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Post by Zee on Jun 25, 2014 21:58:23 GMT
I'm not actually serious, I love that man. But I am just a bit miffed because last year we basically tore up all our roots to move to PA from IA. We had to live apart for 9 months while he found a house, we bought it, we transferred DS and the pets, and I embarked on an epic journey to finish repairs and updates and packing and purging 20+ years of accumulated stuff to sell that house, say goodbye to all my friends and family, the job I've mostly loved for 15 years, and move across the country...and--so what's he doing right now? Talking to one of his former bosses...the company has changed hands and management and wants him back on the team. "Keeping the options open", he says.
I'M NOT EVEN...
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Post by Zee on Jun 25, 2014 21:59:13 GMT
Discuss amongst yourselves and flame away while I make tacos and contemplate murder.
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Post by padresfan619 on Jun 25, 2014 22:00:40 GMT
Oh HECK no. You are a saint.
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Post by back to *pea*ality on Jun 25, 2014 22:00:38 GMT
Hope it all works out the way you want it to.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 25, 2014 22:01:36 GMT
Ack. I'd be ordering in. Heck, I might be going out. Alone.
{{{ hugs }}}
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Post by Dictionary on Jun 25, 2014 22:04:08 GMT
OMG, I would be pretty ticked off. Hopefully this works out in your favor.
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johnnysmom
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Post by johnnysmom on Jun 25, 2014 22:04:53 GMT
I think a jury of your peers would find you innocent of any crime you commit against him for this  |
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Post by Mystie on Jun 25, 2014 22:07:51 GMT
OMG. I would be contemplating murder, too!
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Post by fruitysuet on Jun 25, 2014 22:27:24 GMT
Ugh beyond frustrating. I can't imagine. It's bad enough contemplating moving house locally never mind all of that.
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Post by BeckyTech on Jun 25, 2014 22:29:24 GMT
OMG. I'll hold your earings.
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Post by gottapeanow on Jun 25, 2014 22:47:15 GMT
Oh. My.
My niece packed up and moved to Kentucky with her dh a few months ago for a job. Her son is on the spectrum, so you know how difficult changes are. The job fell through. So they moved back in 3-4 months. I don't know how she did it. And she just posted nice anniversary wishes to him on FB as well. Better her than me....
Lisa
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jun 26, 2014 13:20:12 GMT
Oh HECK no. You are a saint. I second that!! I would lose my sh!t, for sure! |
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Post by lovemybabes on Jun 26, 2014 13:24:59 GMT
Oh wow...that is a lot. LOL!! Yep, tacos & murder sounds about right. |
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Post by bumble on Jun 26, 2014 13:32:51 GMT
We moved for dh's job in March. We did not sell our house (yet) , dh's employer is paying all our living expenses in our new city. I read your post and am so glad I have "out" for now if this doesnt work out.
Moving is a lot of work! Especially with kids and pets.
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Post by lmz1234 on Jun 26, 2014 13:39:12 GMT
So is he still alive? Or will you never update this post because you're in jail? And I agree, not a jury of your peers would convict. But would you be okay with moving back?
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Post by janesays on Jun 26, 2014 14:05:19 GMT
I feel for you! This happened to me too and it was an overseas move. UGH!! Yes, vent away!!
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Post by BoilerUp! on Jun 26, 2014 14:14:16 GMT
I think a jury of your peers would find you innocent of any crime you commit against him for this ^^^^ perfectly said! ^^^^ Although, in a couple of years - I personally want to move to Texas and we have lived in Inidana for our entire lives. DH has worked for the same company for 27 years and I have worked for the same company for 13. I'm just not cut out for 4 seasons anymore! |
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Post by cahwoo on Jun 26, 2014 14:17:45 GMT
I packed up and moved to a brand new built for me house also in Pa. Lived there by myself for 9 years. Then the stock market crashed in 2008 and we lost the house.
I moved back to our old place Husband never sold it and I had to clean it up everyone I knew is gone. I have to make new friends again. Oh well that is life. I'm making the best of what I got left.
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Post by gloryjoy on Jun 26, 2014 14:18:36 GMT
And they say woman are fickle and can't make up their minds!!!
I've been married 31 years. I love my husband but there are times when I just shake my head.
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Jun 26, 2014 20:25:32 GMT
We'll be your alibi. "She couldn't have killed him. She was on the message boards with us all nite."
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Post by CarefreeSadie on Jun 26, 2014 20:50:40 GMT
I have to admit the first thing I thought was but now your house is all cleaned out from all that clutter one collects from years in one house. It will be so much easier to move this time.....LOL Sorry and good luck with tacos and murder!
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Post by Windy on Jun 26, 2014 21:21:16 GMT
We can probably help you make bail. I'm in for $5.
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Post by st1tches1 on Jun 26, 2014 21:28:08 GMT
one of my favorite CHICAGO (the show) songs---- HE HAD IT COMING!! If you'd a been there- you would have done the same!
All of us agree.
THIS would cost him- I would DEMAND a new scrapbook room out of the deal!
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Post by Jamie on Jun 26, 2014 21:44:06 GMT
Not the same situation, but we moved into my parents in Feb while we looked for a house. We close on our first house 2 weeks from today. I've hired movers this time as there was no way I was moving us again (hubby is disabled and can't lift above 10 lbs) So we've moved 2 times in 4.5 months. I can't imagine moving states away though
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Post by Zee on Jun 26, 2014 22:01:30 GMT
Thanks ladies, esp for the offer to hold my earrings--I lol'd! I think he still feels bad about uprooting us all last year, and feels that if the old company were to pay enough, we'd all like to move back. The truth is though that I don't want to move my high-school age son again, our DD is in cosmetology school, and we just got his mother moved into her own place out here so that's really not going to work. I think in the end only I would be happy with moving back, and it's not about just me! Plus, there is still winter in SE PA but it's not nearly as bad as winter on the frozen IA tundra. I won't miss that. I think I got him to realize that he wouldn't actually be helping anything if he wanted to move back so soon. The tacos were excellent, BTW  |
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Post by matthewsmom on Jun 26, 2014 22:23:38 GMT
Oh wow. I'm all for adventure, but that's enough for an insanity plea any day!!
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Post by quiltz on Jun 30, 2014 16:40:02 GMT
Wow, moving a high-school child, one in post-secondary and his mom?
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Post by cynipidae17 on Jun 30, 2014 16:52:34 GMT
I would take a vacation and let him do the move back
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Post by cannes on Jun 30, 2014 17:17:21 GMT
I think a jury of your peers would find you innocent of any crime you commit against him for this That. Definitely!
I think a big glass of wine is in order. And the proclamation that if another move is the end result, DH is doing the logistics. Including all the packing and unpacking!
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Post by bbkeef on Jun 30, 2014 19:29:33 GMT
I think you need to drop hints that you need a "spa day" for your mental health paid for by DH. It's a ton cheaper than a trip to the psych ward and/or prison.
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