Find my first love. Do you know what happened to yours?

He is snoring in my bed at the moment. And tomorrow we will celebrate our daughter's birthday. 

We met on my 18th birthday. we dated other people after we broke up in high school and then he went away to boot camp and other military training (reservist) but we got back together our sophomore year of college. Actually one of the reasons we broke up in high school was that he was feeling too serious too quickly and it scared him (he told me he thought he loved me after only a week, and he even mentioned the idea of marriage at one point.) We pretty much knew when we got back together that we would be getting married eventually. Been married 16 years so far!

Sure do, he's gay and living in Dubai...how's that for strange?
He was my high school boyfriend, my first kiss at 13 and we did that "on again off again" high school romance thing for almost 5 years.

He came out the year after high school...I was so relieved! We stayed friends and I house shared with his sister for a time when I first moved out.
He moved to a different state and started his own business and didn't pay enough tax, it took a few years but he finally got caught, he got massive fine and was lucky to avoid jail, so he went to work in the Middle East to earn more money. That was about 15 years ago and he rarely comes home anymore.
We catch up every few years and I am still friends with his two sisters, so I always know where he is and what he's doing.

We are Facebook friends. He is a minister with a house full of kids. I probably should have predicted that - I knew he would end up teaching in some way.

I only vaguely know of the area he lives in.

He died in a motorcycle accident.

I love that peas married there first love!!

His name was Paul Sullivan, we lived on Lewis Ct in Huntington, NY, and we were in 3rd grade together. Alas, I last saw him in 1973.

Reconnected a few years back when we were both single, had a great time, and went our separate ways. I will pretty much always live out West and he will pretty much stay back East. Other than that, we are a great match and I will always appreciate our connection.

I have no idea - his family moved away in 8th grade and I was heartbroken

My true love came along many, many years later. Due to some interesting timing, his first love wanted to become my BFF when we became engaged. She was married with 3 kids and her husband was always very wary of my DH because my DH & his wife were first loves (even engaged). Her husband was very happy to see us become engaged and suddenly very open to us hanging out with them once he was convinced my now DH wasn't going to steal his wife away.

pjaye something similar to that happened to a friend of mine but it gets even more interesting. Great friends in HS, started dating in college. He left her, came out and moved across the country. She was heartbroken and we were still in touch for a few years. I lost touch with her and then heard through the grapevine at out most recent HS reunion (I didn't attend, but a mutual friend did) that she moved to the same city, also came out and that they have a biological child together (each in long term same sex relationships).

Mine is doing the same thing. 

I better never see my first love again as long as I live. And If I do it might be the first time I go to jail. 

I'm friends with him on FB. The first time I saw a picture of him I thought "what was I thinking" ...funny how your feelings change as you get older. It was nice to reconnect with him because I did enjoy his family but I dodge a bullet with not marrying him. 

My first love lives in Olympia, WA. I was born in Las Vegas but we lived in the northwest for a few years when I was a teenager. We met when we were both 13 and it was love at first sight. Like skyrockets! We dated and broke up because he cheated on me. We moved back to LV right after I turned 15. I didn't talk to him for several years. I found him on MySpace in 2009 and we are now friends on FB. But I think he's a loser and has several children all with different women. I am very happily married to my dh and have a better life than I could've had with him. My dh is the love of my life!! ?

I married mine too. Started "going out" in senior school & stated together for a couple of years (he was at college by then, he's 3 years older than me). Split for about 6 months when he bumped into my brother in law, told him he was miserable & BIL said "well, she's fine now but you should give her a call..." We've been together ever since, married for 21 years

I'm not sure what he's up to. I do know he's still in the area as I see him around town once in a while. Never talk to him though. Last time I did, I had a hard time not focusing on this weird growth on his tongue. Since I often need to read lips to understand people, that was all I could see. Now if I see him, I move on in a different direction because I'm afraid that growth is still there. He's still fat and once was still rocking a mullet. Oh, what the hell was I thinking? His family was a hot mess then and still is.