friends. He even texted me at all hours demanding access to our dd. At first she spent hours trying to comfort him, and remain friends. He got worse and worse, and she got scared and pulled back.
We alerted the principal, school counselor, and his sister of his emotional state. We shut down our dd's social media and phone so he couldn't affect her or scare her with his photos/status stuff. We have been extremely worried that he might self harm, or even snap and hurt us or our dd.
its been a rough week, but things were settling down, I thought. But today he ramped up again, demanding several of her friends "deliver" a letter to her. They refused. There are only a few days of school left,but everyone at school is protecting dd, while still trying to comfort Kody. She has permission to pass from class to class five minutes after the bell, so she's never found in the hall. She spends most of her time in the nurses office. The school counselor asked Kody to come and talk with her, and he refused.
He leaves for vacation in ten days, and that can't come soon enough for us. His sister is aware of the situation and she's making sure he doesn't come over here, or get a ride anywhere to where our dd is. I am very thankful he doesn't have a license.
We are keeping a very close eye on our dd, and for now we have asked her not to go to her "usual" hangout spots. She is staying pretty close to home, and not putting photos on her Instagram about where she is or who she is with.
I got his sister some information about a good counseling center for youth. We still care what happens to him, but for now at least he needs to stay away. We need to protect our dd. He simply isn't stable.
He has taken it very VERY badly, to the point where we kept our dd out of school for several days because he wouldn't leave her alone. He constantly tried to find her, even stalking her friends. He even texted me at all hours demanding access to our dd. At first she spent hours trying to comfort him, and remain friends. He got worse and worse, and she got scared and pulled back.
We alerted the principal, school counselor, and his sister of his emotional state. We shut down our dd's social media and phone so he couldn't affect her or scare her with his photos/status stuff. We have been extremely worried that he might self harm, or even snap and hurt us or our dd.
its been a rough week, but things were settling down, I thought. But today he ramped up again, demanding several of her friends "deliver" a letter to her. They refused. There are only a few days of school left,but everyone at school is protecting dd, while still trying to comfort Kody. She has permission to pass from class to class five minutes after the bell, so she's never found in the hall. She spends most of her time in the nurses office. The school counselor asked Kody to come and talk with her, and he refused.
He leaves for vacation in ten days, and that can't come soon enough for us. His sister is aware of the situation and she's making sure he doesn't come over here, or get a ride anywhere to where our dd is. I am very thankful he doesn't have a license.
We are keeping a very close eye on our dd, and for now we have asked her not to go to her "usual" hangout spots. She is staying pretty close to home, and not putting photos on her Instagram about where she is or who she is with.
I got his sister some information about a good counseling center for youth. We still care what happens to him, but for now at least he needs to stay away. We need to protect our dd. He simply isn't stable.
I hope your dd stays safe and that Kody can find the help that he needs.
