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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 15:15:01 GMT
my husband is coming over next Monday and we're going away for a few days and I am NERVOUS. Like stomach churning, sweaty palms, feeling shaky nervous! I haven't seen him since the beginning of May and I miss him like crazy so why do I feel like this? Told you I was being an idiot  |
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Post by scrappert on Jul 20, 2015 15:18:59 GMT
because you miss him and love him? You are supposed to get nervous, and I think that is great!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 15:21:55 GMT
Sounds like love to me!  |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 15:22:25 GMT
because you miss him and love him? You are supposed to get nervous, and I think that is great! I know it's mostly excitement but I am not enjoying this. It's almost as bad as our first date when I was so nervous I was almost sick on him  |
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Post by anonrefugee on Jul 20, 2015 15:23:51 GMT
Sounds sweet!, have fun!
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Post by scrappert on Jul 20, 2015 15:25:22 GMT
because you miss him and love him? You are supposed to get nervous, and I think that is great! I know it's mostly excitement but I am not enjoying this. It's almost as bad as our first date when I was so nervous I was almost sick on him Well, hopefully you don't do that!! I know being away from the SO brings back some nervousness and excitement. Not a bad thing! I hope you guys have a great time. I remember that you guys are in different places, so enjoy and have a great time together those few days.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 15:27:45 GMT
I feel the same way every time my DH goes away. He's in the Army and we've been apart on and off for the last 2 years. Now he's deployed. I'll be excited but nervous when he comes home in 6 months.
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Post by Nicole in TX on Jul 20, 2015 16:01:37 GMT
My DH has been away for several 5 month stints during our marriage. I understand your feelings!
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Post by jenjie on Jul 20, 2015 16:03:24 GMT
I'm so glad you're having this time together. Enjoy the butterflies  |
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Post by dockmaster on Jul 20, 2015 16:16:24 GMT
DH and I have been married 20 plus years. He has deployed dozens of times in those 20 years and I still get butterflies when he 1st comes home. I worry that maybe he finally came to his senses and will no longer want me. Irrational, maybe, but time and distance changes people sometimes. So far for us it makes us stronger and has kept our marriage fresh, but for others not so much. So I have that fear.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 16:19:20 GMT
Sounds like love to me! I am rather fond of him dockmaster that is my exact fear. jenjie, thank you. I hope you are doing ok? |
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Post by dockmaster on Jul 20, 2015 16:39:08 GMT
Lainey, my guess is he is just as worried as you are. Absence makes the fond grow harder if you know what I mean. The Navy has a thing they call the cycle of deployment. If you Google it, it may help you understand what you both have been/will be feeling. It is a real thing. These days I don't cycle as much as when our marriage was new, but I do go through it. Good luck and have a wonderful homecoming!
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Post by roundtwo on Jul 20, 2015 16:51:41 GMT
I'm pretty sure your nervousness means you are doing it right.  |
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Post by happymomma on Jul 20, 2015 16:54:54 GMT
Aww. I don't know your situation but my husband and I live apart. When we get together to do things or go places it often feels like a date to me too. I don't get nervous but it makes me want to get all dolled up, put on good perfume, fix my hair just right, etc. It's a good feeling! I hope you enjoy your get together. Your post makes me smile. |
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Post by JoP on Jul 20, 2015 17:00:58 GMT
A www @bumpsy it must be   Enjoy your time together |
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Post by mikklynn on Jul 20, 2015 17:47:06 GMT
I hope you have a wonderful time and all goes well.
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Post by christine58 on Jul 20, 2015 18:43:55 GMT
Where has he been??
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 18:52:25 GMT
hope you both have a wonderful time!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 19:36:06 GMT
Due to family circumstances he's living in Ireland and I'm living in the UK. We usually both live in Ireland. |
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Post by ~KellyAnn~ on Jul 20, 2015 19:52:23 GMT
Does he know you feel this way? I think it's so sweet! Although, I'm sorry you are living apart right now.
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Post by gar on Jul 20, 2015 19:54:29 GMT
Ya big soppy I bet he'd be flattered to know  |
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Post by originalvanillabean on Jul 20, 2015 19:55:57 GMT
Awwh, I think that's sweet! Enjoy |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 20:02:57 GMT
because you miss him and love him? You are supposed to get nervous, and I think that is great! I know it's mostly excitement but I am not enjoying this. It's almost as bad as our first date when I was so nervous I was almost sick on him @bumpsy that made me chuckle. You'll be fine. Hope you have a lovely time, you deserve a little me time with your DH. |
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Post by jenjie on Jul 20, 2015 20:11:00 GMT
Sounds like love to me! I am rather fond of him dockmaster that is my exact fear. jenjie, thank you. I hope you are doing ok? Doing ok thanks. <3 Make the most of this time together. If you are able, just DATE each other. Maybe discussions of burdens and responsibilities and stuff could wait til later. |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2015 20:15:23 GMT
They absolutely can, we have a fun week planned |
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Post by BarbaraUK on Jul 20, 2015 20:18:26 GMT
I know how you feel @bumpsy - and this week could seem a very long one! Have a lovely few days away with your husband. |
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Post by moodyblue on Jul 20, 2015 20:42:33 GMT
I hope you have a wonderful time!
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Time to get off the internet!
Enjoy your time together 
